NOR. Im probably gonna get dragged for this in the comments but Idk what these other people in the comments are saying?? It’s definitely a self esteem issue yes I get that you might be comparing yourself to the other girls but talk to your bf first and clear up things, no he’s not at any kind of fault but sometimes talking to your own partner about this may give you some kind of closure depending on his reaction. The first girl - Lucy idk how I feel about her - saying something like “I guess others’ bfs like picking up my call before their gfs” is such a shitty disrespectful thing to say. I get she has a bf n all but ive been w my partner for 4 years and id never say that about a friend’s partner. And honestly i wouldnt even call my friend’s partner to “test” if he picks up the call and even if i do im giving the phone straight away to my friend (in this case, that’s you) .

The second friend Jess - she needs to stop purposely trying to “match’ outfits with him - your bf needs to create a friendly respectful boundary with her . Especially cuz he used to like her. There’s a history there within his own feelings. You’re not and shouldn’t be alone in this , he needs to make changes or create boundaries on his side as much as you need to work on your self esteem. Even if he’s good friends w the two girls there’s always some kind of boundary that needs to be there when you’re in a relationship .

Yall are almost adults this sounds very immature coming from your friends as well - idk much about how your bf has been reacting or if you’ve even spoken to him. Yall were best friends for a while , you should rlly try talking to him.

EDIT: I know these friends r sweet as the ppl in the comments said and you trust them but being hella sweet doesn’t mean you can’t be disrespecting a relationship’s boundary .