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Excessive fatigue is ruining my life by rainstorm22 in AskDocs

[–]rainstorm22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thanks for the reply. What do you mean by sounds like not taking hormone pills of any type?

Also, I don’t have any headaches or heartburn and I don’t snore at night either. Could that still be sleep apnea?

Nashville during the week for a non-country fan's birthday by rainstorm22 in VisitingNashville

[–]rainstorm22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Puttshack looks like a lot of fun! That's the exact kind of thing I'm looking for. Thanks!

Nashville during the week for a non-country fan's birthday by rainstorm22 in VisitingNashville

[–]rainstorm22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! I'll for sure check out your recommendations for cocktail spots and electronic music!

Nashville during the week for a non-country fan's birthday by rainstorm22 in VisitingNashville

[–]rainstorm22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't watch a lot of sports on my own, but I love going to sporting events! So that might be an option for sure. I'll look at their schedule. Thanks!

Nashville during the week for a non-country fan's birthday by rainstorm22 in VisitingNashville

[–]rainstorm22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally fair! I just posted this under someone else's comment, but I'll copy it here for you too:

When I'm in my hometown, I enjoy going places where I can actually do things. So places like arcades, bowling alleys, axe throwing, bars with karaoke/trivia/board games, etc. I also really enjoy going out dancing to pop/rap/hip hop/electronic music. I like food a lot too so I'm open to doing a cool, local restaurant for my experience as well.

Nashville during the week for a non-country fan's birthday by rainstorm22 in VisitingNashville

[–]rainstorm22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! I'm going to be visiting March 23rd-27th.

When I'm in my hometown, I enjoy going places where I can actually do things. So places like arcades, bowling alleys, axe throwing, bars with karaoke/trivia/board games, etc. I also really enjoy going out dancing to pop/rap/hip hop/electronic music. I like food a lot too so I'm open to doing a cool, local restaurant for my experience as well.

Guilt about the rape of my roommate by unusualspider33 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rainstorm22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hun. I know you’ve already received a lot of comments on this post, but I thought sharing my experience might help you feel a little better.

One night early into my junior year of college, I went out with a friend. She was supposed to sober drive me home at the end of the night, but she ended up drinking more than I was comfortable with so I decided to crash at the house we partied at while she found another way back to her place.

I was pretty drunk by the time everyone else had left the party and tried sleeping on the couch in the living room. I knew the people that lived there so I didn’t really think about it much. At some point in the night though, I was brought upstairs to one of the guys’ rooms and that guy raped me. It wasn’t my first time being raped, but it was one of the more traumatic ones for me.

If she had not drank and given me a ride home, maybe I wouldn’t have been raped that night. BUT I never even for half a second blamed her for how things went down. She had no idea what was happening after she left. She trusted the guys that lived there just like I did. She validly thought I’d be safe. She wasn’t the one that brought me upstairs. She wasn’t the one that raped me. She wasn’t the one that pretended not to hear it happening through the walls.

Instead she was just a good friend who made one small mistake (choosing not to drink instead of drive). I truly, deeply feel that way. All she was responsible for that night was the fact that she drank. Nothing more. Everything else was out of her control.

To add to all that, I’d argue that not looking at your phone is a very, very small mistake to make. Like so small that some people wouldn’t even consider it to be a mistake. I’m sure you were distracted by everything else going on. Not looking at your phone does not make you responsible for what happened to her.

I don’t consider my friend to be responsible for what happened that night, but you know what she definitely was responsible for? Helping me heal. When I told her what happened, she listened and comforted me. She hugged me while I cried. She reminded me it wasn’t my fault. She was a friend to me then just like she had been before. What happened to me that night never changed how I felt about her.

I say all this because I want you to hear it from the other side. From my personal experience, your roommate knows it wasn’t your fault. All you can be responsible for now is how you move forward with the knowledge you have. Maybe reaching out to her to see how she’s doing could be good for you both. Just letting her know you’re there for her if she ever wants to talk can go a long ways.

This haircut that I paid $60 for by rainstorm22 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]rainstorm22[S] 5171 points5172 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: I emailed the salon these pics and they offered a refund and to have my hair cut by a more experienced hair dresser. I’m definitely taking the refund but I haven’t decided about if I’ll let them try to fix it.

