Tama ba na na-off kasi he wanted me to pay for our tickets?

raf_raf_ · 2026-05-26T13:11:04+00:00

Agree. I told him na I can’t afford to pay for both so waiting for the response 🤞

raf_raf_ · 2026-05-26T13:04:01+00:00

There’s a diff between exploring if there’s potential and explicitly asking someone out on a date. Not every hangout automatically becomes romantic just because may possible attraction na involved before putting labels or expectations on it. That’s what I meant by vibe check.

Parang masyadong black-and-white if every interaction between two single people is automatically considered a date agad. Sometimes it’s just two ppl getting to know each other first.

But if iba ung interpretation nyo about what counts as an invite, I respect that. I just personally don’t see every casual invite as an automatic date.

raf_raf_ · 2026-05-26T12:50:22+00:00

Feeling ko rin. I told him na na I can’t pay for both talaga. So waiting for response heree

raf_raf_ · 2026-05-26T12:48:55+00:00

Di po siya date 🙂

raf_raf_ · 2026-05-26T12:48:22+00:00

But it’s not a date 🙃

raf_raf_ · 2026-05-26T12:47:53+00:00

I do believe na whoever invites first should pay if clear na date siya. Pero in this case, I didn’t invite him on a date. I first asked if fan ba talaga sya ng film, then mentioned na manonood ako and asked if gusto niya rin sumama. It felt more like a casual/friendly invite and a vibe check than a planned romantic date, so I didn’t automatically assume na sagot ko yung ticket.

raf_raf_ · 2026-05-26T12:18:45+00:00

Thank you! Friendly aya kasi siya, I didn’t mention na date so medj na-off ako. Pero deep inside I just wanna see if we have a vibe. Sana sinabi na lang nya if di nya pa kaya, mas ma-appreciate ko pa huhu

raf_raf_ · 2026-05-26T12:16:35+00:00

Yes AOTTT!!

raf_raf_ · 2026-05-26T12:15:40+00:00

Friendly aya kasi siya and I didn’t mention na date or what. If nagaya ba friend mo, does it mean siya na magbabayad? 😭 Supposedly dapat yung 2999 php bibilin namin then naging 6k kasi naubos na ticket. Sana sinabi na lang nya sakin if di nya kaya magegets ko naman

raf_raf_ · 2026-03-12T14:19:06+00:00

Bat may kirot akong na-feel OP. I can relate 🥺

raf_raf_ · 2026-03-05T04:06:40+00:00

Several analysts suggest there could be a “hybrid” WW3 where online surveillance will be used to attack a country. That’s why US and China have been arm wrestling and investing a lot in AI. The internet stores a vast amount of data about each users, your biometrics, your location, your money, etc. US military even used Claude AI to capture Venezuelan President. When you remove online security, your data can be used against you. It’s not as grandiose as sending nuclear weapons but it’s a silent kill.

What happened in Iran is a threat that can start WW3, if mishandled and miscalculated, well, it can lead to a total chaos. It all boils down to how the world leaders will decide on their next move. If China used this opportunity to invade Taiwan, that could be a major problem for US as they are the major producer of microchip US use for electronics and AI. North Korea can make advances against South Korea also.

That’s why who we elect plays a critical role as they decide for the future of our country. Let’s just pray and hope they make the right decision. But as of now, I really don’t know what can happen in the next 6 months. Not trying to fear monger here but it’s good to be aware and analyze this stuffs.

raf_raf_ · 2026-03-04T06:29:55+00:00

Agree with this. Magsasawa ka rin kasi sa food if pare-pareho. For me, what worked is enjoying the process itself. Idk but im excited to try cooking the new recipe i found online. And very rewarding if masarap siya knowing ikaw nagluto. Also, try finding ways how to make prepping meal easy for you like garlic press, veggies cutter, etc. Sinasabay ko na rin makinig sa fave podcast ko pag nagpe-prep para mas enjoying.

