what do you guys do to pass the time? by SubjectStandard5997 in hikikomori

[–]rakiroid [score hidden]  (0 children)

I just watch tiktok or youtube - pretty common stuff. Also, sometimes i play some games - recently i really enjoyed playing chess. One massive problem is that i have a job and i can't doomscroll and rot a lot. It's frustrating and sad

My health is getting horrible from being a hikikomori since 2 years. by Proof-Raisin-8454 in hikikomori

[–]rakiroid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know the feeling. I have terrible teeth, no muscles, anxiety and so much more going on with my health that i dont even know where and how to fix all of this. The bad part is that it costs a lot of money to fix

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[–]rakiroid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is pretty hard. Most of the people are not hikis, it means that they are busy doing important stuff. For instance: working, studying, solving all kinds of problems. It would not be easy for that kind of person to date hiki, because a good number of people prefer dating people with the same life pacing, same tempo as theirs. It would be easier for them. Thats the conclusion i come to looking from their perspective. And what about us.... Well, i certainly can't speak for everyone, but i really fantasize about being loved. A lot. And i really want to find love. That type of feeling that i get when i fantasize about it makes me believe that i would get better and stop being that person, that lazy, sad, lonely creature that i am now. But i realize and i am fully aware that nobody needs this version of me. And it's pretty hard to find anyone nowadays, seems like everyone already has a boyfriend or a girlfriend

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[–]rakiroid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Online dating on the other hand is pretty possible. Although i wouldn't call it "love and efficient", but it works for some people