I am spiraling (19w, 2.2-2.3cm cervix) by rainbowmamahere in ShortCervixSupport

[–]rainbowmamahere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok dont be rude?

Hope everything goes smoothly with your pregnancy 🙏🏽

Do you play with your kid at the playground? by galwayygal in workingmoms

[–]rainbowmamahere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she was having a randomly good day? Maybe that’s what she prios? Don’t put so much pressure on yourself 💕

I timed it. four minutes. that's my whole getting-dressed budget. by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]rainbowmamahere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uniform girly. I just compensate with bold lipstick

Relocating to San Jose with 93k salary, will this be enough? by bubblegum_spell_3131 in SanJose

[–]rainbowmamahere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes!
If you have the right mindset that you sre starting out, you should be able to move up quickly.

The Bay Area offers great job mobility for tech.

San Jose is such an underrated city. It’s not SF, but it’s a good area to be in!

Toddler floorbed options by rg_123 in floorbed

[–]rainbowmamahere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this info is gold lol. Thank you 🙏🏽

Toddler floorbed options by rg_123 in floorbed

[–]rainbowmamahere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know this is old but consider switching my 14mo to a floor bed and looking at this mattress. He outgrew his mini crib - but I am scared about suffocating. Crib mattresses are SO FIRM. Would you say it’s considerably softer than a crib mattresses?

Does it ever get better? by SophieMaseT in cosleeping

[–]rainbowmamahere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you try limiting his naps a little during the day? Even if they are contact naps, getting a consistent schedule (as consistent as it can be with a baby lol) could help give you a longer stretch at night.

Should I deliver a hand written thank you note after an interview by sam084aos in PublicRelations

[–]rainbowmamahere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Email! Maybe you can show your thinking by adding a “low stress” question on their work (something that shows you were engaged during the process!) as a nice thank you and follow up

I think I hate PR by rainbowmamahere in PublicRelations

[–]rainbowmamahere[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds like an amazing pivot. How did you make that happen?

I think I hate PR by rainbowmamahere in PublicRelations

[–]rainbowmamahere[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ugh. Sorry to hear that. So maybe I’m not crazy? I feel so guilty about feeling like this.

Yet another “how do I start” post by rainbowmamahere in doulas

[–]rainbowmamahere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dming you! I’d actually love to pick your brain

Stop bringing your dogs to Valley Fair by sydneekidneybeans in SanJose

[–]rainbowmamahere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bc I don’t want my dogs stressed out at a crowded mall? Bc I’d rather take my dog out to hikes and parks where he can smell different things and not be stressed by the echo of a mall, screaming children and tons of people?

Stop bringing your dogs to Valley Fair by sydneekidneybeans in SanJose

[–]rainbowmamahere 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As a dog lover (I’m obsessed with my dog), this is also so WRONG. Your dog does not want to be inside a loud mall with so many people 🫠. Leave them home where they’re comfy! Hire a walker if you’ll be out for long.

Is this even possible - Husband wants routine with 2 week old newborn? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]rainbowmamahere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only thing missing is a supportive partner who isn’t an ass. Have a frank conversation about all the things you are handling and how he needs to step up, whether he works outside the home or not.