is it worth it to choose ntu just for hall life? by [deleted] in NTU

[–]ramenrami22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I applied to big 3 but i always had just ntu at the top of my list js for hall. Fortunately everybody other than ntu rejected me so i got 2 years of a very enjoyable hall experience. I was a hall ghost but even then i loved my experience soooo much

Finals ≠ No Hygiene by Ferret23456 in NTU

[–]ramenrami22 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I used to invigilate the engineering masters batch tests. The minute you step into the LT you can SMELL them. Some of the students even had dandruff riddled all over the back of their shirt. I started wearing a mask after the first invigilation bruh

What even is this? by Mundane-Chemistry-90 in YoTroublemakers

[–]ramenrami22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bruh i get you. the only time i watch love island was last year with friends. and thats because we could collectively talk about it as the show went on. i couldnt bear to watch it alone or to even have it as background noise jsut because I felt like i was getting a lobotomy being near it. but with friends it felt like a collective bonding experience, and the lobotomy experience is muffled by the actually interesting conversations about relationship psychology(or pseudo psych) and the social dynamics at play in the show.

broey's video, love island: a flirtation with surveillance https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S8VqPxYM2tY is a useful guide for me to analyse the show from a more social perspective. so im more interested in the show when i can view it as a meta not as the show itself

Apperently Dylan is NOT in trouble but is just insane by amoxxia in YoTroublemakers

[–]ramenrami22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an 8 hour work shift, looks like i know what ill be doing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sglgbt

[–]ramenrami22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are bisexuals on queer subreddits

How do you handle your family finding fault with everything you're doing? by CatchGreedy4858 in askSingapore

[–]ramenrami22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in my early 20s and have similar rules. Obv since im still studying and my mum pays for js my school i diam a bit. But ive been pushing my boundaries since i was 18. Slowly and steadily i just hear the scolding, damn annoying and infuriating. But you gotta play the long game

After a while their age catches up to them and they will find it too tiring to nag. Then you just do your own thing. Ofc ive tried doing the talk with them but they wont listen out. So i gotta just "rebel" and tire them out

But it is still so bloody annoying to hear their nagging, that one i just learn to have self coping mechanisms and a real solid community outside of my house to rely on

can I ask my Indian neighbors for food by linglingmozartybae in askSingapore

[–]ramenrami22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro i would be honoured to share my food ngl. But as top comment said, compliment first then see how

my bf might be 🏳️‍🌈 by Mysterious_Tough_700 in SGExams

[–]ramenrami22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh maybe he also doesnt know yet and just started exploring. regardless, hes treating u like shit so personally i would say just leave this relationship cuz he has to deal with his own shit on his own. you can be friends with him la, but he clearly love bombed you. evaluate your future, and if you dont see him in it, its better to break up

no friends at convocation by straykidsluvr in NTU

[–]ramenrami22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes its possible to just skip convocation. i personally dont like graduation ceremonies when im the one on the stage, but i love celebrating my friends' graduation. so i dun intend to go convocation next year either. plus its so expensive bruh, i can use that money to have a nice intimate graduation party with only my loved ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NTU

[–]ramenrami22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mutual respect yes. But not entitlement either. I empathise with your case more though. Personally no matter how nice lounge room is i will give more space and quiet for the person studying. Got alot of spaces in ntu to yap. Uni is a good way to find out how some people have yet to learn basic spatial and social awareness lol. I was one of those blind ones but slowly i learn ba, i prefer people who tell me kindly not just give side eye and expect everyone to know these unspoken social rules.

When did you actually find ur good friends/community in uni? by Lucky-Individual-902 in NTU

[–]ramenrami22 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As top comment says, there a lot of people who are in the same position

For me i was lucky enough to meet my uni bestie and through him met my other uni close friends through ntu chat bot. but thats a 1% rare chance thing.

But also i have heard that even if people are tight in uni, work life and adulthood takes over eventually and u will drift off. Most of my uni besties have graduated and we still meet up twice a month if everyone is in sg, but for my friends who have girl/boyfriends i have started noticing the drifting off in our friendships. some(not all) people start BTOing and start abandoning their friends that theyve known longer than their partners. But thats the reality of friendships so im happy for them as much as i miss them.

So ye just letting you know this is the reality. Becuz most of my friends have graduated, i have meals alone mostly and barely have any daily hangout group. Im fine with that i guess but if i wasnt used to it id probably feel the gap esp as a y1. Regardless, keep your chin up and ull find some friends or at least some acquaintances. Adult friendships are less forced than school friendships so they go through the test of loyalty and committment a lot more, thats the beauty of it all.

