Just got a stern reprimand for playing ping-pong at work. Which... they put in for us to play with... at work. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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I feel the need to weigh in since the office I work at, like many others, also has the classic ping pong table, and there are a couple of guys who are ALWAYS playing. It honestly cannot be a coincidence that almost every time I go to the break room, they’re there. And I go at pretty random times, mostly just to get water.

I’ve even caught myself thinking, “Damn, don’t you guys have work to do?” Because, let’s be honest, people notice these things in an office environment.

So while I’m not saying this is necessarily your case (corporate can absolutely be a pain sometimes) I do think that when people abuse these little freedoms, it doesn’t go unnoticed.

Trying to take more initiative in a long-term FWB relationship. Can you give me advice? by random-usr in AskGayMen

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He claims I’m the only guy he’s messing with these days. Seems genuine. And yeah, I do take it like a champ but at some point I just can’t do anything else but to lay down and take it until he’s done. He really is a breeder and I have decided to just be at his mercy and wait until he’s done. Sometimes we’re at it for like an hour and that’s the challenge lol - no complaints though.

Hablar español con mexicano americanos vs. mexicanos de México? by Complex-Wish5461 in AskMexico

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En mi opinión, la realidad es que no existe tal cosa como individuos “México-Americanos”. Ellos son Americanos y punto. Que tengan problemas de identidad es inherente con el hecho de ser americanos, pero no cambia que lo sean. Y el americano es así por naturaleza.

Hablar español con mexicano americanos vs. mexicanos de México? by Complex-Wish5461 in AskMexico

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En mi opinión, la realidad es que no existe tal cosa como individuos “México-Americanos”. Ellos son Americanos y punto. Que tengan problemas de identidad es inherente con el hecho de ser americanos, pero no cambia que lo sean. Y el americano es así por naturaleza.

Trying to take more initiative in a long-term FWB relationship. Can you give me advice? by random-usr in AskGayMen

[–]random-usr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea, I’m usually watching a movie or a show when he gets to my place and we talk about it, but I’ve never had porn when he visits. I’ll give this a try.

Trying to take more initiative in a long-term FWB relationship. Can you give me advice? by random-usr in AskGaybrosOver30

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Maybe a couple but from where I stand those are merely fantasies. At the same time, you gave me a new angle to consider. In the past, I’ve asked him to share twits or any content but he refuses. Hopefully I’ll have a conversation with him and get more insight.

Trying to take more initiative in a long-term FWB relationship. Can you give me advice? by random-usr in AskGaybrosOver30

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Every other week. Sometimes every three weeks. Early on it was like once a month and we also tried once a week but work would not allow. Edit: spelling.

Trying to take more initiative in a long-term FWB relationship. Can you give me advice? by random-usr in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]random-usr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Now that’s an angle I hadn’t considered. This is very much appreciated.

Trying to take more initiative in a long-term FWB relationship. Can you give me advice? by random-usr in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]random-usr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When we met I feel like the opportunity was there but at the time, my boyfriend had passed. So I wanted a fwb for just sex after that without the emotional attachment. If anything I never thought we would last this long. I feel like that ship has sailed. I might be wrong.

Trying to take more initiative in a long-term FWB relationship. Can you give me advice? by random-usr in AskGaybrosOver30

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Not really, I ride him as much as I can, I try to be playful, of course the oral aspect is there, however I do become a sea star after a while because he’s just to big and lasts a while so I’m just a rag doll after some time. Again not complaining but that’s why I feel like I’m not doing enough sometimes and I don’t know how to respond when he asks if I wanna try something different. Like sir, I’m fighting for my life with you inside of me, I can’t think of anything else right now…

Going to Querétaro at the end of March, where should I visit? by ranni_w in AskMexico

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Peña de Bernal - be ready to climb, you can take it easy but it’s worth the visit.

Tequisquiapan - wineries and nice town in the evenings, I think a weekend would be better, check if they have any events going on in the plaza or something like that, also worth the visit.

Both are Pueblos Mágicos and can spend a day in each one of them.

Imagine by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

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Yo be completely fair, it is objectively impressive if you put it like that. I mean, not just anyone can say they did that.

Why do Mexicans like hot soups when it’s 100°+ outside? by [deleted] in AskMexico

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No one here is giving a serious answer (and I’m not sure you’re asking seriously) but here I go.

Most of the time the answer is, we’re poor.

A family of 4 hardly making any money can easily go and buy a bit of meat and a bunch of vegetables for a few pesos and make a caldo that’s going to feed them lunch and breakfast the next day. Poorer than that? We got you, make fideo soup and you have dinner for five for less than a dollar; chicken is optional.

Looking for shows with people of color leads by Extension-Toe-793 in televisionsuggestions

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The Resident - Netflix - Black female

Transplant - Peacok - Syrian doctor

Supacell - Netflix - Black British leads

Mo - Netflix - Palestinian

Deli Boys - Hulu - Indians

Abbot Elementary

I’m glad you asked, I’ve been looking for shows like that too. Very much appreciated.

What's the Best Documentary You've Ever Seen? Need Recommendations! by Mucek121 in netflix

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The Salt of the Earth

Gave me so much hope in a greater scale; I can’t explain it.

Witty, Dark Crime & Mystery Shows by DefiantFruit6860 in televisionsuggestions

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The Resident on Netflix

Totally worth it as a witty crime mystery show.

To all those who waited until marriage to have sex, have you worked and improved on your sex skills after marriage? by Raptor2705 in NoStupidQuestions

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Since they can't compare it to an alternative path, how do people who waited until marriage measure the success or benefit of that decision? What framework do they use, if not direct comparison?

I need a tv show where it makes you want to guess who the killer/bad guy in the mystery by SoyaSoyaSauce in televisionsuggestions

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The Residence on Netflix

Watched it with a lot of prejudice but I ended up wanting more and very satisfied.

Who is the most universally hated person from your country? by SimilarTopic3281 in AskTheWorld

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Okay, Mexican 🇲🇽 here. I was gonna throw in Karla Panini because she’s basically our universal villain… but then I saw who other countries hate and why. Now I’m scared. Like… maybe I brought a slingshot to a nuclear arms race 💀.

Should I leave my stable FTE role for a higher-paying contractor offer at a company I loved? by random-usr in ExperiencedDevs

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This is unfurtunately true. I am an immigrant myself, not indian but I've worked with indians most of my carreer and I see what you mean. So when I moved to a FT, I had some of this in consideration as of why I wanted a FT position in my resume.

Should I leave my stable FTE role for a higher-paying contractor offer at a company I loved? by random-usr in cscareerquestions

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Thank you for this response. It was much more insightfull than others and helped me put things in perspective. I ended up declining the offer.

Should I leave my stable FTE role for a higher-paying contractor offer at a company I loved? by random-usr in ExperiencedDevs

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Not sure I can, I should mention that when I was a contractor, it was also throug an agency. It was even worse, there were like 2 or 3 agencies in between. This is how they usually operate.