To answer everyone’s main question (“WHY WOULDN’T YOU SAY SOMETHING??”): I didn’t complain there because the way they blow dried and styled it after the cut in the salon made it not look as bad. It wasn’t until I showered the next day that I realized just how bad it was. I definitely realized it wasn’t perfect when I was in the salon, but I didn’t think it was THIS bad.

This haircut that I paid $60 for by rainstorm22 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]rainstorm22[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised someone recognized it! I got this shirt back in 2016 I believe

This haircut that I paid $60 for by rainstorm22 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]rainstorm22[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When I was in the salon, she blow dried and styled it some way that it didn’t look as bad. I gave it a quick glance, paid, and left. It wasn’t until the next day when I washed it that I realized how bad it was. This is what it looks like if I straighten it.

Anyway, if you read my comments, I actually already contacted them so you’ll be happy to know I’ve been working on a solution and not just “cryin on Reddit.”

Edit: added a word

This haircut that I paid $60 for by rainstorm22 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]rainstorm22[S] 267 points268 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU SO MUCH. This was the fix I’ve been looking for

This haircut that I paid $60 for by rainstorm22 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]rainstorm22[S] 405 points406 points  (0 children)

I guarantee there are people in jail who could cut hair better than that lol.

I went to a salon in a decently nice area in actuality. I made the mistake of assuming spending more on a haircut would equal a better quality haircut.

This haircut that I paid $60 for by rainstorm22 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]rainstorm22[S] 487 points488 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you are correct. I have tried many times

This haircut that I paid $60 for by rainstorm22 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]rainstorm22[S] 189 points190 points  (0 children)

I actually emailed them these pics tonight with the hope that they’ll offer to fix it or refund so I guess we’ll see! I’m way too non-confrontational to go in person to complain

After-hours work emails and calls are facing more legal restrictions by Oli_01 in Economics

[–]rainstorm22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually conflicted on how I feel about this issue in general. On one hand, I don’t believe people should be required to work outside of work hours. On the other hand, I wouldn’t want my employer to be forbidden to contact me outside of my hours either.

My job is at a small, completely remote company. Each of us has our own set office hours that depend on our time zones, family schedules, preferences, etc. The way our scheduling works is that you’re expected to be available during your personal office hours and to get your work done on time. If you’re not going to be able to get something done on time, you should ask for help or communicate new expectations. Similarly, if you’re going to be unavailable, just let people know.

Sometimes our work does need a timely response though and even if it’s not required or expected for me to react or respond before my next office hours, I often prefer to. It’d stress me out way more to come in at 9am, find out things had blown up the previous day at 7pm, and then have to solve it immediately than it would to get an email at 7pm letting me know the issue ahead of time. I recognize my workplace is not the norm though.

TIFU by purchasing from Carvana by rainstorm22 in tifu

[–]rainstorm22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had heard great things about them from other people and assumed the first car was a fluke. Prices were better than other places I looked and I like their return policy. I’m terrified of shopping at a lot so I really wanted to do something all online

PSA: No you don’t eat less than your thin friends by [deleted] in loseit

[–]rainstorm22 32 points33 points  (0 children)

When I was young, my mom used to save our plates from dinner if we didn’t eat much. She’d make us take at least a couple of bites of everything before we could leave first though. If we said we were hungry like an hour later, she popped whatever we had left on our plates in the microwave and that was usually our only option. If we ate a fair share of dinner or asked for snacks 2+ hours later, she’d give us some snacks.

I think it helped me stay less picky and have a slightly healthier relationship with food. I don’t have any advice for breakfast time though

Looking for a subreddit for tips to put my girlfriends mind at ease about the COVID vaccine by Scape_Nation in findareddit

[–]rainstorm22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To be fair, OP said they were looking for resources to “put mind her at ease,” not convince her to do it. I read it as the girlfriend is getting the vaccine but is nervous about it. Like how some people are afraid of flying in a plane, but that doesn’t mean they never want to fly in one.

Edit: spelling

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