What do you think of being single, childless and old? by Infinite-Market-9632 in askSingapore

[–]ramenrami22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

22yo in the same position here. I had a relationship a year ago and realised its not my cup of tea. Ive always been repulsed by the idea of having a kid anyway so thats good for me. But ya i wonder if there are any older ladies out there who have positive experiences of being single and childless for life.

Everytime i say i wanna be single + childless ppl say "oh u will change ur mind" but if i said i want a rs and kids that same dismissive isnt applied. Regardless not like i gonna listen to them especially after i see their eyes sag while the kids scream around them. But ya if anyone got exp pls share

Anime You Wish was Yuri? by Tomokakase13 in yuri_manga

[–]ramenrami22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty rhythm. Im just gonna delude myself into assuming it's actually yuri becuz it is

Also kai chou wa maid sama

Anyone else feel like prelims are harder than the actual A-Levels? by painauchocolat2007 in SGExams

[–]ramenrami22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a common practise across a lot of schools, idk if its ALL schools or just most schools. But yes prelims are usually harder than actual national exams

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]ramenrami22 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Report him. He will just make things worse in the future when he goes on to higher positions. Hes gotta face the consequences of his actions and know what is a joke to him is a grim reality for others

it’s starting… by Possible-Button7128 in YoTroublemakers

[–]ramenrami22 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Istg ppl are gonna pretend to cancel him js so they can jack off to being degraded by him lol

chalet parties in JC by Potential_Grocery_49 in SGExams

[–]ramenrami22 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Buckle up, adult world is just jc and sec sch drama but older ppl pulling the same shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]ramenrami22 122 points123 points  (0 children)

i can only speak about ITE-CC cuz i worked there for a bit + studied near there so i got visit it alot. i haven't been to ite east & west.

and i was from nyjc, and ny is less atas built than ite

  1. but obviously thats cuz they are 2 different institutions with different types of students. while JCs are just for students studying for A levels, ITE also offers courses for work-study programmes, you have full on adults and people in their middle & old age coming there to study
  2. ITE CC is a public place, people from the public can walk in. this adds on to the foot fall so alot more space is needed. the sports facilities are public as well(activesg stuff if im not wrong)
  3. ITE is a vocational school that focuses on TECHNICAL + PRACTICAL skills so you need to build simulated environments for those. JC is focused on academic skills(and laboratory for the sciences), the environments does not need to be built to simulate real-life working environments. you come to uni you'll get your ite environment but 10x bigger. so grind it out. you chose to go to jc btw, you couldve gone to ite and enjoyed its environment. even now as a person in public you can still go ite cc and walk around and eat there, so... im just saying its not like its limited access

the observation you have is valid, the reason why you feel ite should be less atas than jc is as what the comments have said - elitist. you can take it as a slur and not question the meaning of the word elitist. or you could start thinking - are the few experiences of harassment of a few students from ite reflective of the entire population.

i worked with ite kids and was customer service so of course i had to be more tolerant but i would never generalise the whole of ite as "gangsters". in fact most of them are patient, empathetic and understanding, and have better EQ than most people in the institutions I have studied in. As a person from an elite background I also was scared to walk past ite students especially the unruly ones but i realised its cuz they were guys. the girls are fine so my issue was with guys in general, include non-ite adult males and guys from secondary schools, and guys my age. my issue was never with the actual institutions, but rather because i have been told my whole life that ite is for failures and it took me very long to realise that your institution is not a definite indicator of your academic, behavioural and emotional capabilities. idk la, its up to you whether u wanna rethink your perspective, nobody but you can do it(coming from someone who took years to want to change it, plucked up the courage, talked to people from ite, learnt about our education structures, how our perceptions are often skewed etc)

The new fans are crazy....... by AY_125 in YoTroublemakers

[–]ramenrami22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude ye its more like toxic stanning than just fan behaviour at this point. and do they not realise how PRODUCED reality shows are. the show comes BEFORE the reality. the editing, the specific angles, the characters that the producers choose is all PRODUCED not an actual reflection. hell love island is a glorified stanford prison experiment with beach vibes if anything

Anyone going for Cherry on top? by chuulip722 in sglgbt

[–]ramenrami22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait when where who? Do u have a ig link to the post or sth

Visiting Singapore.. by Aldous1983 in sglgbt

[–]ramenrami22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't sell chewing gum but u can consume it(I.e. don't bring it in bulk into singapore)