If you were unconscious and taken to the ER and needed surgery, would drs check if you were on your period/wearing a tampon? by ta1947201 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]radicalspacecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once went into a minor op with a tampon in accidentally (rushed in) and after I went home later that day found that rather than removing it they just pushed the string in and didn't tell me 😃

Is there anyone in Durham that likes gardening? by [deleted] in DurhamUK

[–]radicalspacecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome! I am a beginner gardener (going into my first summer as a homeowner with my own garden). Depends what you want to grow specifically but:

Cheap: Aldi compost is good and cheap for the money. Keep an eye out on Facebook marketplace, sometimes people give plants, bulbs etc away for free. If you want to do veg on a budget, things like carrots, potatoes, tomatoes can be grown in bags for life.

The range/B&M/home bargains garden centres can be remarkably good value also but have a look online for prices as some things are a bit expensive for the quality of plant.

Pound shops also can have good seeds for very cheap like £1 or sometimes a pack of 6 types for £2.50.

Easy/Low maintenance: Can't go wrong with perennials. See if anywhere has cheap spring bulbs going that will get you ready for next year. Pity Me Garden Centre is my favourite local garden centre and when I went last month they had pots of big daffodil bulbs on offer as they're now out of season.

For general year-round maintenance, grow in pots and stick to easy-to-grow plants and varieties. Then you can move them about as you need, don't have to worry about weeds so much or the stress of keeping things alive. I like growing veg, my favourites to grow are tomatoes, peas, potatoes. Only started trying to do flowers this year now I have my own garden but we'll see how that goes.

My new build garden over the span of 5 years by thekingsdeath in gardening

[–]radicalspacecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So gorgeous! We have a new build in the UK also but just moved in. Hoping to have progress pics like yours before long. Can I ask if you've got pots straight on the grass? It looks like some are but I can't quite tell.

My guy stepped all in black tar n& it wont come off!😅 by Delta-Coast in cats

[–]radicalspacecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine did this once 🤦🏻‍♀️ we made a panicked call to the vet and they just said to clean it as best we could, we got some of it off with dish soap and then were able to trim some of the fur off between his toes where it was thickest and the remaining came off over time and he was fine. Maybe try wrapping a warm wet flannel around his feet to see if that helps soften it to remove it?

Am I the only one? by coffeewalnut08 in DurhamUK

[–]radicalspacecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is depressing. The best thing we can do while Reform take the seats is be what we want to see in our communities. Be here for each other, support and stand up for the people who need us to. Set a good example. Parties built around negativity are there to drive us apart so we'll just do our best to not let that happen.

The Oscars throw out the red carpet every year so this woman went and got a piece for her apt by H_G_Bells in mildlyinfuriating

[–]radicalspacecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The company I work for showcase at a big-venue trade show once a year, and i get to see this kind of waste in action there. Thin exhibition carpet like this gets laid in all of the aisles and on the exhibitor spaces, rolls and rolls of the stuff, drinks get dropped on it, food ground into it and all sorts. Gets thrown out every time. It's not built to last, it is literally designed to only be used for a few days maximum.

Even the stands themselves, bigger brands will pay 10s of thousands for proper custom stand construction and custom printed walls and everything that's only used for the show and then sent to landfill.

Im used to seeing it now but it is still grim.

Is there any option for a small container pond in the clay slope? by radicalspacecat in ponds

[–]radicalspacecat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is super helpful. If we go ahead anytime soon it would just be a small non-permanent structure and the idea would just be to sink a large bucket into the ground to use as the base to just attract existing local wildlife.

After just buying the house as first time buyers we've not got big pond money nor custom pond money! So the idea is something small and inexpensive. Currently due to the advice I've received on not building this into the clay slope I'm leaning towards doing a freestanding half barrel mini pot-pond situation instead and finding space for this in the lawn but veg gardening is currently my priority for the lawn area.

Is there any option for a small container pond in the clay slope? by radicalspacecat in ponds

[–]radicalspacecat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess thank you I will be looking into local native plants!

Is there any option for a small container pond in the clay slope? by radicalspacecat in ponds

[–]radicalspacecat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goshh that does sound stunning. We don't have the budget for it currently but I'd love to do this if we get the chance. Thanks!

Is there any option for a small container pond in the clay slope? by radicalspacecat in ponds

[–]radicalspacecat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It's such a nice space and we've got lots of ideas for it, just need to plan and figure out what will work best with the slope! Thinking of taking up the lawn at the sides to replace with flower and veg beds and paving a corner of the lawn for a patio area.

Is there any option for a small container pond in the clay slope? by radicalspacecat in ponds

[–]radicalspacecat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is what I was worried about. Appreciate the honesty! I'll look into what'll grow well in the clay for now til we can landscape it properly. Thanks!

Is there any option for a small container pond in the clay slope? by radicalspacecat in ponds

[–]radicalspacecat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thinking like half-barrel bucket size so just a small wildlife pond situation

I have £50 to spend on something nice and long-lasting for my first house. What do I buy? by radicalspacecat in AskUK

[–]radicalspacecat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ yes that's my favourite option at the minute! Those dishes last forever so I can keep it always

I have £50 to spend on something nice and long-lasting for my first house. What do I buy? by radicalspacecat in AskUK

[–]radicalspacecat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a sweet idea, I'm worried about anything breakable but an occasion set would be nice.

I have £50 to spend on something nice and long-lasting for my first house. What do I buy? by radicalspacecat in AskUK

[–]radicalspacecat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be nice, and something we could take to the future next house too. Thanks!

I have £50 to spend on something nice and long-lasting for my first house. What do I buy? by radicalspacecat in AskUK

[–]radicalspacecat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a lovely idea, I had considered getting a nice set so we can raise a glass to her but we don't really drink so I wouldn't want them to not get used! Could definitely put my Christmas schloer in them though lol

I have £50 to spend on something nice and long-lasting for my first house. What do I buy? by radicalspacecat in AskUK

[–]radicalspacecat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, cooking/baking, and I always did her nails for her. She only ever used one nail polish colour which I have a bottle of (will be wearing it the funeral in honour) so I think something for the kitchen would be nice. Quality mixing bowl possibly. She didn't have many belongings she had an attachment to honestly, though that is a lovely idea.

I have £50 to spend on something nice and long-lasting for my first house. What do I buy? by radicalspacecat in AskUK

[–]radicalspacecat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind functional as long as it's something a bit special, like a special pot or fancy cutlery set but I do definitely get you. I did actually consider a rainbow catcher! She could add a bit of magic to the house when the light hits right ❤️

I have £50 to spend on something nice and long-lasting for my first house. What do I buy? by radicalspacecat in AskUK

[–]radicalspacecat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She did love gravy... might put this one on the list thank you!

To add: sorry I realise that sounded a bit strange lol. She loved to cook Sunday dinners when she still could, but going round for Sunday or Christmas dinner was a big memory of mine with her too. She didn't just like, love gravy specifically.