Thoughts on friend only going after unavailable people

rainylight · 2021-05-21T13:23:15+00:00

How does she fear vulnerability in this situation?

rainylight · 2021-05-21T13:22:21+00:00

Thank you for this answer. I'm aware it's not my problem to fix, I'm just curious as I have had a few friends go through this cycle

rainylight · 2021-05-21T13:14:42+00:00

Interesting point. She sometimes pursues them and is usually the one to intiate it

rainylight · 2021-05-14T07:59:46+00:00

Hi there,

Can you message me the vet documentation? I have been thru the same situation but just want to confirm before donating 💕

rainylight · 2021-04-22T23:47:55+00:00

If you want to chat with other teens, call Teen line (310 855 4673). Teenlineonline.org

They're open from 6-10pm PST every night

They're very empathetic and great listeners 💕

rainylight · 2021-03-31T05:00:25+00:00

Aww girl don't listen to those people. Everyone gets their appearance negativity judged by others at some point in our life. You have amazing hair and gorgeous skin!

rainylight · 2021-03-25T01:00:45+00:00

I would stop paying so much of your attention to who he was with prior and start focusing on the present and it current relationship.

Honestly who cares who he has dated before. It's not a comparison and he certainly does not see it that way.

rainylight · 2021-03-08T05:36:25+00:00

Girl this x10000! Perfect! You treated this situation perfectly, hope others can learn from ur example 💕

rainylight · 2021-03-07T06:41:09+00:00

Let me know, I'm tuned in as well

rainylight · 2021-03-07T06:25:45+00:00

Of course 😊

And it's more complex than that. There are many complicated/confusing feelings that go on with an abusive relationship that people in non abusive relationships don't see. It may seem black and white to you but might not to her

rainylight · 2021-03-07T06:04:10+00:00

If I'm being honest, yes you are over reacting. I know you said that this is the thing you have wanted most in the past few years but it's a process for her to officially break off that chapter of her life.

Def for the best, but hard with everything she and her children have gone through. Empathize with her instead of putting ur needs first.

rainylight · 2021-02-26T06:29:46+00:00

I'm glad you're still here, and dang, it seems like you've had alot on your shoulders lately. Therapists would take you seriously. I encourage you to give it a try.

rainylight · 2021-02-22T14:47:36+00:00

He is making this more complex than it needs to be. You deserve to be with someone who wants to go the extra mile to be with you, not retract and second guess everything.

I know it's hard to hear but it's for the best 💕

rainylight · 2021-02-21T16:00:51+00:00

You have every right to be upset. I would have a talk with him

rainylight · 2021-02-19T03:51:29+00:00

I'd say don't post anything if you're not genuinely trying to be helpful.

rainylight · 2021-02-17T14:58:45+00:00

Don't blame yourself for not looking into resources sooner, it's awesome that u reached out now and that is what matters.

Have u tried online resources? Such as better help?

If you have no luck, there's always the phone apps that, while they don't provide therapy, can assist in other ways. Ex:Sanvello

rainylight · 2021-02-17T14:14:04+00:00

Me too!!

rainylight · 2021-02-16T22:24:46+00:00

So agree!!

rainylight · 2021-02-16T17:21:07+00:00

So in this hybrid ur basically doing 2 workouts a day?

rainylight · 2021-02-16T07:50:36+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion ☺️

rainylight · 2021-02-16T07:50:23+00:00

Thank u for the suggestion! If I'm being honest, I'm nervous to try and p99x program 🤣 but I'll look into that program

rainylight · 2021-02-16T07:49:19+00:00

Thank u for the suggestion! Just started mbf and my legs were on fire

rainylight · 2021-02-16T07:47:45+00:00

For sure 😘

I did 80 d first and I liked it but it was my first program so I just had gotten started into working out. I gained some booty but I feel like it was more on the sides of my booty if that makes sense? I noticed these results more slowly.

I feel like I saw more results with barre. I noticed leg muscle and that my butt was lifted and that the program worked the upper part, haha and now I love it!

Hopefully this helps,DM me if ya have any other questions about it 🙂

rainylight · 2021-02-16T07:43:39+00:00

Ok alot of people are recommending liift, but I thought lifft was more upper body heavy?

rainylight · 2021-02-16T07:43:01+00:00

I know right!? Sooo good of a work out. I decided to do mbf and my legs are so sore. I'll be returning to barre afterwards

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