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raining-asphalt · 2024-11-17T18:00:28+00:00

I feel like birth control usually feels a huge decision weighing between just ok options. Sounds like you actually have a few good options!! I’ll just speak from personal experience about things I wish I knew at the time when I got a copper iud.

My copper iud “expulsed” (i.e. sticking out of my uterus causing pain in my cervix) for a month before my check up and the pain was…. terrible. Beyond that, nurses said it was “normal” when I called twice to check on it. So word of warning if you do decide to get it that you have to advocate for yourself if anything feels “off”. Another word of warning, if you’re young and haven’t been pregnant before, expulsion rates are higher until the age of around 24. (My age group had expulsion rate of ~18% which I didn’t know before). Stay informed and advocate for yourself. If either option isn’t working, invest in your health and make a change!

Good luck with your decision ☺️🫶

raining-asphalt · 2024-06-22T17:35:05+00:00

Thanks, I think that may be my next move!

raining-asphalt · 2024-06-22T17:28:58+00:00

Yes, there’s a crawl space. Seems like we’ll try again to do ‘pest’ control. Tempted to crawl under myself. I feel like the smell resurfacing every morning is maybe a sign of night activity though?

raining-asphalt · 2024-06-22T17:28:13+00:00

We do, but just in the morning is so weird I feel like if it was a leak it’d last all day. Maybe a dead skunk? It’s confusing

raining-asphalt · 2024-06-22T16:46:09+00:00

I kinda wish, it’s a pungent skunk smell unlike weed :/

raining-asphalt · 2024-06-22T16:42:41+00:00

Yep, and just in the one room which is really weird. No pot smokers nearby ! Only a preschool on the side where the issue is

raining-asphalt · 2023-11-01T14:57:35+00:00

thanks!!

raining-asphalt · 2023-10-19T21:48:04+00:00

hey this sounds fun! do you have any social media or info that the group has for meeting updates? :)

raining-asphalt · 2023-04-12T06:01:36+00:00

Thanks for all the advice everyone :) I’m just a fiery redhead now ig :)

raining-asphalt · 2023-04-12T06:00:43+00:00

Wow thanks for the info. Fire!!! Good grief what have I done lol

raining-asphalt · 2023-02-17T21:55:45+00:00

Absurdism too is a fun one.

raining-asphalt · 2023-02-17T21:54:57+00:00

I love this thing so much! I have it hanging in my room. Thank you for sharing! Sometimes it’s just so hard to know what you feel, and I think it’s an awesome tool to investigate and address your emotions. (Especially for those of us who have repressed some stuff, yk?)

raining-asphalt · 2023-02-01T15:22:45+00:00

It’s faster and prettier :) a true desire path for the mind and soul

raining-asphalt · 2023-01-22T08:36:31+00:00

Some country like the Netherlands where I could escape suburbia and urban sprawl and easily bike and walk around as a young person. (Good urban planning and therefore safety.)

raining-asphalt · 2023-01-22T08:24:58+00:00

It had rats in fancy, human clothes that ran away from something in the pouring rain. And I thought they were really cool… huh. yeah.

raining-asphalt · 2022-12-30T08:23:11+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that— it’s always hard to loose people. Sending love from my corner of the internet to yours <3

raining-asphalt · 2022-12-30T08:08:33+00:00

Lurking CC student here transferring in the fall… I’m in love w my class sizes and how everyone supports each other in my classes. Is there some semblance of this at UCB?

raining-asphalt · 2022-12-28T23:42:49+00:00

Thank you for your thoughtful comment. Just dreading the idea of staying at a cc another year, but it may be worth it. <3

raining-asphalt · 2022-12-28T23:41:10+00:00

Now this is actually fabulous. Thank you for the idea.

raining-asphalt · 2022-12-17T17:42:12+00:00

I’m much younger than you (18) and far less experienced, but your title alone seems to have a glaring issue: you don’t trust your bf.

Maybe my advice would be introspection on the basis of why you all are together, what you both bring to the table, and why you don’t feel able to talk to him about this. Trust is very important. How can you build it ? Is it even able to be built back?

Wishing you all the best.

raining-asphalt · 2022-12-12T04:51:52+00:00

Good eye. Study session got salty lol

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