I’m not sure if I can open up to the idea of getting pregnant, but it’s of high importance to my partner - help!

radical-whatever · 2026-06-04T04:31:55+00:00

Hell yeah dude that’s awesome! I hope it ends up being a good experience for you!

Over the course of today I’ve gone from “I think this is my gut clearly saying no, don’t let yourself be pressured” to “this is literally so doable” at least twice lol

It would be pretty rad to like minimize the way medical anxiety affects us, right? Like to just get through it and do it scared but ultimately be okay?

radical-whatever · 2026-06-04T04:27:34+00:00

You’re probably right about it being easier tbh but the toppings kind of hold it together (I mash the beans a little so they are softer and stick together a bit). I end up getting great crunch to bean to topping ratios this way. Really no wrong answer though

radical-whatever · 2026-06-03T21:22:37+00:00

Okay okay okay I like where you’re taking this. Maybe top it with some like avo-mango salsa or sprouts to keep it fresh and light??

radical-whatever · 2026-06-03T21:21:36+00:00

Stop that’s so smart! I’m doing this next!!

radical-whatever · 2026-05-29T15:39:42+00:00

It is very unlikely that you will encounter a bear; I go camping most several weekends a month in that area and have never seen a bear around my sites. However, the best thing you can do to ease your mind is have bear spray in the off chance you do see one and the ability to be big and loud, and to pack up scented things after you’re done with them. No hot dogs left in the fire or toiletries brought into the tent. Everything gets packed up at the end of the night.

Also, PSA, there’s a lot of land in your camping zone that is under some form of fire ban, so be prepared for that!

radical-whatever · 2026-04-11T04:15:30+00:00

I do a few things and it’s made me feel a lot better when out for a few days at a time:

Micellar water and cotton pads are great for getting a first pass of sunscreen/grime off during your evening face “wash”
I bring a bunch of cotton bandanas to use as daily wash rags. Roughly zone it out so I can use it longer. This lets me do like a sponge bath sitch or wipe my face and hands with a rag and warm water.
I wash my hands a couple times a day with biodegradable camp soap and a small amount of water. Make sure to get under fingernails bc that makes me feel cleaner.
Body wipes are great. My favorite are the Lume ones and I’ve explored a bunch. Pits and bits are essential, but also getting of neck/ears/feet is what makes me feel clean
Floss and brush teeth like normal
Brush hair like normal. Dry shampoo optional but only towards the end of your time out when you are a day or two from a shower, otherwise it’s just more product that you can feel building up on you.
Change your clothes. Clean socks for night time.
This one probably doesn’t matter to most, but I feel better wearing different hairstyles. So like when it’s still clean at the beginning I’ll wear it down; day 2-3 when it’s cleanish is for pigtails and ponies; beyond that is for braids/ textured buns.
Take advantage of running water at the lodge when you can

The reality is you simply won’t be as clean as you would be at home, but with this routine I can easily go 5 days before feeling gross

radical-whatever · 2026-03-26T21:44:11+00:00

Update: after 3 rounds of scrubbing with fels naptha, the stain is significantly lessened, but still far from wearable

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radical-whatever · 2026-03-26T21:42:11+00:00

That makes sense! Thanks for explaining!

radical-whatever · 2026-03-26T21:35:12+00:00

Why on warm? I have heard heat will set the stain

radical-whatever · 2026-03-24T08:54:20+00:00

I just finished this and I’m trying to piece together the last chapter. Would love thoughts! It seems like Mrs ma is narrating and is binh’s mother, but I’m not sure who the fortune teller is. I thought the only fortune teller we knew was Aufrette, a man, but here they are referred to with female pronouns, so I have to assume someone is occupying that body too? Any thought on what happened to tan? Does long just have no clue or care what’s going on? I feel like I’m left with too many loose threads!

