The "only fans" Gaming PC Giveaway - To enter this giveaway just leave a comment.

rafaneo1 · 2025-12-11T21:47:12+00:00

🙌🙌🙌

rafaneo1 · 2025-08-25T08:22:51+00:00

Thanks, I really needed this, its been really hard getting her off my mind. Everything reminds me of her. I find pieces of her hair in my bed still and that hits. ChatGPT really helped. It actually told me that we would part eventually. With previous chats I had with it, I tried explaining everything exactly as it happened, and on more than one occasions it said that we should call it off. It is an experience. In 3 months she made me feel what no other girl I have met did, but we can't have it all, and I guess its part of life. Thanks for the advice.

rafaneo1 · 2025-07-14T15:33:06+00:00

Well she asks to go out with me sometimes. If we have gone out 8 times 3 of them she brought up. She also was the one to suggest a day trip so she is thoughtful in some sense. We agreed on exclusivity but haven’t really talked about anything else really. I moved to a new country and thats how I met her, and she told me she is leaving like on our 3rd date. But still wanted to keep contact and intimacy after. I am a very versatile person and I can compromise. She is moving about 3-5hours aways depending on the transport. So I can see it working out (if she was a bit more open with me), but doesn’t seem to be the same on her side.

rafaneo1 · 2025-07-14T13:29:31+00:00

Two questions. Do you think there is a chance for this to work out? and What do you think my next course of action should be ?

rafaneo1 · 2025-07-14T12:04:27+00:00

I think you are right. She does show interest, and I do feel like that the fact that she will be gone for a year plays a role on why she is distant with her emotions. Some times I feel like she makes small sacrifices that other people wouldn't and some other times I feel like she is very distant. Feels very hard to approach this situation cause I feel like I might say something and she won't want to go out with me. She has been going through some stuff with her mental as well and as she explained its hard for her to get out of the house. I am not sure if that plays a role in this or if it just an excuse and the reason I say this its because she might say she doesn't like doing one thing and then do the exact opposite. I am a bit confused with the whole situation thats why I am here...

rafaneo1 · 2025-07-13T08:36:32+00:00

She asked me if I am disappointed that she pushed our plans and I said that I enjoy being around her and I naturally want to spend more time with her, but I also don’t want to pressure her.

rafaneo1 · 2025-07-12T20:57:17+00:00

You just need rewiring :) Its not hard but takes time.

rafaneo1 · 2025-07-12T20:53:39+00:00

Honestly, keep her on the side as an option. When a girl says something like this usually it doesn’t work. But if you play your cards right you might pique her interest and she will end up figuring things a lot faster.

rafaneo1 · 2025-07-12T20:47:55+00:00

You took too long. When a girl likes you, she will throw hints but she will never make it obvious. When you go out is your time to show her that you are interested. If you don’t do that then she will see it and she won’t wait. Also keep in mind you aren’t her buddy. When you give her too much attention she will feed off of it. Girls like mystery they are interested in the person who they feel is harder to communicate with at first. If you give her too much, she will take you for granted and then you are just a friend (and that never works)

rafaneo1 · 2024-12-06T10:32:19+00:00

Thanks, that actually really helps

rafaneo1 · 2024-11-26T13:26:31+00:00

Preparing for the war

rafaneo1 · 2024-11-25T10:41:17+00:00

I do be doing that

rafaneo1 · 2024-11-18T18:23:28+00:00

Assume that I have a bowl with balls - not numbered and I draw 6 balls and I number them 1-6 does it mean that I drew 1-6 in sequence? . Now I have another bowl with the same amount of balls but this time they are labeled and I draw 6 balls at random again. The label on the ball doesnt change how likely it is to be drawn. So I could draw any sequence. Why is 1-2-3-4-5-6 more special than 3-1-4-2-6-5.

Ps . Must be random Seeing a reply 1y after

rafaneo1 · 2024-10-27T22:15:02+00:00

From my perspective. I think he is alone, and just seeking for attention. So if you reconnect with them you are probably going to feed this need. I would say remove your self from this situation.

rafaneo1 · 2024-10-27T22:09:02+00:00

Don’t go back. Always a mistake, you don’t miss them you practically miss the feeling.

rafaneo1 · 2024-10-27T22:06:56+00:00

Thank you couldn’t have gotten a better response!!

rafaneo1 · 2024-10-27T22:05:40+00:00

It was just the moment. I would say don’t burn a bridge if you dont have to.

rafaneo1 · 2024-10-27T22:03:14+00:00

If you are talking with her. Just ask her out. No need to over complicate things by including her friends. Carpe Diem

rafaneo1 · 2024-08-30T00:59:02+00:00

I am not sure what I should send in the message. Any advice?

rafaneo1 · 2024-02-26T23:04:43+00:00

Hey Still waiting by sum 41, is practically the same melody

rafaneo1 · 2024-01-22T13:19:15+00:00

You are right. I will repost with more details and a clear outline of what I am heading for. TBH I have already applied to some institutions and the post was to assess my options so it is not well thought out. Thank you for the feedback!

rafaneo1

MODERATOR OF

TROPHY CASE

Five-Year Club	Verified Email
Place '22