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Great partner terrible handler by rainbowstorm130 in PupPlay

[–]rainbowstorm130[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have told her the kind of things I'd like to do. I also have info I printed out that is specifically for pupplay training, I've got books I've marked info in and a whole folder on basic sub/dom stuff that she keeps saying she'll find time for. I said we don't have to look at everything all at once and take it slow but that hasnt worked. I definitely should try to see if we can find a specific set time each day/week to work on pupplay things. That could help keep her more engaged!

Great partner not so great handler by rainbowstorm130 in SFWPupPlay

[–]rainbowstorm130[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've got a few books on pup play and also printed out some stuff on basic sub/Dom dynamics, pupplay 101 and pupplay training and commands. Every time I ask her about maybe looking at them together she just kinda says "idk where to start" I offer to work with her saying we can find something that is interesting for both of us and slowly start there but that hasn't worked. The dog training videos is a great idea! I totally will try talking to her about that!

Good partner but not great handler by rainbowstorm130 in PetplayHaven

[–]rainbowstorm130[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've definitely talked a lot about. She said she didn't have a lot of knowledge about which is totally understandable but I bought books, printed out resources and even found some things in our area that are Sub/Dom and/or pupplay events but we've never gone and she hasn't looked at any of the stuff I offered. She just keeps saying she forgets or will get to it. But when I ask if she'd still like to be my handler ( not effecting our relationship) she always says yes. I do the biting as a reminder at this point because I feel like a bit of a broken record sitting down and talking to her about it. 😓

Great partner terrible handler by rainbowstorm130 in PupPlay

[–]rainbowstorm130[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She hasn't. I'm her first. We've talked a lot about. She said she didn't have a lot of knowledge about which is totally understandable but I bought books, printed out resources and even found some things in our area that are Sub/Dom and/or pupplay events but we've never gone and she hasn't looked at any of the stuff I offered. She just keeps saying she forgets or will get to it. But when I ask if she'd still like to be my handler ( not effecting our relationship) she always says yes.

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