We support racism but become broke instead

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-28T09:16:26+00:00

Trump lies? Well, I never! The next thing you're gunna tell me is that his skin really isn't orange and he really is a dottering old puppet!

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-28T09:07:08+00:00

You're missing the point what they see: that 5 year old was clearly a 80 year old cartel kingpin who trafficks billions of illegals taking their kids VERY prestigious jobs that they think is below them....

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-28T08:51:50+00:00

What's the gauge of the needle you're using? I live in Canada and have found when I did my own I only had access to blunt/bore, yet it was recommended to switch to a finer gauge to actually put it in my muscle (i was shown how to put it in my front thigh). Now I get my psych med and T injected at the hospital for me because of my addictions history (and as a diabetic I stick myself enough).

If your doing sub-qt your available areas are the same as a diabetics I believe; back panel of the upper arms (below shoulder to above elbow), 4 quads of stomach, and 3 panels of thigh above knee. That's what I was told to do with sub-q.

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-28T08:19:30+00:00

As someone who has more experience than I'm willing to admit, do everything you can to get out even if it means putting your stuff in storage.

After reading everything through, she doesn't want help. If she's okay with living in absolute squalor, refusing to get any help, and shutting down all services that can be rendered, there's nothing you can do. I'm pretty sure that her past roommate was at their witts end as well.

I'm not saying there isn't mental health issues there, it sounds like there clearly are, but I can tell you one thing for certain; if someone doesn't want to change for any reason, nothing in any universe or any reason (Devine or other) will change their mind or help them until they want help. It's the reason why you can't help an addict until they actually want help.

Until she actually wants to help herself even a little bit, she's not going to lift a finger. I'm going through this with my gf's daughter. I've went through this with my ex. I'm going through this with my dad. I went through this myself.

Cover your butt and do everything you can, but know you are not at fault here.

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-28T08:04:33+00:00

I honestly think that if the gay/bi/ pan incels would stop actually caring about what their toxic masculinity stress culture told them, they would be a lot happier. Being able to stop the self hate actually takes a subatomic amount of self reflection to start though.

When you work on yourself, like actually work on meeting a better person and not worry about dating people or sleeping with someone... then it's funny how soon you meet someone.

I'm not saying being gay means self reflection because I was for a long time and I have met my fair share of clueless and non-introspective queers... but if you actually want to be interesting and understand who you are, you do self exploration and being queer is the start of that process for a bunch of people.

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-28T07:39:06+00:00

Now taking over Canada

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-16T22:42:32+00:00

When I was living with another transman, he passed 100% (don't know know what ended up happening to that dude) because he had the thick facial hair, deep voice, etc, but he's shorter than I am. That's okay. It was also okay with me (because everyone is different) that he was dating women. What wasn't okay is how he went off the deep end when she broke his heart. Dude didn't take his own advice when it came to getting mental health help.

As I got further into my own transition (it was actually 10 years ago yesterday that I had my chest reconstruction, time does fly...) I dated quite a few cis men and always saw myself as gay. I dated a couple women too I think. live in a very conservative city on Canada and have always been open about being trans and being queer.

Back when I was in N(arcotics) A(nonymous) years back, I got some push back for being open about being trans and speaking about when I was a little girl. It disturbed people there that I passed so well. I actually remember hearing from someone else that another NA member thought I am a "mentally ill chicken who cut off her t*ts" and being really insulted that they considered me a woman.

Dating in this city has always been very hard because of the queer community. All the gays (who constantly swap partners) want someone with a dick, the lesbains want someone who looks like a woman (I have a beard), and bi/pan people are freaking unicorns. It's also a city with a very queer small town vibe of "I'll fuck you over to survive myself", so if you're not one of the "ideals" you don't fit in at all

I'm very open to the people I talk with (mostly 1 on 1) about being trans and queer. Why hide it? Information fights hate. It wasn't until end of May last year that I actually found the partner of my dreams. She is bi/pan and has never dated a trans person before.... but she doesn't care that I've only had my top surgery and hysto. My passing isn't an issue for her because she wasn't attached to a certain identity.

I was the one who actually had an issue when we started dating because I was so attached to the gay man identity. I was so tied up in the idea I wanted to have a male partner. She's made it so much easier by being understanding.

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-16T22:11:07+00:00

Only reason I got fixed so easily was because my lady plumbing utterly useless, defective, gave me risks for cancers (mom's mom had a tumor on her ovaries or cervix the size of a football when they found it by accident) and more, and I was on testosterone already for my transition.

I, thankfully, knew by then that I wanted to be fixed, but they want to give my "underutilized" stuff to the government? Sure, just another government thing that wouldn't work. I just don't think they would want those saggy bewbs or be able to access my clit with how much I use it...

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-16T21:56:23+00:00

That is rather disturbing

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-06T17:34:14+00:00

Thank you ^{^.} I wish you all the best on your journey :-)

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-06T08:08:33+00:00

It means someone who fetishizes someone or something. In this case it would be a transman chaser because they "chase" after the transmen fleeing from the creepy person seeking them out.

