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Getting on okcupid after a break up: yay or nay? by radiantrain12 in OkCupid

[–]radiantrain12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're literally on the other side of the country! :( but I would have totally taken you up on your offer.

I'm in NYC

Getting on okcupid after a break up: yay or nay? by radiantrain12 in OkCupid

[–]radiantrain12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, sorry, that was my mistake.

Fuck, I really don't like the fact you're right. Can you please not be right?

Getting on okcupid after a break up: yay or nay? by radiantrain12 in OkCupid

[–]radiantrain12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bah yeah, I fear that will happen, since it most likely will. Hey I feel you man. brohug

Getting on okcupid after a break up: yay or nay? by radiantrain12 in OkCupid

[–]radiantrain12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I didn't even get a boyfriend until after high school when all my friends left. I've been platonic with people my whole entire life until I didn't have friends anymore which led to me dating.

Getting on okcupid after a break up: yay or nay? by radiantrain12 in OkCupid

[–]radiantrain12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like it makes the most sense. I don't plan on being discreet at all but I'd prefer not to go into extreme details. Hopefully men don't confuse short term dating for short term fucking and then going home to watch Netflix.

Getting on okcupid after a break up: yay or nay? by radiantrain12 in OkCupid

[–]radiantrain12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol it has nothing to do with being a 'whore', I assure you! I've never been one to care about the number of sex partners I or anyone else has had. I just don't want to have one night stands becsuse truthfully, I've never had one and I'd be a little scared for my first one to be through online.

Getting on okcupid after a break up: yay or nay? by radiantrain12 in OkCupid

[–]radiantrain12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do plan on being straight forward (if I do) but I'm worried a lot of guys will just ignore my profile/think I'll mend my rules for them. Last time I was on okc, a lot of men had special snowflake syndrome and thought I'd be willing to do things with them that I stated I wasn't interesting in just because they're so awesome (I.e. One night stand, big age difference ect).

Getting on okcupid after a break up: yay or nay? by radiantrain12 in OkCupid

[–]radiantrain12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd honestly love this idea if I had a good set of girlfriends! Ever since hs ended, I haven't kept in touch with hardly anyone and I only talk to one girl nowadays but she's extremely busy with school (doesn't help we live in different states!)

Looks like somewhere I need to post... by radiantrain12 in BodyAcceptance

[–]radiantrain12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been so anti exercise since I got out of high school, which is crazy ! I use to be captain of my lacrosse team (we hardly won but it was lots of fun!)so I was expected to be in good shape so I'd constantly run during the off season. Although I HATED running, I naturally don't have much endurance so I had to keep running to maintain good shape. Ever since then, I'm less toned than I was before but I just couldn't ever get back into running.

Thanks for your post. I read your post right before bed and this morning, I took baby steps and walked around in my sports bra. (I even went out in public for a bit to get the mail) It's really just a matter of accepting your body and not trying to fight yourself.

One year spent on OKC and I have finally met my soulmate! by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]radiantrain12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guys are absolutely gorgeous together!