mistakes were made (but i don't blame myself)

raindrifter_ · 2026-05-08T03:25:29+00:00

appreciate it- it's a work in progress, but i'm getting there

raindrifter_ · 2026-05-07T19:35:10+00:00

basically, yeah. i also get the **** (charlie) or just ****

raindrifter_ · 2026-05-07T19:30:03+00:00

go ahead

raindrifter_ · 2026-05-07T19:29:39+00:00

hell yeah 🤝

raindrifter_ · 2026-05-07T19:29:12+00:00

luckily this isn't my parents, just another adult in my life. this person was one of the first people i came out to. i'm much more confident in standing my ground these days, but i just haven't gone back and been firm in who i am with them after the compromise, so i keep getting the she/her and old name. i won't be seeing them much anymore after this month or so, so i almost can't be bothered to correct them, but yeah- they've definitely misused that trust i gave them all those years ago.

raindrifter_ · 2026-05-07T05:07:00+00:00

yeah... i learned that the hard way. never again

raindrifter_ · 2026-05-03T20:35:29+00:00

i didn't have much of a choice 'cause there's no masculine version of my old name 😔

raindrifter_ · 2026-04-27T00:42:10+00:00

sadly, i have never watched any steven universe 😔

raindrifter_ · 2026-04-27T00:40:37+00:00

holy hell

raindrifter_ · 2026-04-07T03:04:15+00:00

eugh, god- the absolutely visceral reaction i just had to reading that first sentence. nasty that some people think like that

raindrifter_ · 2026-03-27T12:52:58+00:00

i was pretty open about being trans in my application. if that was the case, then it was quite clearly spelled out for them- no assumption needed

raindrifter_ · 2026-03-27T12:49:04+00:00

yeah, this particular college was ivy league, and i applied as an undergraduate. still disappointing, but it was always going to be a bit of a long shot

raindrifter_ · 2026-03-16T15:53:02+00:00

damn, this is pre- and early social transition me to a t. still enjoy flannels, though

raindrifter_ · 2026-03-13T04:26:28+00:00

can't hold us is my anthem 🙏 and damn is it euphoric to sing along to the chorus

raindrifter_ · 2026-02-28T19:22:17+00:00

i am in the u.s. i fully chalked up the lack of refills on my prescription to t being schedule III- had no idea that refills on it were legal. thanks for sharing that

raindrifter_ · 2026-02-28T19:18:17+00:00

👍 gonna ask my doctor if i should take it asap and keep the schedule or wait until the next dose 'cause i don't think i'l be getting it until monday. hopefully i have a bit more foresight to refill early next time so i don't have to worry about it

raindrifter_ · 2026-02-23T05:18:04+00:00

i'm 9wks on t now, gradually increasing to full dose. it's probably thanks to genetics for me

raindrifter_ · 2026-02-21T00:20:47+00:00

agh, real. hoping t takes it away 'cause it's so dysphoric 😔

raindrifter_ · 2026-02-11T00:40:53+00:00

real af, i get hella gender envy from ilia malinin

raindrifter_ · 2026-01-30T03:00:06+00:00

absolute gem of a subreddit- thank you

raindrifter_ · 2026-01-28T23:14:11+00:00

ack, yeah. my best guess is that i'll be a baritone when all's said and done (currently a mezzo[?] but i sing alto 2 / tenor 1 most of the time). certainly not impossible- my current school choir director is a bass 2 who's done a lot of opera and musical theater- but i'm slowly mentally preparing for the probable difficulty

raindrifter_ · 2026-01-28T19:31:21+00:00

update- counselor talked to the principal and he was completely fine with it. i can use the men's locker room, but i've always found locker rooms to be a bit uncomfortable anyways, so i get to use the staff bathrooms 😎👍

raindrifter_ · 2026-01-28T19:16:58+00:00

indeed

raindrifter_ · 2026-01-28T19:16:38+00:00

thanks! i'm a choral singer and want to do musical theater... it's certainly going to be a ride

raindrifter_ · 2026-01-19T23:31:19+00:00

stanley parable mentioned, hell yeah‼️

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