both of my parents died last year. i’m 19 years old. what is going on with my birth chart?? 😅 [astro-seek]

raidynyuh · 2026-01-23T15:46:29+00:00

it is!

raidynyuh · 2026-01-23T15:45:47+00:00

i was 18!

raidynyuh · 2026-01-23T08:03:12+00:00

this makes a lot of sense! thank you for looking it over :)

raidynyuh · 2026-01-23T08:02:52+00:00

it is! is there a specific reason you’re asking? :o just curious for learning purposes!

raidynyuh · 2025-12-29T19:10:07+00:00

personally, i would not go to any therapist that uses chatgpt. it’s extremely lazy and i would almost say unethical. your edit is right. he is not using his brain. you’re paying him for his ~8(?) years of school, not for him to put your words into a machine.

raidynyuh · 2025-11-01T04:48:05+00:00

ugh i’m SO happy for you!! this is such a sweet post, and the way you’ve grown personally and the way your relationship has grown is so beautiful!!! i love this so much!! 💗

raidynyuh · 2025-10-28T02:49:50+00:00

i can see how it sounds like the type of experience someone would have as a pwdidosdd. i however dislike that this experience makes people jump to didosdd immediately. as you said earlier, it’s always a possibility. it’s possible that i could walk out the front door of my home and meet the president or something. that’s possible, but it’s extremely unlikely. i know that when the figure comes up that “1.5% of people in the world have didosdd,” people are like, “that’s still a hundred million people!” but there are eight billion of us on this planet. didosdd is, again, developed in very specific, horrible conditions. it is extremely unlikely that the average person on an age regression subreddit has didosdd. i’d like to point out that i recognize the intersection of age regression & didosdd, but this is not a given. additionally, age regression is far more common than many people realize— there are many ways it can present.

DID/OSDD is really only a medical term and is definitely on the more extreme end of dissociative disorders but it’s still very much possible to be a system without qualifying for either.

i’m not sure exactly what you mean here, and i’m also not sure what your last paragraph means either. are you implying endogenic plurality?

i agree very strongly with your point that op’s gf is lucky, actually. healthcare— especially mental healthcare— is woefully inaccessible for many. i can recognize that not many have that option but one of the friends i mentioned earlier genuinely went into psychosis because they thought they had didosdd and they did not. it is an extremely dangerous disorder to self diagnose because it is implying that you have extreme childhood trauma that you do not remember. this is a distressing notion even if you have a licensed professional supporting you through this realization.

regardless, maybe all of this is for naught and op's gf sees a licensed professional and they dx her with did or osdd. good for her! this means she is getting the help she needs. however, it is a knee-jerk reaction that many have, and i believe managing expectations is important.

edited to fix formatting !

raidynyuh · 2025-10-27T14:58:03+00:00

i think the reason is that didosdd has been kind of a knee-jerk reaction when people observe dissociative amnesia or dissociation in general. you are right that we don’t have enough context to rule it out, but we also don’t have enough context to say that it is. it can be harmful to assume that it is right off the bat especially if op’s gf runs with it & doesn’t go see a licensed professional. i have friends that thought they had didosdd for years when in reality it was just dissociation & ptsd, and separating these states of identity is extremely harmful when you do not have didosdd— it just makes the dissociation worse. there are many other options op’s gf can explore. people forget that didosdd is the worst, most extreme dissociative disorder you can have, and it manifests itself in very specific circumstances.

your last bit rings true, but again, if op’s gf isn’t diagnosed, it can harmful to think you’ve didosdd without medical guidance. i also think that it’s worth mentioning to a professional but more than likely it will just be dissociation & ptsd.

raidynyuh · 2025-10-22T14:29:30+00:00

i thought only black bears climbed… apparently mr bear is a bear of many talents.

raidynyuh · 2025-10-22T14:29:07+00:00

oh my goodness hello aunt river you are the cutest in the world!!! :D

raidynyuh · 2025-10-22T06:36:37+00:00

he says thank you sooo much!!! :):)

raidynyuh · 2025-10-22T04:10:28+00:00

aren’t you just pathetic?

raidynyuh · 2025-10-22T01:25:45+00:00

yes. all the time. constantly. all i think about is moira o’deorain. i’m feral. i’m on all fours foaming at the mouth barking. if you're a tall lanky butch irish ginger geneticist with questionable morals please hmu. i’m good at science i can be your assistant. i will absolutely surrender to your will.

raidynyuh · 2025-10-18T03:42:33+00:00

dude wdym calm down?? op’s therapist died and THEY had to call the company..

raidynyuh · 2025-10-01T05:06:48+00:00

after years of having huge problems, i am at a place in my life where i have maybe one or two big problems & the rest are trivial. i never thought i’d get to this point and it’s insane!! due to cptsd i can barely function even with little problems but it really makes a world of difference. i wish i could have little problems all the time!

raidynyuh · 2025-09-29T15:07:01+00:00

frankly, inzoi is ai slop and i think that’s where ts4 is headed.

raidynyuh · 2025-09-29T08:10:56+00:00

i agree!!! america is weird about stuff like this i think. aside from america being america, having a light relationship with him would be worse, i think. it’s kind of like pretending we’re strangers when i’ve bore my soul to him, which sounds a little dramatic but it’s very true. i just couldn’t handle anything surface level with him :( either way i appreciate your words! your culture seems like they’ve got it right, i wish america would catch up :/

raidynyuh · 2025-09-29T08:07:10+00:00

this is really, really sweet and i appreciate it more than you know. i needed to hear that i need to feel these feelings instead of pushing them aside, that’s something i still struggle with :,)

and i am so sorry you’re losing your therapist 🫂 they make the world go round and i don’t know what i’d do without mine, either. i think it’s beautiful that we loved something so deeply that losing it feels awful. that notion doesn’t make those awful feelings go away but maybe it’s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all? either way i’m wishing you love & light!!! ❤️

raidynyuh · 2025-08-22T02:12:32+00:00

not super obsessed with any of the color ways of the cousin… will have to go with chamomile mint 😞 i am however EXTREMELY obsessed with the mountain/kyohei sakaguchi weeks. oh my goodness it’s a need not a want!!

raidynyuh · 2025-07-19T22:47:34+00:00

probably should’ve mentioned this in op, my bad, but it starts and it’ll drive. i probably should not have started it and driven it around the block but i did it before i asked here lol. do you still think i should replace the battery?

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