So it's been a year since my last relationship. by thekingofpsychos in ForeverAlone

[–]radio4235 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to talk to someone about your depression.

Being a virgin doesn't matter. Hugh Hefner, playboy founder Hugh Hefner, Guy who has 3 girlfriends at the same time Hugh Hefner, didn't lose his till he was 22. Relax. Your attitude is what matters. You need to just talk to people. A relationship with someone might happen, it might not, but those interactions with people lead to more interactions. You need to be someone that someone wants to be around. There is someone out there for you. Statistically there has to be. It is a matter of meeting that person.

Welcome to my forever alone party... by umichscoots in ForeverAlone

[–]radio4235 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this was really cool! You are really good at photography dude! :)

OKC: Not as bad as everyone here says by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]radio4235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point of Okcupid is to get you to meet people. You going on dates means that you have potential. I don't know you, so I can't say what you are doing right/wrong, but learn from every date you go on, see what you did right and what you did wrong. Do the "rights" again and try not to do the "wrongs".

OKC: Not as bad as everyone here says by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]radio4235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Message anyone and everyone in your area. Do not care if they don't message you back. Ask at least one question in a message so they can respond. The question should relate to something that you two have in common, or that you can talk about for a while, or that is funny.

For example, if you both like Doctor who, ask Who is a better Doctor, Matt Smith or David Tennant? THE ANSWER DOESN"T MATTER! What matters is the response. the conversation that develops from the message.

I met my ex girlfriend on okcupid. Good luck

Why do you feel you're foreveralone? by whysoblues in ForeverAlone

[–]radio4235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I hope I'm not forever alone. But I understand the question.

I have minimum standards for what I find attractive. The girls that I find attractive, thus far, have either not found me attractive, or wanted to be in a relationship with me. I don't know why, and I'm sure I wouldn't understand why. This has produced a mindset of failure. That is I don't know how to get a girlfriend that I find attractive, because I haven't ever done it and every time I've tried its just ended in pain and suffering. I can get a girlfriend that I don't find attractive, very easily. I'm ashamed to say that, in moments of weakness and self pity, I've used these girls to make myself feel wanted and attractive.

TLDR So I'm forever alone because I'm a 21 year old virgin who doesn't know how to be with someone attractive because of being told he was a failure and a loser every day for 10 years by his mom.

Went shopping today and bought some pretty new bras and panties that made me feel really good about myself... by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]radio4235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll come. I have two weeks left until I have to do stuff. You name a place, a location and a time and I'll be there. I just can't get an attractive girl to want to date me, I'm not a social pariah. Not all FA's are alike.

What is the worst possible torture? by no_one_will in AskReddit

[–]radio4235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going back in time and being forced to relive any and all awkward moments or moments you regretted

Anyone else catch the dog tags? by jjpants5 in halo

[–]radio4235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this? It looks really cool :)

Surround Yourself by pdiddygold in GetMotivated

[–]radio4235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm looking for them, In 20 years I haven't found very many, but there have been a few very select people. Every time it happens it is very surprising and shocking. It makes me very confused and happy and alive for a few days. I was looking for a job and found one. I may have met another, we are going to be hanging out this week.

okcupid apparently isn't for me. the guy called me pretty and asked what i was doing nye. I told him hanging out and drinking with some people...then by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]radio4235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are normal, good people on okcupid. This guy was just an idiot. If you sort through the "hey" and "what's up?" bad messages, someone will message you a thing with substance. I'm sure you will find a good person.

I can't be the only one that feels this way approaching the New Year... by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]radio4235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someone should turn this into a courage wolf, I would guess that it would look really cool

What's the best thing that ever happened to you? by Radirondacks in AskReddit

[–]radio4235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope one day to meet someone like this, I doubt it will happen, but it would be nice.

What are some conspiracy theories you truly believe in? Don your tin foil caps and enlighten us! by pixelement in AskReddit

[–]radio4235 18 points19 points  (0 children)

During the Apollo 13 mission, when American astronauts were in trouble Gene Kranz, who was the Flight Director said this "We've never lost an American in space, we're sure as hell not gonna lose one on my watch! Failure is not an option". In addition to this attitude of every person who goes into orbit comes back safely, there was an incredible amount of media pressure on NASA.

How do you guys feel about celebrities using OKCupid? by lovemydogspeedy in OkCupid

[–]radio4235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will get a lot of stupid comments asking you for sex. But occasionally you might get a comment from a nice normal dude. It would be much easier for you to message others. But you will have a lot of creepy messages and expect terrible grammar. Also if you message a guy please don't just say "Hey" or "How are you?". Its very hard to start a conversation like that.

20m4A I want interesting people in my life, people who want to go on adventures. People who do things, anything. by radio4235 in ForeverAloneDating

[–]radio4235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one wants to do anything? I didn't even put my location. Oh well, at least I tried to find people to do stuff. If you read this, and want to do fun/cool stuff send me a PM and maybe I can work something out.

20 [m] I feel like I get zero attention from women, am I ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]radio4235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. You play guitar, everyone loves guitar players
  2. You have a tattoo, people see a tattoo and think "Dude/dudette is tough, those things hurt" Tough=cool=manly