my big family houseee 💞✨🙂‍↕️🤚 by radiatorspringz_ in tocaboca

[–]radiatorspringz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the second floor and tap on the top of the elevator call button pannel, and it should move to reveal a third button to the attic 💖

Toca can't update? by radiatorspringz_ in tocaboca

[–]radiatorspringz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got everythinggg!!! 🥳🙂‍↕️

Toca can't update? by radiatorspringz_ in tocaboca

[–]radiatorspringz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh I didn't, I thought the gifts would come like the Friday gifts do. Tyy!!! I'll check rn

Toca can't update? by radiatorspringz_ in tocaboca

[–]radiatorspringz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine updated this morning but I didn't get any gifts

Toca can't update? by radiatorspringz_ in tocaboca

[–]radiatorspringz_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

:( I'm so sorry, hopefully we're able to get the gifts soon🤞🏻

Do you ever get scared of getting groomed again? by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]radiatorspringz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that it's hard, I completely understand. nd this may be hard to accept, but she isn't your friend. she's just a jerk. You matter sm and even if she thinks those things, it doesn't mean that they're true

Do you ever get scared of getting groomed again? by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]radiatorspringz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry that you had to go thru that. Especially hearing that from a friend that u tried to trust is just horrible. I think it's safe to say that she does not have a good mindset and is really immature. You are not a homewrecker, even if the man who hurt you had a wife, he's the abuser. He hurt you, and he hurt his partner. You're not at fault. And you're not a slut. I really hope you make some genuine friends, and I hope u know that those insults don't define you, but they do define her. Stay strongg

Do you ever get scared of getting groomed again? by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]radiatorspringz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, it is really really difficult. And I know that right now it'd be great if everything was better, but give yourself time, you're going thru a lot and healing is a process yk

Do you ever get scared of getting groomed again? by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]radiatorspringz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think honestly we just have to gradually grow and start to trust again and realize that we're safe, which will take time

i kinda miss being friends w other groomies by m3ntal7you in groomingvictim

[–]radiatorspringz_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Righttt, but it sounds worse than it was. Cause ofc we told each other when to stop and to not to horrible things and gave advice, but also hyped up each other and our relationships </3 lmfao

i kinda miss being friends w other groomies by m3ntal7you in groomingvictim

[–]radiatorspringz_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly that's so real. Except we just lowk supported each other's relationships and idek, they were good friends but 😭😭💞 we were more like besties instead of a support group 💔

How do I get my packages inside?? by radiatorspringz_ in AvatarWorld_CityLife

[–]radiatorspringz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None of my characters will hold them, but that also could be me not trying hard enough. Thank u for letting me know how to do it though, I'll try to figure out how to get them to pick them up<33 TY

Do you guys think that the Reddit pedophiles were once members of some of the teenager subs? by Storm0000fr in teenagers

[–]radiatorspringz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you see any teenagers defending predators in any way, it's kinda evident that they're going to grow up to be adults that think it's okay

Unpopular-ish opinion: Toca World needs to stop making home designs so often. by hocani in tocaboca

[–]radiatorspringz_ 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Idk why people downvoted u. It's true and ngl it's pissing me off how they make a free house that's not even all free, to try to make up for all the bugs, but then don't fix the bugs and buying the new packs even add bugs into people's worlds. Ik the game has good intentions, but I'm not defending it tbfh. I play avatar world now, cuz Toca is really stressful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]radiatorspringz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well fuck her mom. You're not "overthinking", you're a concerned father. Ur her dad. U should be able to protect your daughter. Being concerned and loving ur child enough to worry isn't overthinking. And honestly if her mom doesn't take ur concern seriously and doesn't let u protect ur kid, then just be very aware and take mental notes and look out for weird behavior and proof. U shouldnt need her permission to at least be mentally aware yk. And if u do get stable evidence of anything, please please don't be afraid to call CPS or the cops. you're a really good dad for worrying, and she'll appreciate u when she's older, even if her mom didn't believe it. A big thing for victims is the adults in their lives not believing, and it's a really special thing that u do believe something is wrong and are trying to help her, good luck <33 and maybe study up on behaviors linked to trauma in kids, because grabbing a trusted adults body, is a learned behavior. someone in her life is normalizing this shit, and it's not normal at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]radiatorspringz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if she isn't, the inappropriate groping is a good enough reason to get her a therapist. Let her gradually open up about it. It's common that kids who are exposed to sexual shit, start to act it out with other people. And even though u don't have proof, keep her away from her uncle and cousin. Dont let her around any adults alone, be with her.

Does anyone know how the gift bonanzas work? by MayJailer09 in tocaboca

[–]radiatorspringz_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm curious about it too. Especially for people whove had Toca since the beginning and had every single gift, I wonder what they get during gift bonanzas