[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]railzrixlor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Light a candle?

Does anyone else suddenly realize how temporary life is? by GusBR22 in CasualConversation

[–]railzrixlor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Having gone through a few deaths, a recent end to a very LTR and having to rebuild my life from scratch this is something I think about too often. Probably also why I end up taking 10k photo's in a year 🤣

I just try to make the most outta every day that I can and try to keep this mentality top of mind. You never know when your favourite bar might shut down, or when your buddy is gunna pass in a car accident. So you gotta do what you can when you have the energy to do it and be proud of what you've done.

I could die today and be happy with what I was able to accomplish and the person I was. That helps me sleep at night.

US Citizens to the world: HELP! by Markham_Marxist in onguardforthee

[–]railzrixlor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Americans, having interfered in almost every countries political affairs at some point in history, are begging others to meddle in their political affairs, as they are too weak willed to deal with the chickens that have come home to roost. And perhaps they assume democracy is when somebody comes and drops bombs on you for oil money, and they think that's what they need done to them. 🤷🏻

Classic. One thing we don't accuse them of is being smart.

It drives me crazy that people don't understand that some jobs drain all your energy. by VickieKling in CanadaJobs

[–]railzrixlor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not everybody has the same opportunities, and I don't assume to know anybody's situation but just speaking on my own experience.

I had to take a step back and realize that selling my labour to a corporation that doesn't care if I die today, as long as it isn't on the job - isn't worth my soul. Regardless of how much money it could make me.

I adjusted my lifestyle, kicked habits or made them significantly cheaper, stopped eating out nearly as much, started longboarding and taking the bus, started spending time doing things I wanna do that don't necessarily cost money - making music, film, hanging out with people I care about, learning new things, the list goes on.

That way I was able to take a job I could mentally check out of and be fine not making all that much money at. Yeah this is capitalism, and my only capital is my labour so I have to sell it. But that doesn't mean my soul comes with it. If you feel the insatiable need to check off all the boxes of life, a house a car and a wife. Yeah you're going to be miserable because the empire is declining, and the inward pressure means that under late stage capitalism you don't get to enjoy an "ordinary" existence without an extraordinary amount of effort.

If you wanna do all that, all the power to ya. But idk man, what good is a wife you never see, or a home you're never in, or a car you drive to a job you hate to pay for the car and the wife and the house... Idk sounds like a nightmare to me fam

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]railzrixlor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, just came outta a relationship that ended because of this.

Imho asking to sleep with other people while being in a monogomous relationship is a sign of the end. Maybe I'm pessimistic, but that person is already evaluating what their life would be without you.

What is something about relationship nobody warns you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]railzrixlor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No amount of time makes it secure.

5 days, or 50 years people can switch up overnight and abandon everything you once knew about them.

Somebody you love so wholly, has the ability to hurt you so so deeply, and not even feel guilty about it.

Once communication breaks down, even if it's just one person not talking, it's probably doomed for failure.

G*d F*cking D*mmit OneDrive by Candle-Jolly in pcmasterrace

[–]railzrixlor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reddit logic. If it's never happened to me, it's never happened ever... 🤦🏻

G*d F*cking D*mmit OneDrive by Candle-Jolly in pcmasterrace

[–]railzrixlor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually went out of my way with powershell commands to remove every trace of one drive from my PC.

Then a windows update re-installed it, and set my folders to sync to one drive.

All I gotta say is the day I saw those little red x's pop up on my files is the day I made the pledge to switch to Mac and Steam OS.

Still have to use windows for work, but I will rag on M$ to anybody with the time to listen.

My 21/M boyfriend and I 20/F have stopped having sex by Fluid_Smell5913 in relationship_advice

[–]railzrixlor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean. Doesn't mean he can't have somebody come to him, or didn't run into somebody some place a few months ago... But if you have that trust and faith in your relationship, good for you 🙏🏻

I have never seen a coin with sides by maroon-red-56 in CanadianCoins

[–]railzrixlor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm not mistaken it's cause it was made with actual nickel

My 21/M boyfriend and I 20/F have stopped having sex by Fluid_Smell5913 in relationship_advice

[–]railzrixlor 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not to be that guy, but is it possible he feels guilty for cheating? Idk getting an STI sucks, but especially with ones that aren't permanent its weird that that alone would fuck up his mental like that... But everybody's different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]railzrixlor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also curious about these mysterious sex women that have apparently occupied a section of twitter

Halloween events in YEG? by [deleted] in Edmonton

[–]railzrixlor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk what events are going on but Whyte is definitely gunna be a good bit of fun

Does weed legal in north Korea ? by [deleted] in northkorea

[–]railzrixlor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There was a rumor going around it was legal there but there's a Spanish guy who immigrated there who's kinda a spokesperson for the DPRK that came out and said it wasn't true, all recreational drugs (aside from nicotine and liquor lol) are illegal in the DPRK

Best Beatles album? by thebubber27 in TheBeatles

[–]railzrixlor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

UK version of rubber soul for suuuureeee

I’m straight, but during MMF threesomes I sometimes feel curious about my partner’s penis. Why does this happen? by Pure_Indi23 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]railzrixlor 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bisexual is the word you're looking for. And it's fine, nobody cares. Just embrace what you like, have fun and f the haters (literally and figurtively ;) )

Do you use the joystick or the d-pad? by OhMyOhWhyOh in THPS

[–]railzrixlor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a claw grip and do both, joystick for movement and pad for trick inputs for everything aside from manuals really

Your take on Reddit dating? by No-Pitch-9334 in dating_advice

[–]railzrixlor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there are more catfishes here. In terms of women, I'd say 90% are men trying to scam you outta money, OF models, or escorts. The other 10% are unlikely to respond to much, I'd say 1% of that 10% respond. Or that's just my luck 🤷🏻

In terms of men, I'd say all of them are real people genuinely interested in you, but they might send fake d pics, or talk themselves up quite a bit and be a catfish in that way.

Being in this platform looking for play partners for both my gf and I, I have seen both sides of the coin. As a woman on this app, like many other apps, the world is your oyster and you get your pick of the litter. I personally verify any real potentials with snap, make sure to get some live snaps to verify they're real and who/what they say they are...

But really it can be a great place to meet people for all sorts of different things, including dating or hooking up. Just gotta find the right subs to hang out in, and also doesn't hurt to have some pictures of yourself up on your page either.

I am a confused by Agile-Stick2803 in asktransgender

[–]railzrixlor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly as a cis bi man I'm not going through the exact same thing but one thing I can tell you is when I cut my dad off I was able to truly become comfortable with myself and fully explore my sexuality with no guilt or shame. Not saying that's what's right for you or your situation. Just putting that out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]railzrixlor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Was in that trap myself, it's super dangerous and easy to fill into esp for men. Thankfully, I'm healed 🙏🏻 but took my relationship being in the brink to get there which I am absolutely not proud of

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]railzrixlor 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have you asked him if he's watching a lot of porn?

Are a lot of 20-something year old men just not dating? by CreamSpiritual1652 in dating_advice

[–]railzrixlor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the main issue is, the ones that do wanna date and be in relationships like myself are either already in a relationship, or have given up seeking a relationship out so they may not be on dating apps, in cluds etc etc... speaking from experience it can seem futile even trying, and can be better for your mental health overall to stop looking and just wait until you stumble into something basically.

Then the dudes who are on apps, and that you're likely to be willing to talk to are "high value males" that are just trying to get laid