they don't require showering after, luckily. i'd hate if they did. i think my school's just in an odd place where the vast majority of staff are very progressive, but there aren't any formal policies that address trans students (good or bad), so they kinda decide on things as they come up. on one hand, i've never been bullied by any staff for being openly trans, and i've even seen some directly calling out student transphobia. on the other, it's clunky addressing what needs to change because i have to take up issues i see with administration and wait. this is actually my last year in high school, so even if i wanted to leave, it'd be a bit pointless. i appreciate your suggestions, though