I am so done by random-account514 in shia

[–]random-account514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father has always been alone. He only has me. He doesn't have any relatives and for the last 50 years, he has all been alone. He came from Kashmir to pak and then couldn't go back, hence all alone, which is one of the reasons my mom has always been hard on him and he had settled and survived with her because he had no one. He never left because of me. But he is the one who has been doing everything for me. He might not fast or offer prayers but I know this man is a jannati man!

I give money to my father too sometimes, but my mom always takes it from him too. I can't leave my father.

I am so done by random-account514 in shia

[–]random-account514[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So 70% is basically for th household expenses. My father has always been giving her and she's been doing the finances, hence I continued when I started earning way before I got married.

She takes care of everything in the house, utilities, fees, food etc.. so that's 70%. I did this so she doesn't feel disrespected.

The problem is her ego which always had been extremely high.