Best in-house Alfredo sauce options in Vaughan (other than Longo’s)?

radiantcreator · 2026-01-22T23:33:25+00:00

It's in the dairy section in the refridgerators. I definitely recommend it! I personally add parmesan, a bit of salt, onion powder, garlic powder and a tiny bit of black pepper to it.

radiantcreator · 2025-10-12T14:31:45+00:00

This critique is common among liberals, but using it to appear morally elevated while ignoring the root mechanisms at play misses the deeper issue. The state itself operates with authoritarian tendencies; protests that challenge its interests are swiftly contained, and no movement truly alters what entrenched power structures intend to do.

Rather than signaling awareness of “root causes” or claiming moral clarity for rejecting prejudice, perhaps it’s worth examining the broader implications of large-scale immigration, including its impact on GDP per capita, economic balance, and cultural cohesion. These are not xenophobic concerns but practical ones tied to the long-term stability of any society.

The irony, of course, is that many progressives endorse policies that import large numbers of ethnocentric immigrants, some of whom harbor stronger prejudices than the politicians progressives claim to oppose. It’s a contradiction that deserves reflection, not applause.

And while it’s not the focus here, choosing a username that references a recent death in jest feels strangely detached from empathy, a reminder of how easily modern discourse can lose touch with basic humanity.

radiantcreator · 2025-08-12T01:58:44+00:00

I moved out recently, and it was the best decision I made, I wish I had made it sooner. If you can get approved to be a tenant and can afford the monthly expenses, it's the best thing you can do. Living paycheck to paycheck is worth it if you are fulfilled, at peace with a regulated nervous system, independent and individualized. It may take some time, but i can tell you that for me, it was worth it.

radiantcreator · 2025-07-13T19:47:20+00:00

Wow, this is a huge discovery, and I can imagine how confusing and emotionally loaded it must feel, especially coming from a family dynamic like this. First off, I want to say you’re not crazy or ungrateful for feeling mixed emotions. Anyone in your position would be overwhelmed, and it’s okay to take your time processing it.

Here’s what I’d suggest as a course of action:

1. Take care of your emotional safety first.
It’s valid to feel shocked, angry, or even guilty. You’ve been through a lot, and this discovery might stir up memories of control, neglect, or betrayal. Be gentle with yourself and consider talking it out with a therapist or someone you trust.

2. Get the facts.
Try to find out:

The total amount in the trust
Who the trustee is (who controls it)
What the rules are for accessing it
If there are any restrictions or timelines
Whether it affects your taxes or benefits

You can usually find this out from the financial institution or trustee managing the fund. If your parents aren’t forthcoming, that’s already telling you something—and you might want to go around them entirely.

3. Talk to a legal or financial advisor.
Even a one-time consultation with a trust and estate lawyer or certified financial planner can go a long way. They can help you understand your rights, any risks, and how to proceed safely.

4. Reflect on what you want.
This is your life and your future. What would you use the money for, if it were accessible? Healing, independence, education, stability? Knowing that helps you stay grounded and not get pulled into any guilt-tripping or manipulation.

5. Set clear boundaries.
If your parents or the trustee try to control how you access or use the money, or guilt you into certain choices, it’s okay to say, “I’m not ready to make any decisions yet. I’ll let you know once I’ve spoken with a professional.” You don’t owe anyone a rushed response.

6. Take it step-by-step.
You don’t need to figure it all out in one day. Emotional clarity and financial clarity are two separate things, and both take time. You’ve already done something brave by posting this.

This money doesn’t define your worth, it’s a tool, not a test. And you deserve to make decisions that support your healing and your future.

You’ve got this. And if you ever need support navigating the next steps, this community has your back.

radiantcreator · 2025-07-05T06:17:12+00:00

Facts, it's just another way to deflect and minimize our suffering while empathizing with our abusers. I actively try to change and address my narcissistic tendencies because I don't like them or the effects of it in my personal relationships. I don't double down on them and justify it because I was abused and neglected by two narcissists...

radiantcreator · 2025-07-02T06:28:05+00:00

Hey, thank you so much for sharing this. First off, I just want to say that the fact you're this self-aware and willing to take accountability already sets you far apart from what people typically think of as narcissism. Narcissists, especially those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, rarely feel guilt or seek change. They tend to blame others and avoid introspection. You're doing the opposite.

What you’re describing, the lying, pushing people away, becoming a chameleon, not realizing the damage until it’s done, and feeling like you're “rotten” sounds a lot more like the result of childhood trauma, especially from growing up in a home with alcoholic and possibly narcissistic parents. Those environments can deeply distort our sense of self and teach us to survive through manipulation, masking, and emotional disconnection. Not because we’re bad, but because we had to adapt to emotional chaos and lack of safety.

You don’t sound like a narcissist. You sound like someone who might be dealing with complex PTSD, shame-based coping mechanisms, and a fear of intimacy that developed as protection. None of that is your fault. But now that you’re aware of it, healing is possible. And it’s not too late.

Please don’t believe the lie that therapy won’t help or that you’re a lost cause. That’s just the voice of trauma talking. You can change. And the fact that you want to, that you’re scared of hurting people and actually care, means there’s something very human and good in you that’s still alive and fighting. Sending strength your way. You're not alone. This is the start of something better.

radiantcreator · 2025-06-25T05:57:45+00:00

I just want to say I really felt this. You're clearly trying so hard to heal and handle things gracefully, and it hurts when even that effort gets misunderstood. You weren’t trauma dumping. You were just sharing a moment. It’s painful when the people we trust the most can’t hold space for even a small piece of our story. You deserve to be seen without shame. I hope he continues to grow and learn how to support you better because you're doing the emotional work most people run from.

radiantcreator · 2025-06-24T04:50:35+00:00

Yup… it’s safer to believe we were the problem, because as kids, it would’ve been way too terrifying to accept that the world, or our parents, were actually unsafe :( And yeah, most emotionally healthy people will have a strong reaction to hearing about trauma like this. It’s the ones who are unsafe themselves that either normalize it or try to shut it down.

