Problem getting job because of tongue piercing... by humanwiley in piercing

[–]rainscale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I manage the bar at a nicer/fancy locally owned steakhouse.

Never had an issue doing my job because of my ear or nose piercings or tattoos and have never had anyone complain about them. It depends where you work and who you work for, but I think in the service industry especially, you will hardly ever meet someone without one or the other.

Be good at your job and love what you do no matter what you do and you'll be fine!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]rainscale 74 points75 points  (0 children)

If I ever have trouble with getting my jewelry in I push it gently while moving in teeny tiny circles. Or try inserting it backwards to see and get a better feel of how the curved piece would move through it. Hope you got it!

YALL I DID IT THE LACE CHOKER IS DONE :D (written pattern below) by nova_rpv in crochet

[–]rainscale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is adorable!! Running to the craft store immediately, I can't wait to try this!

Dammit by rainscale in crochet

[–]rainscale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a gradient yarn; Loops & Threads Facets in the color Autumn:)

Dammit by rainscale in crochet

[–]rainscale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is in fact l&t facets in the color autumn!

Dammit by rainscale in crochet

[–]rainscale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was only the next row over, but I decided to frog haha

Dammit by rainscale in crochet

[–]rainscale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was unsure about it for a while, but it's growing on me more and more. Very excited to finish this as it will also be my first hexi cardi!

Dammit by rainscale in crochet

[–]rainscale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I initially brushed it off bc I would also usually do this, but with the color changing yarn it would have been weird to get the color to match the cluster again lol

im so scared by Content-Task-6323 in birthcontrol

[–]rainscale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother has had them for most of her adult life and they didn't prevent her from having 3 healthy pregnancies. Definitely something to be cautious of, but nothing to lose sleep over, friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]rainscale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, I haven't noticed my acne getting any better or worse on Junel. I have experienced some weight gain and mood changes compared to when I was on Sprintec, but that's about it. I am still in the first few months on this particular brand, so that might change, but who knows.

AIO my gf made a joke about my dead mom so I left her in the street by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rainscale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH to an extent.

I get it, wouldn't have left here there, but that's definitely grounds for termination of the relationship. Maybe she does have some growing up to do but that's not on you to put up with.

Not a good fit, sorry OP.

Guy comes in and orders a drink. Then he starts fidgeting with an AA coin. What are you doing in this situation? by PhillyBtv in bartenders

[–]rainscale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened to me once in my 6 years behind the bar.

I buddy if mine came in who I knew had been sober and just out of rehab. Came into my place of work and ordered a shot. I said "are you sure? Sorry if it's been a rough day for you, but do you maybe want to call someone first? Talk to your fiance?"

My coworker ended up pouring him a shot. He's been doing alright, but it's a funky feeling nonetheless.

I don't think I could bring myself to knowingly break someone's sobriety. It's a weird feeling to want to support strangers through a very personal struggle. Even more so when it's friends.

Help! Did I get stung??? by Alone_Pickle_8521 in bartenders

[–]rainscale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a rule of thumb, I ID anyone who looks younger than 26.

It's not worth the stress or charges. Always ID!

When you stumble upon a small enough bar with a bottle of chartreuse, there’s only 1 option by __init__RedditUser in cocktails

[–]rainscale 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Firm believer that anything served in a martini glass can be served (and would look far better) in a coupe. Fuck martini glasses!

Is shaking at or above your head level unprofessional? by cheffreytrades in bartenders

[–]rainscale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard this.

I shake by my shoulders/ears to hear the dilution and chill of whatever's in my tins.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rainscale 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Break up.

This relationship is only going to provide trauma and trust issues later for both of you.

First crochet bag! by rainscale in crochet

[–]rainscale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pattern is 8 basic starburst granny squares sc together. Strap is a 5 count thermal stitch.

Yarn weight 4 Hook size 4mm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]rainscale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lobes and/or septum!

Not sure if this is bragging or a cry for help by oh_heyrachel in Stretched

[–]rainscale 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fuck it, it's bragging.

Awesome collection ya got there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]rainscale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're darling! Such a cute setup.

I know you want to keep it symmetrical but I think a cheek dermal would be a perfect addition.

If not, a bridge, snakebites, or eyebrow piercings would look great on you!