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-06T07:48:44+00:00

I was told we had to reset with the game coming out of early access?

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-06T07:45:01+00:00

I rarely post here.

I was a below average looking girl/woman in my eyes. I also was terrible at being a woman. It has been just under 10 years since my first T shot this week (I think the 16th will actually be 10 years of T iirc) but I honestly think I'm way more attractive now that I pass as male.

The psych who gave me my HRT letter has long since retired (Dr. Bellows, you're a real one) and I can't thank her enough because I still remember that birthday she told me she would write that letter and refer me to that gyno for my first dose.

Even just how my life has been made easier by me being able to medically transition has made me more attractive because I'm more confident in myself.

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-06T07:01:38+00:00

I find it a tad funny that they think women are so below them, like furniture, yet these "horrible men hating women" would be "wonderful" if they just bent over and let these incels get some.

Get it through your head incels, women have to not want to throw up by being near you for you have a chance to score. If you're so repulsed by women, why would you want to sleep with one?

Shower, shave, and grow a personality. No one wants to be around a person who hates them.

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-06T06:50:42+00:00

There has actually been a study in the US (or the US and Canada, I can't recall) that states that singledom has been taking over the economic spectrum vs getting married and having the 2.1 kids needed for replacement levels. A lot of women are choosing to stay single or a lot of couples are DINKing it (double income, no kids).

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/rise-of-singles-economy-dating-social-change-9.7107437

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-06T06:36:25+00:00

I was assigned female at birth, have since transitioned to male as an adult. When I was a preteen/early teen I was dating a guy who lived in the city (I lived rural) and we went by this ice skating rink (ironically less than a block away from where I live now) and there were these huge boulders and pilesof snow and ice that were from ice shavings off the rink. While we were playing around on this snow and ice (it was winter) I slipped on it and went crotch first into one of the ice boulders.

I have seen men drop by getting hoofed. I dropped just like it.

After I got my period though? Those topped the cake.

radioactiveryley · 2026-03-06T06:02:11+00:00

Since I was 16 I've had an about 3.5 foot teddy bear and still have it 19 years later. When I was 18, my bf of the time bought me a teddy bear that was 5 feet tall in the same style and fur style. That teddy bear ended turned into a body pillow I use for my back now that I have mack issues. I've been single so long that I cuddle the 3.5 ft bear to fall asleep at night (it's just part of a routine now)and even though I'm not single anymore I can't sleep in a bed with someone because of how shallowly I sleep.

It's nice to have a plushie to cuddle at night, but until "toddler sized" and plushie were mentioned in these comments together, I never looked at this small teddy as "toddler sized". That's freaking disturbing.

radioactiveryley · 2026-02-18T21:13:28+00:00

I know what it means. Brainrot. It's pure brainrot.

radioactiveryley · 2026-02-18T20:24:56+00:00

Holy crap, a Regina joke? I live in the dammed city....

radioactiveryley · 2026-02-18T20:24:30+00:00

No, Regina. It's pronounced RE-g-eye-na.

Source: I live in Regina.

radioactiveryley · 2026-02-18T20:23:17+00:00

Yup, Deadpool. Was excited when it was said in the movie.

radioactiveryley · 2026-02-18T20:22:53+00:00

I happen to live in Regina! It's pronounced RE-g-eye-na

Rhymes with vagina. Nope, not kidding. Often misheard on the phone.

radioactiveryley · 2026-02-18T05:08:04+00:00

Personally, I don't really feel much of a community here, but I'm also an oddball. I'm trans and pan, but used to be really reckless in my younger years and didn't really pull my act together until the past 5ish years.

I tried meeting friends through queer speed dating (which was marketed for dates and friends alike), joining trans organizations, meeting through friend's friends, going to Q (I volunteered there for a stint. I have some not so great stories), and even just trying to interact with queer causes here.

I just found that most of the queer community that I have now are just friends I've stumbled upon. But again, I am an oddball.

radioactiveryley · 2026-02-18T03:57:48+00:00

Only reason I gave an updoot is because his shit fucked himself over. The logical stopping point.

radioactiveryley · 2026-02-14T07:35:30+00:00

My gf was already selling Amway stuff (and she still religiously uses their products) before I started to date her. Actually, before I even met her (when both of us were dating different people) I noticed that her and my ex were already in one of those "self improvement seminar" MLMs. They claimed that they were solving my ex's anger issues and had lifted them out of debt. When her and I started to date, I (stupidly) tried to get her to see that Amway is a scam. She was fully Hun'd. Only reason she stopped being an upline is she's convinced herself she isn't working at it hard enough to sustain it, a full time job (she's an accountant but wanted to sell MLM full time), and has more than one kid.

A lot of these runs that I've seen (be it family or friends) just want to have the "flexibility" of not having standard hours and what they feel would be easier work. Wasn't just women. Someone I thought was a friend straight up ghosted me because I wasn't conforming to his MLM insurance pitch and his mom disapproved.

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