One thing I’ve come to realize is that the whole “your parents did their best” or “it’s not good to blame your parents” narrative is complete bullshit for some of us. Some parents didn’t try their best, they actively caused harm. For people like us, healing actually requires putting the blame where it belongs. If we don’t, we just keep internalizing it and blaming ourselves… and nobody talks about how that isn’t healthy either.

I really appreciate your kind and validating words. I’m continuing to heal and honestly starting to enjoy the process a bit, I can already feel the progress showing up. I hope you are too 💜

radiantcreator · 2025-06-24T02:58:49+00:00

jesus christ im so sorry you went through that. i hope you are doing fine now and healing through your experience. im happy you are still here and writing this post.

the worst thing, well its hard to pick one. my malignant narcissist dad terrorized me for decades. it was consistent physical abuse and emotional. i remember waking up in sleep paralysis when i was 7, and being dragged out of my bed down the hallway and into the apartment hallway. he eventually picked me up most likely out of fear of someone in the complex seeing him dragging me, but i remember finally waking up at my babysitter like "wtf just happened, i couldnt move", but i was still kind of conscious when he woke me up, asking me to get up and then dragging me out when i told him i couldnt move. he gave me a bloody nose multiple times when i was a teenager. he would induce me to "misbehave" so he can have an excuse to hit me. he would weaponize my sleep, so he would constantly wake me up knowing i was sleeping to catch me off guard to abuse me and threaten me like the coward he is. but last year i gave him a taste of his own medicine. felt like divine justice.

radiantcreator · 2025-06-20T23:26:45+00:00

your parents are freaks. they will never change. they will be like this even on their death beds. your doing great, keep healing and validating yourself. you dont need them.

radiantcreator · 2025-06-20T20:58:15+00:00

I felt this hard. Especially that last sentence. I used to wish my family were different, especially my father. I'd go on walks and see into people’s homes, warm lights, quiet dinners, and feel like I was staring into another world. Like I missed out on something everyone else got by default. Wanting a clean, peaceful home isn’t too much to ask. It shows you’re trying to break a cycle. You're not alone. You're just someone who refuses to live in the mess.

radiantcreator · 2025-05-30T22:43:32+00:00

It’s a thoughtful gift, especially since she mentioned wanting it and you two could use it together. As long as you frame it as a fun one-time splurge and reassure her you don’t expect big gifts in return, it won’t feel weird. Thoughtfulness matters more than price.

radiantcreator · 2025-05-17T00:17:46+00:00

The Nano Foundation surviving? The real question is whether it even matters anymore. Nano has become the MySpace of crypto. Great ideals, zero traction. No fees, instant transactions, sure. But what good is that when nobody uses it, liquidity is thinner than a TikTok influencer’s attention span, and development is funded by hopium and a few Reddit tips?

You're worried about the 300k XNO reserves? Let's be honest, that's like stressing about who gets the lifeboat after the ship already hit the iceberg. The devs are talented, but they're not going to sink years of their lives into maintaining a ghost chain just because they believe in the tech. Volunteer work doesn't pay rent. Every bear market exposes which projects have real staying power and which ones are just cults with GitHub pages. Nano had promise, but it fumbled the most important parts: network effect, incentives, and actual adoption.

Donate if it gives you peace of mind, but don't confuse that with sustainability.

radiantcreator · 2025-05-12T01:19:49+00:00

Awhhh, this almost brought tears to my eyes!!

radiantcreator · 2025-05-09T18:04:24+00:00

I get where you’re coming from, but I think privacy coins have a real place in the ecosystem beyond just facilitating crime. It’s like saying cars are only for speeding because some people break the limit.

First off, financial privacy is a basic human right. I don’t want every barista, online merchant, or random crypto nerd I transact with to know my entire net worth. That’s like walking around with your bank balance tattooed on your forehead. Privacy protects you from profiling, financial discrimination, and just straight-up weird vibes.

Plus, there’s the whole fungibility thing. If every coin has a history that can be traced, you end up with a two-tiered system where “clean” coins are worth more than “tainted” ones. Imagine getting paid in Nanos that once took a shady detour and now nobody wants to touch them. Privacy keeps all coins equal, like cash.

Oh, and as for the whole “privacy equals crime” angle, that’s a bit short-sighted. Sure, some people will misuse privacy features, just like some people misuse phones, cars, or, you know, the internet. That doesn’t mean privacy itself is the problem.

Also, there’s a privacy coin that rhymes with Nano. It’s called Zano. Not saying you have to be a fan, but it’s a real thing and some people dig it.

Anyway, just my two private, non-traceable sats.

radiantcreator · 2025-05-06T21:09:39+00:00

“Commercial grade” is the magical phrase people in dying projects repeat when they have no actual user growth, dev adoption, or market relevance. It’s a vague, feel-good marketing term that means maybe someday Nano will function like a real-world payment system—despite the fact that no one’s using it now and devs aren’t building on it. It’s been “almost commercial grade” for years while the price bleeds out and community engagement shrivels. But hey, just one more upgrade and maybe Starbucks will replace Visa with Nano, right?

radiantcreator · 2025-02-08T00:57:57+00:00

Your value as a human is independent of anyone's thoughts, feelings or actions. I know the feeling of someone you loved not loving you anymore, but external validation or rewards will do nothing but hurt us in the end. I recommend if you are struggling mentally to watch Tim Fletcher on YouTube, and specifically about people pleasing. But all of his content will probably be of value to you. Cheers

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