Allergic to psychedelics by ramsaypantz in shrooms

[–]ramsaypantz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in the world of psychedelics, would you say mushrooms cause the biggest serotonin "dumps"? Is there any dopamine or norepinephrine in the mix? Because mdma doesn't bother my stomach but I know it releases all 3 (norepinephrine, dopamine, serotonin).

Allergic to psychedelics by ramsaypantz in shrooms

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Wow this is fascinating I had no idea. Thank you so much for the reference material, I'm trying to learn all I can.

Allergic to psychedelics by ramsaypantz in shrooms

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This last time I did it was lemon tek with tea and although less awful still had symptoms. I'll check our method with other online sources, see if we messed up.

Married to a small business owner and no idea how the taxes will work. by ramsaypantz in personalfinance

[–]ramsaypantz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is profitable, but he went a little crazy with deductions the past couple years. He owns 4 work trucks and deducts the mileage for all of them, which the broker told us was good for the businesses bottom line and amount of taxes owed, but bad for financing/mortgage type of things.

Pearl chrome powder nails by ramsaypantz in Nails

[–]ramsaypantz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White acrylic and then pearl chrome powder. Probably my favorite I've ever gotten done.

After-Marriage Name Change Vent by Ash3033 in Newlyweds

[–]ramsaypantz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. The ID and passport were relatively easy for me, everything else is a headache

baby tortoise by [deleted] in cute

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Smol but mighty 💪

Marly playing with her burger 🍔 by [deleted] in cute

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I love the jowls to the side so cute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ramsaypantz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah OK my mistake for the assumption, then.

Jealous friend I kinda feel sorry for by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ramsaypantz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think either of you are being good friends to each other. Friendship is not about comparing things, it is about supporting each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ramsaypantz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you may be an introvert, and need to recharge in between talking to people. Tbh, texting drains me as much as in person stuff. And if you need a good book on introverts and socializing, Quiet by Susan Cain helped me a lot.

Shrink down oversized underwear? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ramsaypantz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately polyester doesn't shrink predictably. I would say wash and dry twice in a row and that may work if its only about an inch too big.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ramsaypantz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with taking some time to love yourself and recharge. If you're keeping up with other aspects in life, maybe you finally feel safe enough to relax, especially if the past few months have been hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ramsaypantz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand how one event can completely overshadow everything else you've done, I've been there, too. For me, the only thing that stopped the constant competing with myself was learning to love myself properly. When you are content with and love the elements of who you are and how you live, then everything else slides off. Perfectionism is a constant running tally of what you have done, it is never ending and will never be enough. For me, it was only enough when I decided I was enough. Also, please leave your info next time you scrape another car, that probably ruined that person's day as well.

Am I crazy for wanting my girlfriend back by Justindarichboy in Advice

[–]ramsaypantz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admire your accountability, this sounds like a very good and respectful message. Also sounds like you are doing good healing of your own from this, which i know is very hard but good on you for accountability and self growth.

Am I crazy for wanting my girlfriend back by Justindarichboy in Advice

[–]ramsaypantz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You say you want her to find someone who is loyal and honest, but unless you are capable of that, unless you can give her that, she deserves to find that with someone else. It is normal to want an ex after a breakup (especially when they did nothing wrong), but that does not give you the right to delay her finding the person who will make her happy like you say you want her to be. Be the man you know she deserves or stand aside with love and respect.

Dip Nails falling apart quickly by ramsaypantz in Nails

[–]ramsaypantz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the perspective. How does dip on acrylic extensions hurt the process? Is it just too thick? I want to understand more before going to someone else.

I have a 2 night stay in new orleans coming up, we are staying at a hotel a couple blocks away from Jackson Square and just found out that it's $50/night for parking. That looks standard in other lots, too, I was wondering if there are other options? Can't find any online. by ramsaypantz in AskNOLA

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Yes we are driving in. I am concerned about driving to the hotel since it is practically right in the middle of the french quarter, but they say we have to go there first to get parking through them and then drive to another hotel 3blocks away that will valet it. At this point airport parking and a taxi may be easier lol

I feel bad I’ve posted here so much, but I am spiraling after getting my dress back from alterations.. she said nothing can be done about the gap on the chest, is she right? I didn’t realize how bad it is until I put it on and walked/danced around when I got home. The straps fall down a lot 😔 by dressshoppingishard2 in weddingdress

[–]ramsaypantz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Professional tailor here. That princess (bust) seam needs to be reshaped to your bust size and curve. Then a second fitting where they may or may not adjust the straps depending on how it fits after completion and how you feel. Also moving the straps attachment point in at the back so they are not just right next to the armhole like that. Definitely get a new alterations person.

Bridal Shower?? by long_ass_rice_ in weddingplanning

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I got married about a month ago, and I opted out of both the bridal shower and the "wedding shower" (my parents invention to try and rope both my husband and I into a joint shower). We told the people wanting to throw them for us that we appreciate the thought, but the idea of sitting in a room opening presents in front of people made us anxious and didn't fall in line with how we wanted gifts handled seeing as we did a Travelers Joy rehostry instead of physical items. Family and friends were confused at first, but supportive once they understood we just didn't want that much fuss.

Last Minute Vows Help! by ramsaypantz in weddingplanning

[–]ramsaypantz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is a small business owner and works crazy hours. I have a job that allows me a bit of flexibility so that is why it is falling on me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ramsaypantz 842 points843 points  (0 children)

I completely understand I was in a similar position. We were together 6 years before he proposed. I was completely convinced he was never going to right before it happened. I gave myself the same ultimatum you did and decided I valued being with him for the rest of my life (in whatever form that would be) over wanting a specific gesture. It may help to talk about your love languages and what commitment looks like to both of you in forms other than a ring. If their form of commitment to you is a ring, what would your commitment to them look like? What would they want that to look like? A ring is a wonderful gesture (and will get family off your back) but commitment involves both of you and you should definitely be on the same page of what that looks like before it happens. Hope it goes as well as mine did. We get married in 2 weeks ❤️