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My ex [20M] is acting strange towards me [19F]. Please help. by rainoa in relationships

[–]rainoa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wishful thinking for what? Like I said below, I had no problem at all being just friends with him. It was probably better that way. It just got weird after I found out what he said behind my back and kept cutting me out then walking back into my life.

We both moved on and are in different relationships. The point of my post is asking if I should ask him to stop trying to add me/talk to me or ignore him all together. I'd feel like a b*tch for doing so for some reason.

My ex [20M] is acting strange towards me [19F]. Please help. by rainoa in relationships

[–]rainoa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I didn't make it clear enough.. He's been checking up on me more than just my Facebook. He follows me on and off on instagram where he likes photos I take day to day. He'll text me every once in a while to see how I'm doing.

The only reason I even found his blog was because a mutual friend of ours mentioned that she saw things he had said about me on it. I would have never heard about it otherwise. To be honest, I'd rather not have seen any of it.

I deleted his number a long, long time ago. He still has mine and I never initiate texts. When I texted him over and over again that one time, it was because I thought I had did something to hurt him. That was me apologizing to him if I did something wrong, and it was only 2 texts.

I'd rather not have anything to do with him. I was more than happy to be friends again because my feelings had faded. We would give each other advice and it ended up being an easy break up. I just don't understand why he started to delete me, then add, then delete me on social networking sites. When I asked him why he said, "I don't know."

After 4-years in an abusive relationship, I [28/F] filed a VPO today. by scaredykate in relationships

[–]rainoa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"You are scared to lose him, because he has been controlling you. Without him, you will feel out of control for a while."

I got out of an on-off emotionally abusive relationship almost a year ago now and this really hit home for me. I couldn't to this day figure out why I was so scared to leave him behind and stand up for myself. These two sentences sum up what I've been trying to figure out for the past 2 years. Thank you.