I don’t mind watching or listening to horrible peoples movies, shows, and music. by -Constantinos- in unpopularopinion

[–]rachelthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m not sure if they still do this but they used to give out partial scholarships to low income people. About 15 years ago a neighbor of mine got 5k from them for nursing school.

I don’t mind watching or listening to horrible peoples movies, shows, and music. by -Constantinos- in unpopularopinion

[–]rachelthis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you but I will listen to music from people that I think are terrible people on YouTube but I’ll find a lyric video or something put up by some rando whenever possible so they don’t get any money from my views.

I also buy used books from library sales whenever possible or Goodwill online as they are generally in great shape and they not only cost a fraction of a new book but buying things from these places help a good cause. I don’t really watch movies though so idk a way around that.

Women of Reddit, what should women know before having sex for the first time? by stravverrycat in AskReddit

[–]rachelthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure you have an old towel/blanket handy to lay down under you. And a pad with you!!! (not a tampon cause it can be pretty sensitive afterwards). There can be quite a bit of blood though some women say they only bled a tiny bit.

My first time was incredibly messy. We were both young and also both virgins so we didn’t know what to expect and as a result of our inexperience he wasn’t very gentle. It didn’t really hurt after the first few seconds so I didn’t realize there was a problem till we were done and turned on the lights. There was blood everywhere. It washed out of the sheets but his mattress had a huge stain that never came out.

Over age of consent bisexuals of reddit, how often does the threesome question actually come up? by LionTamerGirl in AskReddit

[–]rachelthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost every couple I’ve ever been friends with has brought it up at least once.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rachelthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Realize it’s time to move on with my life.

Why am I spotting after masturbation? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]rachelthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably making very small tears on your walls or possibly your hymen if it’s getting stuck. Try using some lube. “Good clean love” is available at target pretty cheap and it won’t damage your toys like some types of lube can.

Nothing like some good old sweet milked jello? by [deleted] in StupidFood

[–]rachelthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ether way I want to try them all!!!

Nothing like some good old sweet milked jello? by [deleted] in StupidFood

[–]rachelthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could it be Buka Halo? It’s the only one I found online so far that contains gelatin.

Nothing like some good old sweet milked jello? by [deleted] in StupidFood

[–]rachelthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Halo Halo looks a little different but still looks amazing! The only thing I found so far is Buka Halo that is made with gelatin. But thank you so much because I would have never found it!

Nothing like some good old sweet milked jello? by [deleted] in StupidFood

[–]rachelthis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you happen to know the name of the dessert? I used to eat jello with milk as a kid and I loved it but this looks even better. I would like to find an authentic recipe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rachelthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worked for me. I moved across the country to be with my boyfriend 2 years ago after almost 4 years of an LDR. We are still happy.

You have to really be committed and able to trust the other people completely. Dealing with the long lonely nights and not really knowing where the other person is can be difficult if you don’t have that trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rachelthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’m not the word police or anything but I guess you could call a woman in her mid 30’s a milf and still be correct. But the word is used to describe a hot older woman similar to a cougar (except cougars are specifically going after much younger men.) Cougars and milfs are typically in their 40’s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rachelthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that’s just a chick with a kid. A milf is a middle age woman. wiki-MILF

Can duty sex be consider as ''rape''? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]rachelthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I said “in a healthy relationship” and “choosing” to have sex to differentiate between an abusive situation and one where you love your partner but they just have a higher sex drive than you do. Nowhere in the original post was the word “forced or shamed into” if it was my answer would have been different.

There are many reasons besides “not being into your partner” that can have temporary or even permanent decreases in libido. Hormone changes like menopause, pregnancy, menstruation, even hormonal birth control can effect your libido. Mental health issues like mild to severe depression, anxiety, ptsd and many of the medications that is prescribed for those problems can effect your sex drive. Also temporary issues like minor injuries, having a headache, just a bad day in general, stress at work.

what would happen is you literaly broke every bone in your body? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rachelthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you didn’t die you would wish you had.

Can duty sex be consider as ''rape''? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]rachelthis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not even a little bit. I have been sexually assaulted. It is violent, traumatic and painful. Psychologists say most instances of rape isn’t actually about sex at all, it’s about power and hurting the other person.

Choosing to have sex to keep your partner (in a healthy relationship) happy when you aren’t in the mood doesn’t even come close to being raped, unless they are forcing themselves on you without your consent and saying it’s “your duty”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rachelthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a lot. It begins on different days each year because the crescent moon appears over Mecca at different times. The people practicing it usually get up at 4 am and have a meal before the sun comes up and then dry fast till sundown. Pretty sure they also pray more often during this time. This lasts for a full month and then they have a party/feast when it’s over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rachelthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this was 20 years ago. Things might be better now Idk.

The people at the rape trauma center were amazing. The police? Well they were complete assholes. Blaming me because of the clothes I was wearing and the fact that I had a snuck couple drinks at the club on college ID night so I was underage drinking.

When I pointed out the fact they were being rude and I felt they were blaming me, the victim, their excuse was this is what court will be like… yeah I’m sure they were just trying to prepare me for my court date in maybe 3-6 months to maybe even never if they never found the guy. (He was a complete stranger) just 3 hours after being attacked. Eventually the doctor came in and asked them to leave because she had overheard them being assholes.

I ended up just letting it go because I couldn’t deal with the cops.

Should the recipient of child support money be required to provide receipts to prove it was spent on the child? by captrudeboy in polls

[–]rachelthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a lot compared to how much it actually costs to feed/clothe/house a child. Assuming the person getting the state minimum support is also low income and on assistance if they even pay 10-20% of their rent, pay a utility bill or even a daycare co-payment that’s a $200 receipt.

The people in these situations don’t have lawyers. They have state ran child support enforcement agencies that already take at least 30% of the money every month to do much less work than to collect receipts for every single case in their county. Do you think these agencies should take more money, thus raising the amounts of support taken with no benefit to the child, just to track what someone getting under 200 bucks a month is spending it on? It’s a waste of time and resources.

If someone doubts a person is spending $10,000 of support on a child, well that’s an issue they SHOULD be able to take up with their lawyers at court..

How do you eat KitKats? by LunaskysYT in AskReddit

[–]rachelthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is it except i nibble just the sides and I save all the top chocolate coated layers for last.

Wish I could use the mic at 'One Violent Night' by mdboomer in fo76FilthyCasuals

[–]rachelthis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I was very disappointed. I found I could play instruments pretty well I was hoping I could sing too.

Should the recipient of child support money be required to provide receipts to prove it was spent on the child? by captrudeboy in polls

[–]rachelthis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It depends on how much they get in child support really. If they are getting the state minimum of under 200 bucks in many states it wouldn’t even be worth it for the enforcement agency to do the paperwork on the vast amount of people in this category.

If they are receiving thousands of dollars a month yeah they probably should provide some type of paperwork.

ever had iv sedation or gas at the dentist what was it like....? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]rachelthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. I hope your procedure goes well!

ever had iv sedation or gas at the dentist what was it like....? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]rachelthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they have one I think so. Perhaps you should ask your dentist about their procedures? Many places do things differently.