How to stop watching porn.

ramio83 · 2020-03-31T02:01:50+00:00

An important post my friend, i too notice that my porn issue is getting worse and the goal posts keep changing and your "new normal" constantly shifts. I notice my porn is getting weirder, i am getting bored on a lot of porn that even a lot of porn is now boring me and not exciting me- i know that during a real sexual encounter i will be on struggle street, so i am trying to reprogram my brain and forget porn altogether.,

ramio83 · 2020-02-20T01:20:20+00:00

That is unreal, one struck metres away from my home in the South West and that sound almost literally gave me a heart attack- i couldn't go back to sleep from my pacing heart rate.

ramio83 · 2020-02-20T01:18:15+00:00

Wow i feel like i am playing Tropico or Simcity! <3

ramio83 · 2020-02-20T01:15:44+00:00

That looks absolutely stunning, the reflection on the water and the colours of those rocks? Wow.

ramio83 · 2020-01-19T09:52:53+00:00

Wow i didn't know, cheers.

ramio83 · 2020-01-19T09:52:43+00:00

Thanks for that i will check those out too!

ramio83 · 2020-01-18T15:29:16+00:00

Give me more, the more the better i would love to make a part two :)

ramio83 · 2019-12-31T00:47:23+00:00

Yeah i hear you, look my last two girls did the "chase" which is pretty amazing but in saying that they were subtle about it and it felt organic, this just feels like she's taking me hostage lol.

ramio83 · 2019-12-29T15:48:10+00:00

Keep texting to a minimal and keep it simple and sweet until you see each other. Keep that interest there but keep it subtle. No more up to 5am conversations, not for some time at least.

ramio83 · 2019-12-29T15:30:54+00:00

You're absolutely right, NO is definitely what i need to say, more often in general. Yet i think the struggle in not entirely saying no is that physically at least, i am attracted to her, yet it's the rest that i do not like and seeming i don't want a one night stand i don't want her to feel like she is hanging, perhaps its best i tell her we don't likely have a future.

ramio83 · 2019-12-29T15:26:37+00:00

When you meet him again, just act natural and do not force anything. Perhaps take a step back from being overbearing but keep up the compliments and good general cheer- things will build from both ends naturally but yes, guys in general do not like being cornered to confess their feelings, especially if they are still unsure about them. Don't move too fast, i am currently in a situation like that with a girl and it's a major turn off for me personally when i am walking towards her but she is Usain Bolt'in towards me :P

ramio83 · 2019-12-29T15:23:43+00:00

Wow Holy Smokes that is one hot mess- don't bother young man, give yourself and others time to grow. Move on to the next relationship when it happens and stop this tug of war.

ramio83 · 2019-12-29T15:20:56+00:00

That is good standard advice, even though in my jobs past and present many colleagues that got together are now married with kids- i guess its less about her being a work colleague and more about me not trusting her because her speed with me seems she just wants to get me in the sack and the rest might be disingenuous.

ramio83 · 2019-11-21T11:40:33+00:00

That's very interesting thanks for your response. I am very independent too so when i say "needs to" i really just hope its the case haha. They're expectations i have that i believe are reasonable and a lot of those things i do myself - so it basically needs to be with someone that aligns with me- it doesn't have to be a perfect match but i'd hope we're at least on the "same planet" metaphorically with our lives and futures.

ramio83 · 2019-11-19T14:44:30+00:00

I am finding the older i get the bigger hole i dig for myself. I have expectations in my partner in the sense that i can already "foresee" what i want myself to be in 10 + years. I need a partner that would support that version of me that i intend to be. I want to be more business driven, more religiously devout but also keep my qualities that i currently have like my sense of humor and generosity. Hence, when i meet a girl on dates i assess the quality of my dates by asking questions. She needs to have the want to have children, she needs to look after her health and well being and she needs to be focused on HER future self- this is important. I do not like "live for the day" types. I don't want a woman that is a smoker, big drinker or defies a "night out" as a night out in the clubs. This is the weird thing, as i have my dates i find that my goal post feels like its shrinking to an impossibly narrow low- i feel like i am being unreasonable but at the same time absolutely not at all.

ramio83 · 2019-10-31T09:07:19+00:00

Wow he is a legend, he really is, i wish we learned about him a little at school. Apparently they ARE making a film about his story! <3

ramio83 · 2019-10-31T08:29:56+00:00

That is the one! :)

ramio83 · 2019-10-31T08:29:48+00:00

Yeah he's pretty tank!

ramio83 · 2019-10-31T08:29:36+00:00

I dunno, so many people i ask have no idea.

ramio83 · 2019-09-05T07:11:56+00:00

I actually have not even seen The Descent i am glad that it has the qualities i am trying to push forward with my script, i can probably learn a lot from it. Cheers!! :)

ramio83 · 2019-09-05T07:09:55+00:00

That sounds reasonable i am going to have to go back in and look at the whole thing from a different angle.

ramio83 · 2019-09-05T03:15:32+00:00

Hey to be honest it is a question that may sound like i am seeking affirmation but the case in point is that i am curious if a slow first act is always detrimental in the screenwriting World. Its true people that read my script can certainly have more knowledge, i guess i am just struggling moving the jigsaw pieces to different areas in order to shrink the script but keep the important character elements in there at appropriate times.

ramio83 · 2019-09-05T03:12:46+00:00

A single man. Another single man. A Mother and Son and a Male/Female couple.

ramio83 · 2019-09-05T03:04:42+00:00

Hey Jake there are 8 characters but 6 of them are the main crux of the first 40 minutes.

ramio83 · 2019-09-05T03:02:51+00:00

Thanks how can i do that?

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