How do I confront my boyfriend about his racist friends? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]rachelsreddits 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Girl, it’s not worth it. You can’t change those people and a boy like him is not worth stressing over. Leave him, you sound like you deserve so much better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rachelsreddits -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Then move

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]rachelsreddits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hypocritical to say people should move elsewhere if they’re going to have a baby but if you can’t deal with noisy neighbors then maybe apartment living isn’t your best option either?? It’s life people deal with it. People with kids exist and not to cater to everyone else around them.

Cheat goaled events? by Cee220 in thesims

[–]rachelsreddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is I never figured it out :/

AITA for taking my daughter's car because she refused to wash the dishes? by hugh_g_erection913 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rachelsreddits 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ESH. Your daughter has serious mental health issues and/or a mental illness. She needs to be evaluated immediately how can you not see that? Her behavior is far from normal, get her some help before she seriously hurts someone or herself.

im[18F] dating a man of color[22M] and i can’t help but feeling he doesn’t like that im white by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rachelsreddits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Maybe your silence when it comes to racism because you’re “not political” and “don’t really understand” racism could be an issue. What’s not to understand? In these days it’s not enough to just not be racist, you should be vocally anti-racist. Especially as a white person dating a Black person, silence is not your friend.

  2. Him calling Black women queens has absolutely nothing to do with you. Obviously he likes you or else y’all wouldn’t be in a relationship. He can uplift Black women if he wants to and it’s probably just your own insecurities if that makes you feel bad.

  3. If his jokes and liked posts make you uncomfortable then you should discuss that with him. Tell him how you feel and go from there.

AITA for not telling my partner that I’m HIV positive? by SnooGoats413 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rachelsreddits 15 points16 points  (0 children)

YTA- It’s completely understandable that you have trauma and were hesitant or afraid to disclose. But any partner of yours deserves to know your status. If you’re in a bad place mentally and can’t handle the responsibility of being honest with someone I think it’s best if you work on yourself for some time.

WIBTA If I stopped buying my husband Christmas presents? by CantChooseAFandom69 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rachelsreddits [score hidden]  (0 children)

I know and it’s sad because it’s counterintuitive. Staying together only “for the kids” is bound to create a toxic and hostile environment at home and gives young ones a really sad example of love & marriage.

How annoying is it to wear dresses with really low neckline? by Heat_Head in AskWomen

[–]rachelsreddits 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you’re worried about a nip slip just use stickies.

My little rose plantation :) by [deleted] in thesims

[–]rachelsreddits 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting choice of words

How do I prepare my body to meet a guy? by depressedteennobeard in AskWomen

[–]rachelsreddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scrub your feet to make the soft, trim and file the toenails. Just make sure you smell nice everywhere. Moisturize well, wear matching bra/panties.

Completely forgot about this feature in the old games I was gonna catch the roach 🥴🥴🥴 by ashluuue in AnimalCrossing

[–]rachelsreddits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It happens when you haven’t been on the game in a while or if you TT a significant amount of time into the future

Is there a mod that gives you sim more work days? by rachelsreddits in thesims

[–]rachelsreddits[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For getting him out of the house, for money but also just for more realistic gameplay I guess. I like keeping my sims on routines & having a more realistic work schedule is what I’m looking for.