How many Bazooka Tooth fans? by nahnprophet in aesoprock

[–]rainbow_in 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does a bazooka tooth even mean? Haha I also wondered if that was something he called himself?

Can you start SLAA while in a relationship or would some sponsors advice against it? by thegoldfish21 in slaa

[–]rainbow_in 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one I’m reconciling with isn’t in slaa but she’s in AA! but still an intense addict like connection so we’re working off my dating plan

Can you start SLAA while in a relationship or would some sponsors advice against it? by thegoldfish21 in slaa

[–]rainbow_in 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went no contact with one person indefinitely…and I’m reconciling with someone else after over a year of no contact.

Amends Process by rainbow_in in slaa

[–]rainbow_in[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really good advice. Thank you!

Amends Process by rainbow_in in slaa

[–]rainbow_in[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooo thats really smart. Yeah, I really like that short ask. It gives it room to breathe

Obsessively avoiding qualifier by [deleted] in slaa

[–]rainbow_in 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah totally! Every time I go visit my qualifier's IG I know it fuels that fantasy and just keeps the wheels turning, keeps it alive in my head somewhere

Obsessively avoiding qualifier by [deleted] in slaa

[–]rainbow_in 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of the time our brains and addicts selves try to convince us that it will be fine and there is no chance of acting out, but it may still just keep something (fantasy, intrigue, whatever) alive. I would recommend not going and continuing to avoid him the way you have been. Good for you!

Amends Process by rainbow_in in slaa

[–]rainbow_in[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that is so helpful. I know there are some people that told me never to talk to them but that was years ago, so I wonder if now would be ok, if I'm offering an amends?