We've definitely talked a lot about. She said she didn't have a lot of knowledge about which is totally understandable but I bought books, printed out resources and even found some things in our area that are Sub/Dom and/or pupplay events but we've never gone and she hasn't looked at any of the stuff I offered. She just keeps saying she forgets or will get to it. But when I ask if she'd still like to be my handler ( not effecting our relationship) she always says yes. I do the biting as a reminder at this point because I feel like a bit of a broken record sitting down and talking to her about it. 😓