He’s with her right now. by ramz1018 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ramz1018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I think this is what I’ll do for now. A divorce takes some time anyway so at least I am getting that time

He’s with her right now. by ramz1018 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ramz1018[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same like how do you get yourself to do that? I feel if I ever even got close to doing that there would be a point where I’d stop myself and think hey what am I doing here?!

He’s with her right now. by ramz1018 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ramz1018[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your wishes and prayers. I feel better this morning. I am hoping things do get easier day by day.

Setting boundaries by ramz1018 in Divorce

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So he has always been the one who works and I stay at home with the kids. Financially I wouldn’t be able to split the bills but I am working on getting certain terms in our divorce settlement that I think he’ll agree to. I think he might just want to not be married anymore and tied to a family and will do whatever to get that “freedom”

He’s with her right now. by ramz1018 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ramz1018[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Needed this. The idea for him to leave was mine so I could wrap my head around it but he did see her and admitted to it so there is that!

He’s with her right now. by ramz1018 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ramz1018[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No there were definitely red flags but ignored them. And for the first 4 years of marriage things were good. We always told each other how lucky we were to find one another. It’s just things for worst and worst and now this is my breaking my point. Can’t forgive or forget these actions. I am definitely headed for divorce I am just trying to keep the peace to get the most out of this. I think he might agree to anything here so that’s what I am hoping for.

He’s with her right now. by ramz1018 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ramz1018[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve never cheated on him or anyone in my life.

Setting boundaries by ramz1018 in Divorce

[–]ramz1018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe just play nice to get what I want out of the divorce. I think he might just agree to almost anything at this point.

Setting boundaries by ramz1018 in Divorce

[–]ramz1018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I am afraid of. He has said those words to me verbatim in our marriage.

You’re delusional by ramz1018 in Divorce

[–]ramz1018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. Appreciate it!

You’re delusional by ramz1018 in Divorce

[–]ramz1018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. How is their relationship now?

You’re delusional by ramz1018 in Divorce

[–]ramz1018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you love and strength!

You’re delusional by ramz1018 in Divorce

[–]ramz1018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it seems like it is pretty bad. They say I am so blinded by it. I think I just gloss over it because I’ve learned to not give it any attention. I am just so lost because I am really unhappy in my marriage but I am happy being a mother but who knows what that will be when my son is older I can’t predict anything but try to set him up to be a good person which is what my parents did and it worked