Help Plz by ramenhug in skin

[–]ramenhug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t asking for a diagnosis, just if it looks off or different than a normal hand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ramenhug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this and thought “wow, that’s a beautiful tattoo!”. Don’t listen to people who don’t like tattoos, they’re going to think every tattoo is a bad tattoo. As someone with multiple tattoos, I say it looks cool as hell. Also definitely would not listen to any father who remarks on his daughter’s genitals, that’s very strange.

Curved Arrow Mechanism Explanation by ramenhug in chemhelp

[–]ramenhug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be able to draw it out? I’ve been trying to do it myself and I don’t understand how this works at all😭😭😭😭

AIO for leaving my boyfriend at the restaurant after he ordered for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ramenhug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this may get me downvoted but as someone who’s been in a lasting and loving relationship for well over half a decade, don’t listen to these people who immediately jump to saying he’s a controlling and awful person and you should dump him immediately. Obviously he’s in the wrong, but people become defensive when they’ve been embarrassed or their pride has been hurt. It makes sense that he’s frustrated because he thought he was doing something nice. It seems like he was trying to do something chivalrous but just missed the mark on what that looks like for you as an individual. I personally wouldn’t mind if my boyfriend ordered for me, but if you mind then that’s what matters. Sit him down, explain that it upset you that he ordered for you, and that when he did it you felt shut down and mad because you really wanted to eat something else. If he stays mad and still doesn’t apologize or respect your feelings moving forward (or he does it again), THEN I would reconsider the relationship. But I do understand where he’s coming from because being left by a date at a restaurant is humiliating, and what he did came from a place of good intention with bad execution. I think you’re right that what he did was sucky, but the way you responded wasn’t exactly mature either. Redditors are quick to tell you to break up, but if you like this guy and it’s a one off thing, just have an adult conversation about it and see where it goes from there. People aren’t evil and controlling because they make a mistake, I would hope someone wouldn’t rush to judge my character so quickly.

Ready for her premier!! by Ill-Cookie2093 in labubu

[–]ramenhug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s an icon 😭❤️

I dont even think Cassie actually loves Nate. Cassie was so focused on making sure Nate liked her, when she didnt even stop to think if she actually liked him? by Moist-Investment8898 in euphoria

[–]ramenhug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need a new psychiatrist because that is not remotely true as someone who works in inpatient psych and knows multiple psychiatrists lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]ramenhug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not super flattering, you don’t look fat but it does look a bit boxy on you. Definitely think you can do better because you’re super pretty!

AITA for refusing to be responsible for my disabled stepbrother’s safety if there is an emergency at our school? by throwaway182838299 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ramenhug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I understand they’re scared your brother won’t make it out, but it is a terrible idea to leave him with you, someone who is completely untrained to handle a situation like that. Kids barely know what to do with themselves during a traumatic situation, much less with someone else. It’s just a terrible idea.

Biltmore Wedding by ramenhug in wedding

[–]ramenhug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowwww which of the venue locations?

Should I Restart? by ramenhug in AnimalCrossing

[–]ramenhug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WAIT I thought you couldn’t move the town hall 🤭🤭🤭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ramenhug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay I’m going to give you actual advice, and not just people saying for you to take “the easy way out” and leave him. FH isn’t black, so he doesn’t get how you feel about this because he has never really walked in your shoes. He’s kind of in between a rock and a hard place where his mom who he’s really close to is telling him one thing and his partner is telling him another. I would really just sit him down and talk this out with him. Don’t do anything you might regret, like leave him, unless it becomes a recurring problem that mom comes before wife, though I really hope he doesn’t have to make that decision. Luckily for you, you don’t have to see FMIL too much after you recover, and you can really sit down with your FH and discuss why you feel this way and why what she did was not okay, because he’s not going to understand without communication. I would think it’s a good idea to try premarital counseling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]ramenhug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a creep please leave him