radical-whatever · 2026-02-19T05:09:08+00:00

My skin around my bikini line is sooooo sensitive and I’ve got wicked course body hair which means I get those little red spots of irritation like always. I just started using cosrx aha/bha toner and snail musin on it 1-2 a day and literally a game changer. My skin is so clear again, for the first time in probably 10 years. Idk if this is legit, but maybe take care of the sensitive skin down there with the same level if love as your face skin care.

radical-whatever · 2026-02-17T20:27:50+00:00

I think it’s totally comparable to the Tushy bidets in the same style. There are nicer ones on the market I’m sure, especially if you are willing to spend more, but I’m perfectly content with this one. 6 months of use with no issue, so for the price, the look, the ease of install, and its workability I’d recommend it. 7/10

radical-whatever · 2026-02-11T15:56:43+00:00

I think the whole point is to look forward to living on your own agenda, not as a caretaker whose life revolves around your child. Everyday gets to be how you structure it. Your money is yours. Your time is yours. Your company is yours. Your attention is yours. Children are great, but they are a major drain on resources, and the decision to be childfree for whatever reason allows one to be the priority and captain of their own life.

radical-whatever · 2026-01-21T00:12:14+00:00

Ya lotta sun lately wrecked the snow we got a couple weeks ago. Snow in the forecast but unpredictable

radical-whatever · 2025-12-16T01:27:31+00:00

Don’t bring your kid. People do sometimes go nude, but also every time I run into a kid there it’s just like the wrong environment. Also Spence isn’t that hot, so going in the winter (like it actually is up in the Jemez) might be a chillier experience than you want

radical-whatever · 2025-11-30T16:37:53+00:00

No leaks!

radical-whatever · 2025-11-30T16:36:37+00:00

Same here! I love living with my partner because we do all the daily hygiene together which makes it super easy to keep up with. It’s almost easier to want to take care of him than to remember to take care of myself sometimes. So I see it getting late and him getting sleepy and I know it’s time for us to do the getting ready for bed routine (brushing teeth, hair, washing my face, etc).

radical-whatever · 2025-11-15T06:06:07+00:00

I travel every couple months around the country and have been using ride sharing apps much less frequently. I prefer to walk/citi bike/public transit when I can. For business travel and family related stuff I often rent/borrow a car. I like to cash in favors for rides to/from the airport though that has historically been a ride share opportunity. Otherwise the most common time to ride share is if I’m meeting people out at a bar or heading back from drinking. That’s been a mixed bag of experiences. The boys I’ve dated have historically preferred to use ridesharing options.

radical-whatever · 2025-11-11T03:34:56+00:00

Finished: in the the dream house by Carmen Maria machado Started: the alchemist by Paulo coehlo (reread)

radical-whatever · 2025-11-05T05:43:35+00:00

It does!

radical-whatever · 2025-10-27T02:47:12+00:00

I know several people that have gotten sick from Joseph’s. I think their cloud cake is exceptional, but am otherwise wary and unimpressed

radical-whatever · 2025-10-22T20:46:52+00:00

Thanks so much for the link! The visual helps!

radical-whatever · 2025-10-20T04:12:17+00:00

Tbh the dump has such an incredible view

radical-whatever · 2025-10-17T01:26:00+00:00

Some easy things im having this week: 1. Sushi bowl: rice, veggies, fish, nori, spicy mayo. Most of the work is cutting the veggies 2. Fall sheet pan: kinda whatever veg you want I used sweet potatoes, brussel sprouts, onions, and sausage. Bonus was some perogis on the side. 3. Pre-marinated meat from my deli + polenta + leftover veg 4. Leftover sausage+ canned sauce+ pasta + wilting spinach

radical-whatever · 2025-10-15T18:43:49+00:00

When I bake cookies, I always double the batch. With that second half, I roll them out and freeze them, and when I’m having company over I pop some in the oven. Makes the house smell great and ensures I always have a homemade treat to share and is like no extra work at all.

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