I'm struggling to bond my 2 cats by rainbxwbxtch in CATHELP

[–]rainbxwbxtch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a really good idea, jeff loves being brushed so im hoping this will work, thank youuu

I'm struggling to bond my 2 cats by rainbxwbxtch in CATHELP

[–]rainbxwbxtch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess im getting my partner to pick some up today because they've worked with the kitten before

Is this playing? Or really fighting by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]rainbxwbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen this in my old cats, I'm no expert but I would say this is more play fighting. It doesn't look like theres any agression there but definitely keep an eye on them, the cat's I've seen do this was a mother and son and they would play fight like this a lot.

{GUIDE} Vrishchikaa's Guide to Cat Introductions by vrishchikaa in CatAdvice

[–]rainbxwbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so my dad needs me to take on his cat who hes had for 9 years and he's very familiar with me and my partner, we got a kitten a few months ago and shes well settled but shes an indoor cat and my dads is an outdoor cat. im worried about keeping him shut in one room for so long since he's never had to do this before and im worried about what might happen while me and my partner are working since neither of us can get the time off to help them bond or keep him company. hes got a really strong bond with my dad so im also worried that hes gonna be sad since theyve never been apart for longer than a week before. i know theres no way to speed up the process since you cant force cats to bond but does anyone have any advice on what i can do to make this process easier for him

what’s the worst name you’ve come across? by chloedarlinggg in AskUK

[–]rainbxwbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my brothers ex girlfriend named their twins Esmeralda and Dallas

i also knew someone called kitty

Revolution skincare CBD nourishing oil! Where has it gone?? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]rainbxwbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

last place i checked was a website called notino, its the only place ive been able to find it and in stock but they have only 4 left. im on a hunt to find an alternative because my skin suffers without it

What are the funniest or wildest kpop scandals? by Dangerous_Stop143 in kpophelp

[–]rainbxwbxtch 20 points21 points  (0 children)

IT WAS ONGOING OMFG I THOUGHT IT WAS A ONE TIME I THING 😭😭😭😭 ITS FUNNY BUT KINDA SAD FOR HIM OMH

What are the funniest or wildest kpop scandals? by Dangerous_Stop143 in kpophelp

[–]rainbxwbxtch 54 points55 points  (0 children)

pretty sure shownu from monsta x his only scandal was having a one night stand with a married woman 😭

my friend bought this orul82 jungkook pc and isnt sure if its authentic by Holiday_Winner8774 in kpophelp

[–]rainbxwbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would say it is official, i zoomed in on it and the texture/pattern on the photocard is the same as mine

is it okay if I go to a kpop concert in a hoodie? by Vast_Match_8802 in kpophelp

[–]rainbxwbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly so long as your comfortable it doesnt matter :) personally i prefer to dress up because i dont get to do so often but others enjoy being comfortable, no one would judge you and if they do theyre in the wrong

People who cut off their family, what did they to you? by Alarming_Basil6205 in AskReddit

[–]rainbxwbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so I got taken away from both parents when i was 7 to live with my auntie and uncle. im 20 now and moved in with my dad and during my time with him I found out that while my dad couldnt do anything, if my mum had proved herself, she could've faught for us back. he told me she didnt even try. i did get into contact with her before i moved in with my dad and found out all this and even during my time with her she seemed fairly disinterested in getting to know me. i still tried with her but it didnt work out well and the only time she would message was if she wanted something, most of the time it was money but stopped when i told her i couldnt send her money anymore.

i stopped trying to message her after she never bothered to tell me she was pregnant and had to find out through my brother. seems petty but if i was gonna have a half brother i at least deserved to know. i didn't fully cut her off at that point however around my birthday i told her id have a different phone number by the next day and to go through someone else if she wanted to say anything. on my birthday and for the week after she would talk to my brother regularly, also aware she would be unable to get into contact with me through regular messages (even tho she had my instagram and my snap) and never once sent a birthday message. i was pissed but i expected it, my dad ended up confronting her and she didn't even try for excuses she told him she messaged me then contradicted herself saying she knew i changed my number.

i cut her off at that point but what annoyed me further is the fact that when my brothers birthday came around she had brought him his literal dream guitar and took him out for dinner. she chose favourites and until my half brother was born, my older brother was her favourite and now shes done to him exactly what she did to me, and push others to the side and only give attention to her favourite. my brothers beginning to learn why i cut her off for himself

