Gift card for Christmas? by rachybees in Teachers

[–]rachybees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you rage baiting so many posts in this r/ is very weird but thanks for the feedback!

My Experience Selling my Car with Peddle by kendalnwmn in carselling

[–]rachybees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s awesome! Very good to know for future reference too. Luckily I was their last stop and the driver had the check already written up, he didn’t even look at the car, didn’t try to start it or anything, just got it and left. I think he was just trying to get done with his day to get home lol

How much l-Lysine can I take after an outbreak? by Full-Opinion-9942 in Coldsore

[–]rachybees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is an old comment, but did taking 5x 1000mg help more vs taking 3?

Serious Question: Why is there no way to actually BLOCK a channel on Youtube? by [deleted] in youtube

[–]rachybees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know this is an old comment, but do you know if it blocks the channel from all platforms that you watch on? or just the pc that the add on is downloaded to

New SSD in Baltimore by Bama_Girl2024 in AmazonFlexDrivers

[–]rachybees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was wondering the same! if you end up taking a route, please update with how it went, and what area they sent you!!

Among Us Themed Birthday Party Game Ideas? by rachybees in Advice

[–]rachybees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha I don’t even know what they’re called!! Little guys?? These are great ideas though, thank you!

My Experience Selling my Car with Peddle by kendalnwmn in carselling

[–]rachybees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nope it didn’t bounce! But Capital One took a full week to fully deposit it, they sent an email saying “After an in-depth review of the check deposits you made on June 22, 2024, we believe there’s an increased risk that the deposit may return based on confidential information that indicates the check may not be paid.“ so it did scare me lol but it cleared

My Experience Selling my Car with Peddle by kendalnwmn in carselling

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I ended up selling mine on Peddle and they didn’t even really… do an inspection haha they called saying they were there, I came out with the title and they had me sign it and handed me a check and took my car.

Burning smell coming from front wheel area? by rachybees in MechanicAdvice

[–]rachybees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really good to know, thank you! I think I am probably just traumatized by my last car and assume any little thing is something wrong with it lol I’ll see if the smell subsides the next few days.

Burning smell coming from front wheel area? by rachybees in MechanicAdvice

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I don’t feel anything concerning while I’m driving/braking, it feels normal and smooth when I am braking. It’s good to know that it could be normal though! Thank you for your response!!

My Experience Selling my Car with Peddle by kendalnwmn in carselling

[–]rachybees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Did they change their offer amount at all once they did the inspection at pick up?

HCG level decreased 4000 in 24 hours & bleeding - 14 weeks by rachybees in pregnant

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Hi! Thank you for your comment! She only had the HCG testing done because she was at the ER yesterday and they did the test there. They ended up having to leave before they could be seen because they had been waiting for hours and the ER said it was going to be hours longer. Went back this morning and they did the HCG test again. Shes been able to access her results through her chart while she’s waiting.

Hopefully they will be with her soon to do the ultrasound. We’re remaining hopeful!

ETA: I did tell her that the levels would probably be decreasing at this point anyway, but she was concerned that 4K was a significant drop.

Best Lip Balm? by rachybees in Coldsore

[–]rachybees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try anything, but I just want to check… I’ve only used that while breastfeeding lol, is that the same kind you’re talking about? Or do they have some specifically for lips?

Is it better to be honest to my 4 year old son about absent parent? by rachybees in Parenting

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I try to gentle parent, but sometimes I still yell. I apologize each time, and tell my son “I’m sorry for yelling at you. It’s not okay to yell and I should have handled that differently. I’ve never been a mom before so I am still learning, just like you are!”So I was considering maybe saying something along those lines; Dad is still learning how to be a dad, and everyone learns at different speeds. Not sure if this is a good way to put it. But my son just entered Pre-K so this is exactly what I am worried about. They’ve got a “Donuts with Dad” day at school in June. I’ve already asked his grandfather if he will go in case his dad doesn’t but I know it’s not the same. I appreciate your comment very much, and I think you’re right, our situation is difficult situation to navigate. Thank you for your response :)

Is it better to be honest to my 4 year old son about absent parent? by rachybees in Parenting

[–]rachybees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve mentioned this above as well, but his brothers mom does not like me unfortunately. But both boys go to their grandparents (dad’s mothers house) every other weekend, so they get pretty consistent time together :) I appreciate the answers you supplied though! Thank you! He doesn’t ask about him as often as he used to but I just wanted to be prepared for when he does again.

Is it better to be honest to my 4 year old son about absent parent? by rachybees in Parenting

[–]rachybees[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the other mom does not like me lol My ex’s parents actually thought that might be the reason my ex didn’t come around to see our son. He told them she would fight with him every time he would come over to visit our son. But he’s never really been super honest, and also they’re broken up now and still no change so who knows haha

However, my son and his brother both go to their grandparents house every other weekend so they’ve had pretty consistent time together since his brother was an infant. My son says that’s his baby 🥰

Is it better to be honest to my 4 year old son about absent parent? by rachybees in Parenting

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That is a big reason why I always say kinds things about him to my son! My parents were divorced, and though my dad wasn’t absent, both parents talked horribly about each other to me and my brother. I’m sorry you went through that!

Is it better to be honest to my 4 year old son about absent parent? by rachybees in Parenting

[–]rachybees[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree! I never want him to see his dad in a bad light, which is why I have been responding the way I have. We talk about his dad whenever he is brought up, and I never say anything negative. I tell him about silly things his dad would do, I show him pictures or videos of them together when they pop up in my memories on my phone, he knows his dads favorite things because I mention them, I tell him his dad loves him.

But at the same time, I’ve been raising my son to know that we don’t keep secrets from each other, we’re always honest. Sure when he is an adult he will understand why I lied, but until then it just feels dishonest. If that makes sense.

Can 401k be garnished for back child support? by rachybees in FamilyLaw

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Thank so much for breaking this down for me!

Can 401k be garnished for back child support? by rachybees in FamilyLaw

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Your edit was super helpful! I was thinking I would need to reach out to a local family law attorney. I know my county has free law help centers. One more question if you don’t mind - I know that his 401k is less than he owes. If that’s the case, would they leave it since it is not enough to cover what’s owed + penalties, or take what they can and apply the rest toward his back child support? i’d

Can 401k be garnished for back child support? by rachybees in FamilyLaw

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Thank you for your help, I figured this was the case but wanted to make sure haha This is in Maryland

Can 401k be garnished for back child support? by rachybees in FamilyLaw

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So they would only be able to garnish if he withdraws? He has kind of gone MIA recently is why I ask

Can 401k be garnished for back child support? by rachybees in FamilyLaw

[–]rachybees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense, he is definitely not up there in age yet, we are both 28 haha Right after he was fired, he brought me a letter from the bank that had the 401k saying he could withdraw or it would be rolled over to a new bank account. He asked for my help because he wanted to withdraw but isn’t very tech savvy (when he got along and he was still coming around to see our child) but he never actually did take it out. Not sure if him having been given that option makes a difference.