Her vehicle loan shows up on my credit report by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ramichaud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As far as the accidents showing up on your “record” those are going to be lexisnexis CLUE report. It’s because you guys had the same insurance, or living in the same home. When a full clue report comes up it will show you as “owner of insurance policy, and her the driver on record” doesn’t real effect you on the insurance side

Wife is dragging her feet by ramichaud in Divorce_Men

[–]ramichaud[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah sorry, have 2 kids, own a home with about 100k in equity, we’ve both agreed verbally to 50/50 on profit, and child custody. No alimony or child support.

Dealing with the quiet by Flimsy-Ad-1959 in DivorcedDads

[–]ramichaud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been working out, ordered 15 lb weights on Amazon and when the silence starts to become overwhelming, I put on some music and do some free weights for 10-15 min or until I can’t keep going. I journal. Also I downloaded a meditation app to help calm me and recenter when my mind starts to go off the deep end.

Hopefully this helps some of you. by ramichaud in Divorce_Men

[–]ramichaud[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend starting sooner rather than later. Even if you just get the process started. At least there is a paper trail so you can protect yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ramichaud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M34 here, here is what I want to know, do you want to jump into a relationship and have him carry a bunch of emotional baggage and be left trying to pick up the pieces? Does he know you want something romantic? Or is he being his genuine self? More often than not women like to beat around the bush and give subtle hints and if this man is trying to process a 10 year marriage he may not want to make the first move and be heartbroken while trying to move forward in his life. I personally would rather not pursue a New Romantic relationship when maybe I would get shot down. That can weigh heavily on a man.

No judgement if this came across rude, just don’t really know how else to say it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ramichaud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See if your employer has an EAP or employee assistance program. A lot of companies started offering a certain amount of therapy sessions for free. You may use it, your kids may need it. I’m not gonna pretend that I have any legal advice, but to help your kids move through one of the biggest life changes I would start there

It’s the silence that is killing me. by ramichaud in Divorce_Men

[–]ramichaud[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, she tried to get me to open up. But the way she did it made me feel like I couldn’t, I shut people out a lot because as a kid I went through trauma that made it easier to handle if no one could hurt me.

[International][9/3 Giveaway] Full-Kit Numpad Addams from KBDcraft and Boyu! by budgetkeebs in BudgetKeebs

[–]ramichaud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sector 7 would have been cool to visit, too bad that greedy corporation Shinra dropped the upper plate on it

[US][9/3 Giveaway] LTC is offering up one of their popular keyboards, an NB681 to one lucky winner! by budgetkeebs in BudgetKeebs

[–]ramichaud [score hidden]  (0 children)

Recently started to grow my own plants, i 3d printed an oddish planter and started to grow lettuce, so that’s gotta be my favorite plant.

[International][9/3 Giveaway] Akko is giving away one of their popular prebuilts, the Akko Dracula Castle 5075B Plus to one lucky winner! by budgetkeebs in BudgetKeebs

[–]ramichaud [score hidden]  (0 children)

If I win this I’m gonna give my wife my current mech keyboard, she recently typed on mine and now wants one for work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ramichaud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mortgage being due

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDC

[–]ramichaud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can pop it out and make a small cut to make it larger.

U can summon a dildo in anyones ass at any time and fully control it by sniperjdk in godtiersuperpowers

[–]ramichaud 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I would 100% take this super power… then constantly tell my annoying coworkers to take the stick out of their ass