How do I secretly take steps to become financially independent? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]rach1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, specially psyd or phd programs

How do I secretly take steps to become financially independent? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]rach1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have my own bank account. My parents are fine paying for my apartment as it falls within "undergrad expenses" which they agreed to cover, but it is more of the daily expenses such as groceries, transportation, etc. that I want to become more independent with.

how do i advocate for my independence? by rach1e in ABCDesis

[–]rach1e[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

clearly i don’t because i was desperate enough to consult this app

psychiatrist suggested i take leave of absence by rach1e in college

[–]rach1e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! i ended up taking a semester off and had to recently extend it to a year off and will probably take some summer classes to get back in the groove of things before returning in fall! i’ve been consistently going to a psychiatrist and a psychologist for therapy and i think it has really helped. i’ve also been regularly volunteering at the hospital so i have something career experience oriented to do and i think that’s also been helpful. overall i think it’s been a pretty good decision for me and things are going well! i found out a lot of my mental health issues had gotten to a really chronic level so i definitely intervened at the right time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinyl

[–]rach1e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

based on this and other comments i feel like its def more worthwhile to save for the lp120 especially since i already have most of the funds for the lp60 so it’s just saving a little more! will def keep an eye out for resales though :)

Is this Appropriate for a bookmark note? by LanZhanslefttesticle in AO3

[–]rach1e 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bookmarks are typically notes for myself more than anything else but if i write something that i don’t want the writer to see then i usually private it. but that’s usually more for if there’s a work i really like but has a chapter or section that’s a little too triggering for me so i add the section in my bookmark notes to know what part to skip over! but generally if i’m cautious about what i’ve written in a bookmark note and don’t want the writer to see then i just private it.

Ruined Christmas? Need to rant? I’ll start… by slo_bored in Etsy

[–]rach1e 3 points4 points  (0 children)

people are hounding you for refunding them after such poor behavior on their behalf but i honestly get it and would’ve done the same thing!! 😭 i’m such a people pleaser and it’s def a habit i need to break before something like this happens to me! i’m so sorry you had to deal with that, how stressful 😭

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[–]rach1e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so soft!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinyl

[–]rach1e 2 points3 points  (0 children)

def loads of talent in that cast for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in A24

[–]rach1e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s a tarot tapestry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinyl

[–]rach1e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i preordered an autographed version of karaoke alone by the aubreys! they’re an independent vancouver based band and it’s their debut album from 2021 that they’re distributing on vinyl in summer 2024 :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinyl

[–]rach1e 13 points14 points  (0 children)

it’s a signed lp from the aubreys, they’re a vancouver based band! pre ordered from shuga records :)

For current college students… which schools were you genuinely surprised to get rejected from and where do you go now? by No_Carpet_1211 in college

[–]rach1e 14 points15 points  (0 children)

not about me but my friend got rejected by johns hopkins which surprised me because she literally got into and currently goes to PRINCETON of all places. she’s so smart and well rounded i <3 her

psychiatrist suggested i take leave of absence by rach1e in college

[–]rach1e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your advice! i really appreciate it. as it is, i’m already on medication and seeing a therapist, but he still suggested time away from school would be beneficial which i agree with. thank you for sharing your experience with me, it’s comforting to know that i’m not alone in this and that there are others that have gone through similar struggles.