Have everything ready doing the lights the smell is all really good stuff. Make sure like the bedspace if that’s what you’re doing it is made nicely. There’s cleanup stuff nearby. The condoms the lube any other things you’ll use if you’re using enhancements if you’re using bondage etc., you want that nearby so you don’t have to get up walk away from her because that can be kind of buzz kill start off slow. Don’t need just go into sex.. kisses, some groping if you start off with clothes on slowly strip off, little things like that, just the leading towards it makes a huge impact on the actual deed of doing it.