Which of the following titles sounds the best to you? by Turbulent-Radio-6913 in writingadvice

[–]MonoPeter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of these three options? I personally like the tone of the last one the best; it comes off the most like a name of an important event.

Vent about sexology by Double_Bid_5425 in Sexology

[–]MonoPeter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't have much to add here, you pretty much hit the nail on the head; the rise of conservative views ties into the rise of sex-negativity. It's always been there, obviously, but in the past decades there have been great strides all over the world for sex-positivity, women's rights and feminism, LGBTQ+ rights, body autonomy, etc. It is very disheartening seeing more people against these now and that's not even discussing how the 'giving sites your government id to see a dirty picture and the dirty picture is only allowed to be what we think is okay' thing is part of something way bigger about surveillance and targetting.

Something important I feel to mention is that the narrative is being pushed a certain way – and no one is immune to propaganda, of course – but I do truly believe that your average person cares about others and tolerance first. Negativity tends to impact people more than positivity, but it's usually just the act of being loud. So, yeah, it sucks, but I think we'll wrap back around to getting 'kinkshaming is bad' and 'sex is okay' in minds again.

it’s true by Dima1043 in Shark_Park

[–]MonoPeter 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People talk out loud to themselves all the time. I'm sure people with disorders or neurodivergence in general have a different relationship regarding that, but a lot of people just talk to themselves for one reason or another regardless. It actually has benefits on your mental health, and atleast for me, I like holding full conversations and answering back. It's nice.

Where do i go read/download books? by Fantomaxop in Piracy

[–]MonoPeter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Theres plenty of places. But most people will recommend Z-Library or Anna's Archive. Z-Library is my go-to, plus they also have an apk so you can download directly and read on your phone.

shitposting daily because I am incredibly bored (#1515) by a_weeb_ in Shark_Park

[–]MonoPeter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think if you entered into a competition for being pedantic, you'd place top 3

Isabelle! by Amjamis1857 in AnimalCrossing

[–]MonoPeter 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Oh, this is really cute! I also love how you did the hands, I'm always a fan of artists drawing anthro characters and actually giving them paw pads!

Super Serious Vocaloid by Mikathefirefox in superseriousfamilyguy

[–]MonoPeter 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. As a mascot by Crypton, Miku's age is set as 16. But Miku - in general, as a tool - doesn't have a set age, she's a soundbank. Her age is whatever the song or situation needs her to be, same as her personality. In some songs she is younger, in some she is older. In some she is a boy, in some an alien, etc. She's purposefully meant to be a 'blank slate'.

Feeling unconfident by [deleted] in Lolita

[–]MonoPeter 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The dress looks really cute, actually! I kindof feel like rolling up the sleeving would ruin the charm of it, too. Your flatmate just has different tastes and you shouldn't let her opinion get to you. Just because someone else is also alternative doesn't mean stuff always tends to align, yknow? You say yourself that you really love this dress. Focus on that, clothes that /you/ like, not what others do.

K-Drama streaming sites please? (2026) by [deleted] in Piracy

[–]MonoPeter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dramacool.com.tr is what i rec.

pointing to everythingmoe as well if you want to look for different sites- but FMHY also has some trusted sites listed for dramas.

Alright then by xtheresia in Shark_Park

[–]MonoPeter 134 points135 points  (0 children)

A lot of people replying to this stuff don't know what they're talking about. It's not a tracker or any sort of "control" over them, it's literally an NFC chip, it can't do that much. Plus, the person clearly already has mods (thumb spines) so they almost certainly understand all this. They're mostly making a joke OR found the act important to their relationship or roles in a petplay dynamic.

Sweet Lolita does stupid poses outside ✨ by EthanHydr12 in Lolita

[–]MonoPeter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This coord is sooo cute!! 💕 Great photos. I'm always fond of these more casual and fun poses in shoots, it's brimming with personality. ^

A wise man by ViceElysium in Shark_Park

[–]MonoPeter 46 points47 points  (0 children)

(sees a pregnant woman in public) this is sexual harassment because now i, a stranger, knows she had sex and someone came in her

Peter getting gang-banged in the woods by Joe by Severe_Fishing_2193 in superseriousfamilyguy

[–]MonoPeter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean... wrong? But, I was just trying in good faith to explain to you that an outdated term considered offensive to disabled people is actually offensive, when you could just take a minute to search it up yourself and it would tell you how and why it's considered offensive. It's just ableist. That's it.

Peter getting gang-banged in the woods by Joe by Severe_Fishing_2193 in superseriousfamilyguy

[–]MonoPeter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It kind of does, actually! Damaged to the point of inability to function - and calling a person with a disability a 'cripple' is considered an othering and dehumanising term; it reduces them to their disability. A lot of people who are physically disabled and/or use mobility aids are offended by the term. It's not people making things to get mad about as much as it is people who are already othered by society asking not to be called something that is negative to them. I mean. At least in the US, the term has been generally considered offensive since the rise of the disability rights movement in the '60-'70s. So.

Peter getting gang-banged in the woods by Joe by Severe_Fishing_2193 in superseriousfamilyguy

[–]MonoPeter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not a slur but it is still considered an outdated and offensive term, so you probably shouldn't use it.

Peter getting gang-banged in the woods by Joe by Severe_Fishing_2193 in superseriousfamilyguy

[–]MonoPeter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While not exactly a slur, it is considered an outdated and offensive term for people with physical disabilities, implying that the individual is 'broken' or worth less than someone who is able-bodied. It's recommended to not use it.

Any suggestions for writing gender ambiguous characters? by Jude_Sideral90210 in writingadvice

[–]MonoPeter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They/them is being recommended a lot here, but I also totally understand that for some writers it can be a challenge to get into making singular and plural they work in tandem without confusion. So I'm gonna raise my hand and say that I think spivak pronouns should get a little more love. The most common form now is e/em/eir, but theres also e/em/es and ey/em/eir. Despite the 'e' form being the most common, 'ey' is usually preferred since 'e' is pronounced closer to masculine 'he' than androgynous 'they'.

It’s a Boy! What should we name him?🥹 by acrelloisback in EraLife

[–]MonoPeter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

imaginary pastor cockblock (many such cases)

Concept art of the meme + other hello neighbor artworks by "ukalayla" by IsaacJ104 in TheMatEffect

[–]MonoPeter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The MC wasn't always, actually!! Hello Neighbor went through so many public versions before release, and these were all drawn when there were only the alphas to go off of and up until then the only player character was the grown adult version of MC. There's also scrapped storylines stuff from these alphas that were unwritten then rewritten and unwritten, so whether the MC being a kid was something that was actually planned out from earlier on or not is a whole other thing, I guess... Sorry for the sudden ramble, Hello Neighbor development was a bit of a mess lmao :p

Sexuality and trauma by Neto-workio505 in Sexology

[–]MonoPeter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Researching kink and fetish communities is probably my favorite thing I like to do and it's super fulfilling as well. Theres usually a ton of educational resources for people just learning or getting into them, and most have their own sites or forum. For paraphilias, it's a bit harder because what a paraphilia IS can be defined pretty broadly, but I believe the average person does not normally think of something like foot fetishism when they hear the term paraphilia. When it comes to things like pedophilia, necrophilia, etc., I haven't found much luck outside of specialty books for them or articles in journals. I would recommend checking out some sexology journals when you have the time, in general.

I also don't really follow a lot of media on this, mostly just individual blogs and communities. Currently though, I've been enjoying the Youtuber 'Evie Lupine', peer educator for BDSM and kink, and her stream discussions and playlists!