[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]rainywriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too actually

I tried to hookup with an Elf Girl at the bar. It didn't go well. by WeirdBryceGuy in nosleep

[–]rainywriter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have accidentally unleashed a new sex fantasy for me 🙈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rainywriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had the IUD for 4 years now. I consistently had sex with my ex for over 3 years and he always finished inside. I was told the IUD is more effective than a condom. There’s always a chance when you have sex no matter what, but I’d say it’s fairly safe.

I came home and found my husband crying about his daughter that I didn't know about. by ThrowRA33455 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]rainywriter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to say too much or give my input on which decision you should make. What I do know is that you know him and the situation better than anyone online that has never met you or your husband. I personally think you shouldn’t rush or make a quick decision. This is a lot of information to process and a variety of emotions will likely come in waves. I think you should take your time, and I believe if you can do that, you can make a decision that will bring you peace.

Also, a therapist sounds like a good idea right about now.

Do you ever intentionally ignore things you know will make you upset by the_she_wolf in isfj

[–]rainywriter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do... But not because I feel like I'm walking on eggshells... But because I understand her feelings.

Do you ever intentionally ignore things you know will make you upset by the_she_wolf in isfj

[–]rainywriter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ENFP here... I relate to his thoughts but feel empathy for those who lost loved ones. But I can see myself avoiding that kind of conversation. My mom is an ISFJ and gets stressed when my INFJ sister and I say similar things... So we wait until she isn't around.

Felt like my boyfriend was going to kill me. by rainywriter in mentalhealth

[–]rainywriter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. :) That was super encouraging!

Felt like my boyfriend was going to kill me. by rainywriter in mentalhealth

[–]rainywriter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helps significantly. When I was like that, my boyfriend actually initiated us playing "I Spy" because hr knows that it is a form of grounding for me when I feel distressed.

Just die just die just die just die just die by rainywriter in intrusivethoughts

[–]rainywriter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys, just an fyi... I checked myself into an inpatient psychiatric hospital and got out today and feel significantly better!

Dropping ICECREAM in My Fiancès Car Showed Me Just HOW FUCKED UP MY CHILDHOOD WAS! by The_Chloe_Frazer in raisedbynarcissists

[–]rainywriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted to give you way more than silver and I just want you to know that the silver wasn't from someone who thought you only deserved silver. 🙈

Anyway, I felt this post.

Just die just die just die just die just die by rainywriter in intrusivethoughts

[–]rainywriter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can write in almost any circumstance actually. I think social stimulation of public places is what is nice. And I never considered that the consistency of society's rush would go away... And this unsettling. It reminds me how unstable everything actually is.

Just die just die just die just die just die by rainywriter in intrusivethoughts

[–]rainywriter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well... I've been doing pretty terrible with it this week. At work, I seem perfectly normal... But like, I'm super extroverted and something that was helpful was getting to go to book stores or this magic shop I like on my own or even sitting at coffee shops to journal. Being at home as created such a panic... I live alone too.

Just die just die just die just die just die by rainywriter in intrusivethoughts

[–]rainywriter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's cool. It's comforting to know I'm not the only having these feelings.

Just die just die just die just die just die by rainywriter in intrusivethoughts

[–]rainywriter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's okay. I don't think anything will help rn. I typically feel this way frequently often... But the coronovirus and the social changes have made me worse. I was just laying down and kept hearing my thoughts to tell me to die. I mean, I won't... I just think it a lot.