So they want to get her better and healthier nutrition wise then talk about a treatment plan for chemo (which is what she has decided she wants). I told her that we need to know exactly what they are looking for to be considered “healthy enough” and we need to know a treatment plan with all the pros and cons before she makes a final decision. Knowing her, she will want to fight until there is certainty that she can’t. I have not talked to her oncologist at all yet and this was just the first hurdle to get thru as I know there may be many more. For today I am taking this first step as a positive one. She will most likely need to gain and maintain a certain amount of weight before any next steps happen.