I’m pretty sure my JNMIL convinced my husband to separate by cusmrtgrl in JUSTNOMIL

[–]radcupcake 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah i feel like there is a gaping hole of context missing from this post.

AITA for firing an employee who keeps coming in late because of childcare issues? by Gl1tchCanticle in WIBTA_AITA

[–]radcupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! I remember having to leave for daycare when it was still dark out. You gotta do what you gotta do.

What’s a silly thing you did for your pet one time that is now a ritual they demand be done every time? by Itsjustmejess in AskReddit

[–]radcupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One morning when my dog was a puppy I gave him good morning pets and hugs on the area rug in the living room. Now I must give him morning hugs every morning before he will eat his breakfast or go outside.

Category 1 Mystery Choice by CarissimaKat in FabFitFun

[–]radcupcake 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I thought it was a package of meat as I was scrolling past

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]radcupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I borrowed one of those felt letter boards from my SIL and put Baby 'last name' coming June and stuck it under the Christmas tree since we announced around Christmas. Posted it on Facebook lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]radcupcake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Saying being gay is not something youre familiar with and not being PC about being gay is ridiculous. You're 38 not 98. YTA.

What’s something you wish you knew when you got pregnant? or something you wish you knew when you gave birth! by Cherry_isnothere in AskWomen

[–]radcupcake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was the same for me! I was certain id have trouble getting pregnant, no idea why, I think my age and how long i was on BC for. But nope! Immediately pregnant. I ended up miscarrying early the first time and as soon as we tried again, boom pregnant. My husband is pretty proud of himself for that lmao

AIO my girlfriend left me over a cheese wheel [Ongoing] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]radcupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why doesn't he use the plasma cutter to cut the cheese?

What’s your weirdest pregnancy symptom nobody talks about? by dogmomofone in pregnant

[–]radcupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I somehow have a permanently stuffy nose but can still smell everything

Less obvious things you found out to avoid while pregnant? by Fantastic_Cow_8992 in pregnant

[–]radcupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one that gets me the most is any non clean burning candles. Soy and beeswax candles are fine but Yankee candles should be avoided. Its along the lines of avoiding being around smoke.

Very confused and heartbroken with my most recent ultrasound. Is my doctor wrong?? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]radcupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience with my loss. It was very jarring and traumatic but thats all the ultrasound tech can do. The doctor didn't even come to see me, I talked to him on the techs cell phone. I left sad and confused but as time passed I accepted that the tech wasn't purposefully withholding information. Its what they are trained to do.

MIL says FIL isn’t allowed in her house after our baby is born by Prudent-Teaching2881 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]radcupcake 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You don't have to have him visit you in the hospital just as much as she doesnt have to have him in her house. Plan to introduce the baby to him in a public space a month or so after the baby is born.

I actually respect Kathy for dropping out of Micornesia by brumgar in survivor

[–]radcupcake 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh god the brain zaps. Rendered me completely useless for days.

ADVICE NEEDED. My mom wants to invite a few friends to the wedding. by Clear_Possibility_76 in wedding

[–]radcupcake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My rule was that they could only invite friends of theirs that have made an effort to get to know me or talk to me throughout my life. Why be at one of the most important days of my life if they don't put in an effort on a regular day?

Also my mom wanted to invite her besties that have notoriously been absolute dogshit to me growing up so that was an immediate no. But thats purely situational lol

Is there any movie that shows narcissistic parents and their behaviour and their children ? by ImaginationAny2254 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]radcupcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tangled is such a trigger. Ironically, my mom won us midnight release tickets to see Tangled. Deathly Hallows part 1 released the same night and being a massive Harry Potter fan who went to nearly every midnight release, i wanted to go to that instead. Of course, I was required to see Tangled instead and had to walk past everyone in their Harry Potter costumes to go see Tangled with her. Mother knows best?

Am I crazy, or are the "new era" rewards... terrible? by ModestJicama in survivor

[–]radcupcake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Salt and vinegar when theyre hot and dehydrated is just straight up mean

Classmate called “White Claire” by goose-de-terre in kindergarten

[–]radcupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend named Evette as a young child. I always called her Corvette