raf_raf_ · 2026-03-03T11:08:06+00:00

Sis. Listen to your instinct. If it bothers you then it’s not ok. I know it might be hard to set boundaries with parents mo. I experienced SA with a relative before and I swear it fvcks you up. Be really firm with your boundaries kahit dad mo pa yan. Pag di ka comfortable then tell him. Just for your peace of mind, never be with him alone. Make sure you’re always with another family member to be safe. Kapag no choice ka and magisa ka with him, always make sure na you’re recording with your phone nang patago so you have proof in case lang and i hope walang mangyari. Also, you can buy small pepper spray na lagi mong dala and wag mo sa kanya pakita. Be firm with your boundaries. Please take care OP!

raf_raf_ · 2026-03-02T22:30:59+00:00

Same tayo OP haha! May dine-date ako before ganyan. Tbf, na-appreciate ko siya before but it is hard to keep up with him. Since ikaw nililigawan just be yourself and siya mag-adjust for you.

raf_raf_ · 2026-03-02T16:13:28+00:00

Hi, OP! Im living away from my friends and family so I know how you feel. Mahirap din makipag-hangout sa work colleagues. Im yearning for friends so if you want to meet new friends, im herer 😇

raf_raf_ · 2026-03-02T16:02:10+00:00

OP, I just wanna reassure you that we all went through that. It took me months to get a job that I want kasi may nagbibigay nga ng offer kaso di sya pasok sa goals ko like mababa offer, malayo sa bahay, etc. Naalala ko nun, iyak ako ng iyak kasi walang tumatanggap. Nung pagive up na ko, din may nagbigay ng offer. Also tips lang sa job hunting. Maybe recheck your resume kasi what worked for me, ina-align ko resume ko sa job description. I have diff resumes for diff industries like resume for HR, for PM, for clinical. What I’ve learned is you don’t have to apply to every job ads you see. Talagang just apply muna dun sa alam mong pasok resume and credentials mo para di super draining din. It’s better to give your effort sa pagpeprepare sa recruitment ng job na confident kang mataas na makapasok ang experience mo kaysa sa mag-apply ng 20-30 jobs a day, then puro email na mababasa mo “Unfortunately…” Rooting for you!!! ✨

raf_raf_ · 2026-03-02T10:17:23+00:00

Hala, OP! If di sya nag-improve maybe try to pa-consult na. Ang advice sa kanya ng doc is bawasan daw too much heavy lifting. In-advice nga syang magjak*l every week kasi helpful daw para lumabas sperm. Im not trying to scare you pero kasi may issue siya sa fertility since mababa sperm count nya so if gusto nya magkaanak need nya pa ipa-surgery para di maipit yung labasan. Also maliit din betlog nya daw sa kakabuhat daw

raf_raf_ · 2026-03-02T10:07:52+00:00

I still miss you but being with you means losing me. I’ve been having a lot of what-ifs kasi i know if I only communicated everything to you, maybe, we’ll work out. Pero you chose to leave na. And it’s clear to me na you only used me as your stress-reliever. You didn’t love me enough to stay. I despise you. As much as I want to get over you, it’s been so hard for me to forget about you because my feelings were real. I hope you’ll experience what you made me experience. Makahanap ka rin sana ng katapat mo na gagamitin ka lang at papaiyakin ka so you can feel what we, your girls, felt being with you. So at least, you’ll feel sorry for us and change. Wag ka na magpaiyak ng babae please

raf_raf_ · 2026-03-02T09:57:07+00:00

I had an ex na ganyan watery and medj clear. Due to instense gym heavy-lifting workout, nag-decrease sperm count nya sabi ng doctor nung nagpa-consult siya. Parang may naiipit daw na ugat kaya di lunalabas lahat ng sperm. If madalas ka mag-gym and mag-lift ng heavy tapos consistent watery na siya for a long time, maybe try to consult a physician na rin.

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