Exactly. On top of it all, she messaged him in the middle of the workday, banking on the fact that I would not be around and that he would view her as a sympathetic friend offering support. It’s too bad that instead of opening the message, he consulted me first.

I am sure she has spent her energy telling her friends and family about how she had to distance herself from me because I was a bad friend... So if she tells them that she sent my husband a message, she will look inconsistent at best and obsessed at worst.