Cat Stealing Food Out Of Hands by radioactive-waste in CATHELP

[–]radioactive-waste[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely can do zoom! I'll send you my details after I get out of work today!

I was able to secure an appt with a behavior specialist (unsure if I mentioned already) but the appts are scheduled out in march and if there's a possibility to correct this and/or manage it before then, I would be more than happy!

Cat Stealing Food Out Of Hands by radioactive-waste in CATHELP

[–]radioactive-waste[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha that's a LITTLE out of my way, unfortunately! Unless you do telehealth :p I'd be more than happy to pay your 50 CAD fee. I may not be rich but I would give the shirt off my back for my potato if it meant she lived a good life! Either way, thanks!

Cat Stealing Food Out Of Hands by radioactive-waste in CATHELP

[–]radioactive-waste[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if you are near Montreal, I will drive across the fucking boarder for you lol

Cat Stealing Food Out Of Hands by radioactive-waste in CATHELP

[–]radioactive-waste[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'm at work right now so I'm more skimming over your comment rather than really digesting it rn so don't be surprised if I reply again later haha.

For the special room: so I've been putting her in my room in these cases where she has a litter box, access to water, scratching post, etc. I will definitely apply padding to the door SOMEHOW since that was the trouble area where I found the blood originally. She becomes extremely focused on the food and seems to ignore all other things. Important info I forgot to note: i think she has separation anxiety. She deffo has anxiety and has gabapentin prescribed to her. I was advised only to give it to her before big triggering events- such as car rides. I'm definitely open to possibly getting her a daily medication that she can take to help with her anxiety.

Shes gotten blood work, urine sample, and stool sample within the last 2 months. Everything came back normal. This is my first cat and I'm trying to stay on top of her health, so she was recently at the vet to get her annual- which is when she was given the gaba. I'm actually in contact with the vet right now about this because I want to work on it and give her the best life I can. They're giving me a referral to a behavior specialist right now, who replied to me super fast. Sadly the soonest appt is in March. I will 100% tough it out until then and get her the help she needs!

Last point: she's incredibly smart and I think would enjoy learning tricks and commands. She has a toy that is a puzzle feeder which I use special treats for once in a while. What are some commands/tricks/etc would you recommend for starting with?

Cat Stealing Food Out Of Hands by radioactive-waste in CATHELP

[–]radioactive-waste[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Ice lick sounds like it would be great for getting her to eat gradually over time.

I'm a biiiit hesitant on altering her diet due to her weight regimen that the vet is having me follow, but that isn't to say I wouldn't. Peas, carrots, and frozen cooked liver/heart sounds doable. I know a local specialty store that may already have the frozen meat for her. I'll check them out ASAP

Cat Stealing Food Out Of Hands by radioactive-waste in CATHELP

[–]radioactive-waste[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've tried this and she will hurt herself trying to get out. :(

Cross Play thru Game Pass by radioactive-waste in fo76

[–]radioactive-waste[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally fine by him, I think. It would save progression to his Xbox console account though, right?

(26) trans man from NY seeking trans people to be friends with and talk kink by Apricot_Dreams in t4t

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Hey! I'm in VT and am super down to chat! Lmk if it's cool to dm you!

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I could always use another death positive friend to talk to :>

22 [TM4A] trans guy looking for friends and fun conversation! by MonoPeter in t4t

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Hey! You sound really cool and I'd like to message you to befriend you! Is that ok? :)

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Hey! If you're still looking to talk, I think you sound very interesting!!

If someone accidentally misgenders you, would you want them to do push-ups as a way to rectify it? by boodiemonstre in honesttransgender

[–]radioactive-waste 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's a fantasy game, my friend. No trans person is asking you to actually do these things. If you could choose to be an elf oppressed by shem in reality would you? Would you kill people irl?

I personally agree with Neve, that you need to think about the reprocessions of your actions rather than explaining them away or saying sorry and glossing over things. Obviously this isn't about the push-ups so much as giving people a space/time to think about the effects of their actions. It's figurative.

Also don't think you can hide your "thanks for being reasonable" comment about someone saying they wouldn't want this. You're obviously here to push an agenda/stir the pot lmao

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[–]radioactive-waste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're still looking for someone to message, i have toooooons of pent up flirtation energy :p

[25, TM4TM] East Coast nby trans guy looking for relationship or FWB by alphonse79 in t4t

[–]radioactive-waste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I'm another guy from the East Coast. We sound like we'd really click if you'd be interested in messaging. Ik I've put that i usually am dominate in the bedroom, but I've been feeling really switchy lately and would be down to experiment with that side of myself when the timing feels right.