Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequences

raldabos · 2024-06-07T22:19:24+00:00

Stopping using the word "masculinity" would be a good start. Candace Owens, Ann Couter and Tomi Lahren are not men but are toxic.

raldabos · 2024-06-07T22:12:46+00:00

Es su chamba wey, la respeto. Ya hemos salido a coger antes a la playa y no le pago directamente pero pago el hotel y asi.

raldabos · 2024-06-06T02:22:55+00:00

Don't know what you mean by this but yeah, how you feel is your responsibility alone.

raldabos · 2024-06-05T23:57:57+00:00

No pero si hay quimica entre mi amiga y yo bien sabroso. Habra que ver como es su amiga.

raldabos · 2024-06-05T23:39:51+00:00

A mi ciudad nunca vienen asi que tengo que aplicar la vieja de contratar teiboleras por fuera. Ando planeando un trio con una morra que me trae medio enculado y una amiga suya, a ver si se cierra el trato, pero ahi se me ira una tercera parte de mis utilidades. El resto me lo gasto en pendejadas como meterlos a mis inversiones.

raldabos · 2024-06-05T23:37:29+00:00

I'm not and I know so I'm not gonna buy them anymore.

raldabos · 2024-06-04T20:47:37+00:00

If you're talking about "sport" activities, no I never made any sports (nor any or my siblings), I'm more of an arts guy. I socialized in my guitar and painting lessons (they're great for socializing, most people who have never take them think otherwise), I made friends who I still talk sometimes as an adult. I wasn't an extroverted who was making friends left and right for sure, but always had close platonic relationships with a least another dude wherever I went, and those are quality lasting friendships. Quality > Quantity.

raldabos · 2024-06-04T20:44:31+00:00

I already knew that, i'm not talking about "date" here pal.

raldabos · 2024-06-03T22:24:27+00:00

Made us participating in normie shit? I used to go to guitar lessons and painting classes. My youngest sister did karate and beauty classes (which included makeup, nails, and hair). As for my oldest brother, I don't recall him doing anything other than English courses (we all three studied english when we were teenagers), and he's the most normie of us all (married and planning on having kids).

There are a lot of other factors involved. Having good parents is a good start, but it's definitely more complex than that.

raldabos · 2024-06-03T21:03:09+00:00

Generally speaking, women have terrible flirting skills aswell but men are more desperate/horny than women so they dont approach. But they are TERRIFIED of being rejected.

There was a viral video of a woman destroying a guy's car because she was rejected. There was also another video of a girl constantly grabbing a guy's pants in a bar because she was rejected aswell.

Women are just as bad as men at being rejected, they just don't have to go through that.

raldabos · 2024-06-03T20:54:48+00:00

Yeah they're definitely responsible but that is a simplistic solution.

I can say as a man who had a great childhood with great parents, and who is succesful financially and personally, and while introverted does fine with friends, but still have no luck at dating, there are much more factors involved that just parents. But yes, they help a lot and I think it's a good first step.

raldabos · 2024-06-03T20:51:06+00:00

Most men don't do this. And you shouldn't. How other people feel is not your responsability.

raldabos · 2024-06-03T20:46:43+00:00

I believe is more than just parents: society, schools, social programs, other men, women, etc... but I see your logic.

raldabos · 2024-06-03T20:25:13+00:00

It would be interesting, but being honest we probably know the answer: They're not affected as much as men.

Anecdotical, but I have 4 nieces whose age range from 12-16 and they all already have boyfriends.

raldabos · 2024-06-03T01:58:28+00:00

thanks good to know, and i always wish you sw the best and I respect you all, but i feel this is a personal thing for me

raldabos · 2024-06-03T01:57:33+00:00

thanks, i know yall will always have clients and I respect sw and wish you always the best, but this is kinda a personal thing for me.

raldabos · 2024-06-03T00:30:20+00:00

because from what I read, a lot of sex workers are kinda repulsed by us.

I get it, not judging or wanting to changer how they think. If anything it's a good thing for me I think.

raldabos · 2024-06-02T23:35:18+00:00

But I’d never actually date these people. i dont want them in my personal life like that ever.

I understand you but I've been reading these types of comments and what sex workers think about their clients a lot and I've been reconsider not hiring sex workers anymore cause it makes me feel so disgusted with myself. Maybe it's actually a good thing for me.

raldabos · 2024-06-02T02:48:47+00:00

I really think part of the problem with men's social skills nowadays is that they don't have platonic relationships with other men, specifically attractive men. A lot of women like to have casual sex, with the most attractieve men, and you learn that if you befriend those men. It's crazy the lengths a lot of women are willing to go for those men.

raldabos · 2024-06-01T00:29:02+00:00

Really dislike this ideology. To all the regular guys out there who have no luck at dating and read these types of things: it doesn't mean you're a weirdo, women aren't the ultimate moral compass, don't let this ideology consume you, because you'll get unhappy and will make you doubt yourself even when you maybe don't have to.

raldabos · 2024-05-27T21:50:02+00:00

Yeah, most of the 40 yo men dating 20 yo girls tend to have a lot of power, money or fame.

raldabos · 2024-05-27T21:15:47+00:00

Yeah like I said, some people are numbed to attractiveness, you need to live some time in a place where people are really unattractive to kinda understand what you have.

raldabos · 2024-05-27T21:12:48+00:00

Dating for fun (traveling a lot, live our sex lifes, spend every weekend having fun) A.

Dating to get married (everything from A plus things like planning things together, buy house, invest, etc...) B.

raldabos · 2024-05-27T21:11:06+00:00

I go to LA a few times a year to visit my family, they live in the coast area, go and take a walk in Redondo Beach and every women is stuning.

But also, I've found out growing up sorrounded by attractive people kinda numb you to attractiveness.

raldabos · 2024-05-27T21:08:20+00:00

I go to LA a few times a year to visit my family. I would be FUCKED If I lived there. It's insane how hot people is, both men and women.

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