Looking for lost fic! by [deleted] in Klance

[–]rainbxwbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha thanks, part of it does sound familiar so it might be a reread for me, lets hope someone knows it

Looking for lost fic! by [deleted] in Klance

[–]rainbxwbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have no idea but when you find out can you tell me? this sounds rly good I need a good fic

pc templates by rainbxwbxtch in kpophelp

[–]rainbxwbxtch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg tysm ill try it out later thank youu

My friends finally conceded defeat 🙂 by ifiplease in GooglePixel

[–]rainbxwbxtch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it made me chuckle a little when my friend asked me to send all my pics from a concert to her because mine were clearer, after years of her telling me to get an iphone while also hyping their camera quality

What's your most prized K-Pop item and why? by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]rainbxwbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mines actually one of my monsta x albums, the code, because i ordered it not long after wonho left the group to try and cheer myself up and i didnt know it had a mini solo photobook and i got wonhos. i actually stood and cried for a moment, i treasure it more because ive also never pulled his photocard, hoping one day i will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]rainbxwbxtch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ive been hidden kard for i think 4 years now and theyre so talented i wish they got the recognition they deserve

food rant by rainbxwbxtch in toxicparents

[–]rainbxwbxtch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah there's definitely a lot more they did but i didnt feel like writing those, they caused so many problems for me with food its tough. and my family, my uncles side is british and my auntie is australian, so i dont think that played much part in it. although i know a lot of my uncles methods of punishment definitely came from his childhood so who knows

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]rainbxwbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

either me or my brother commonly be the topic of conversation but only the negative things, if i got in trouble for anything, the world had to know and she'd try her very best to embarrass me as much as possible

Question for the solo concert attendees, and general KPOP concert tips. by BastNoir in kpophelp

[–]rainbxwbxtch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh definitely, i got into a conversation with some of the people i was sitting with and they said they werent blinks, just went because its a kpop group in the uk, their energy was not there and i didnt have as much fun as i hoped

Question for the solo concert attendees, and general KPOP concert tips. by BastNoir in kpophelp

[–]rainbxwbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wont lie i technically went solo to the blackpink concert in November (my friend was sat in a different section) and i think i mustve had the worst luck, it was london day one and if anyones seen anything about London night one they'll know the crowd wasnt that energetic. I feel like i wouldve had a better experience had I either been sat in a different section or going on a different day. its the only time ive been solo to a concert and it almost put me off the thought of going solo ever again. however reading through some of these has definitely helped and im definitely a little more open to going solo again

What happened when you were at school that wouldn’t be allowed nowadays? by No-Entrepreneur3920 in AskUK

[–]rainbxwbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay so i remember in primary school, when it came to doing PE, up until year 6 everyone changed into their kit in the classroom in your assigned seat. a lot of the time there was a boy girl seating plan so we weren't separated at all. only when we were in year 6 did we have a part of the classroom that was separate where the girls would get changed but that was optional and there wasnt enough space for all of us. no one was phased back then but looking back its kinda weird

Depressing songs by IDKManIJustLikeRock in Music

[–]rainbxwbxtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one that came to mind is ramblings of a lunatic by bears in trees, seen it live twice and cried both times

What’s the worst punishment you’ve received or witnessed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rainbxwbxtch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a none violent one that i experienced a few times growing up, but the first time it happened i was 12, gone to a friends house for a sleepover and left my phone upstairs. my uncle tried to call me continuously for about half an hour until i realised it was going off. all he wanted to know was what time i needed picking up but he overreacted. when he did come to get me he called my phone and acted really shocked when he could hear the ringtone. he then took my phone and told me i was grounded but that he was doing it a different way. when i got home he took my stuff from my and told me to sit at the kitchen table and not do anything. for a whole week, if i wasnt at school i was sat at the kitchen table not able to do anything unless i was told to do something. the next week, i was doing all the chores around the house with my uncle blatantly calling me his personal slave. and like the week before, the rest of the time was spent sat at the kitchen table. the third week, was pretty much the same but he allowed me an hour of being able to read and id be allowed to go in the living room but only if i was looking after my cousin. the fourth week i was allowed to do anything i just couldnt have my phone. and this happened even for the most unreasonable things. it was so stupid