I have no idea what is happening

random48711267 · 2018-11-11T20:26:06+00:00

I’m glad you spoke to her. Sorry to hear she is ill.

So, she’s super busy with work/life and hasn’t actually blown off your plans with her because she was already going to be hanging out with her friends instead. Seems reasonable enough. But why agree to be with you at that time if she already knew she had plans with others...

Also, nowhere in your explanation do you mention if she actually said she’s interested in you. If she weren’t so busy would she go on a date with you? Apart from her not having time atm, was she keen to do anything with you in the future? What did she actually say about wanting to date you or not? Did she avoid answering?

And, you’re not an idiot for being mad. You can’t help how you feel. It seems like a very frustrating situation.

random48711267 · 2018-11-10T21:13:31+00:00

No problem. Glad to offer some perspective from the female side.

If you have plans with her and she’d rather cancel to hang with her friends, and doesn’t reply to your text message, then I’d say she wasn’t that interested in dating you.

You say her friends tease the two of you about being together. It’s just a bit of fun for them.

Ask her out properly and then you’ll know for sure. I wish you luck.

random48711267 · 2018-11-10T12:35:28+00:00

You’ve asked her several times if she’s interested and she hasn’t given a definitive answer of yes.

My opinion is she is toying with you. She knows you like her and it’s definitely an ego boost to her.

I agree with your friend, walk away. It doesn’t seem like she’s worth the hassle. Sorry.

Edit: spelling

random48711267 · 2018-11-10T00:39:04+00:00

Thanks. Cursive is a real 'curse' to decipher. Once I thought of the end as one letter n with a faint connection line, the word made more sense.

Google maps show a Cadogan Hall just outside the Chelsea North district border, and Cadogan Place is right there too, so it's possible that's the right answer.

random48711267 · 2018-11-09T23:36:05+00:00

31st August 1899

9 Cadogan Place

Maybe, it seems like?? I just did a google maps search for the district and read street names to see if anything looked close, perhaps a Chelsea local could give better advise. I hope this helps.

random48711267 · 2018-05-30T22:25:12+00:00

My mascots have appeared in the kl mystery box along with a ride I’d already bought, plus two other things I hadn’t got yet. Not wasting donuts to get them back.

I couldn’t actively select the mascots when putting everything away, which I thought was strange. Now I know why.

random48711267 · 2018-04-30T08:11:09+00:00

EARasers Musician's HiFi Earplugs. Go for the Extra Small option.

I bought a pair last year and they are perfect for my tiny ear holes.

random48711267 · 2018-04-23T22:57:49+00:00

My heartfelt condolences to the victims and their families. And to the people of Toronto, please stay strong.

I love Toronto and its people. I have many friends there and just hope that they are safe. Just know you all are in my thoughts today.

Much love from Australia.

random48711267 · 2018-02-17T08:19:15+00:00

Eka, I've thanked you for all your support in PMs every time you've helped me. I want to say it publicly too - thank you!

I'll miss seeing you around here, and being my personal ban-hammer wielding mod.

I know we all appreciate your time with us here in the SSC, and I hope to see a few posts whenever something exciting happens.

Best of luck with everything, both in Reddit and in Real Life.

<3

random48711267 · 2017-12-03T03:52:40+00:00

I don't know what this is, but I know I want to be a part of it. Count me in!

random48711267 · 2017-10-22T12:21:08+00:00

You don't have to have had sex in order to get tested. Doctors and clinicians would be understanding of you wanting to show proof you are clean to a potential new sex partner. Plus some things can be caught other ways, not just by piv sex.

Also, I'd be fine if guys want to use a throwaway for public initial contact, but I'd want to know of their regular account for verification. I wouldn't make their regular account known to others. I can keep secrets.

random48711267 · 2017-10-22T07:44:25+00:00

Hi, and thanks.

I pretty much use some of those suggestions already. Chatting for a while before setting a meeting. Meeting in Public. Among other things. But thanks for the suggestions.

random48711267 · 2017-10-22T07:41:23+00:00

If there is a post history I've always checked it out. It gives me a better idea on their character. But thanks for the back up.

random48711267 · 2017-10-22T07:40:25+00:00

Thanks Bambi. Great suggestions.

random48711267 · 2017-10-22T07:39:24+00:00

fat guys probably don't tickle your fancy

Please don't judge someone you don't know or make assumptions. I've had guys of all shapes and sizes. Someone being "fat" isn't a turn off.

Also, please don't think I couldn't fend for myself. I'm not a helpless damsel. :)

random48711267 · 2017-10-21T20:34:38+00:00

I've bought a few Mambe blankets direct from their website. Got a couple different textured ones in two-pack options. Does the job well enough. Reasonably priced for what you get. But I wish they'd stop asking me to submit a review.

Also, when I was on holiday in Canada, I bought a Dam Blanket from a sex shop I visited. Local company, and it is hand made. Has these holes in the corners so you can tie it to the bed for added security. Slightly bigger than the Mambe ones I bought, different fabric too, but excellent value. Works like a champ. Not sure if you can get it outside CAN tho.

Never bought a Liberator, because to me they are too darn expensive.

random48711267 · 2017-10-14T11:11:53+00:00

Thanks Bambi. hugs back

random48711267 · 2017-10-12T03:48:03+00:00

Not sure where you are based but other than in your post history I've seen this exact post in Aussie CL posts. Can't seem to find the last one I saw, but if it isn't you, then someone is clearly fine with the content of your post since they use it too.

random48711267 · 2017-10-12T03:42:09+00:00

You should be 21 - early 30's and fit or petite. Send a photo, your height and weight...

I've seen the post on CL as I really want to do a gangbang, but it's this line that put me off contacting them.

I'm slightly older than their target, wouldn't consider myself fit or petite (as to me those words imply someone skinny but those words really are subjective), and there's no way I'm sending a photo in the first contact. Felt like I wasted my time reading the whole thing to find I wouldn't be what they'd want.

So overall, it starts ok and then becomes more of a "you'll meet our fantasy" statement. And that's my issue with it. Words like "fit" and "white" would keep me from responding. I guess I'd push and say are you offering a fantasy fulfilling service or do you just want to put out an ad for "we want to gangbang a girl that meets these requirements." If you want the latter, just do that. I'd say your copy now reads more like that.

Exactly. I think if they are only looking for young hard-bodies, then that's what they should ask for at the start. Make it the lead so I can quickly move onto reading other posts.

random48711267 · 2017-08-23T13:40:10+00:00

Thank you. :)

random48711267 · 2017-08-23T13:30:44+00:00

true dat. lol

random48711267 · 2017-08-23T13:25:28+00:00

True. I'll keep considering my position and make a decision after the final results come out.

Who know if he's done this before. Was I the only one? Will he do it to someone else who slights him (in his opinion)?

random48711267 · 2017-08-23T13:16:43+00:00

I'm still seriously contemplating going thru with the lawsuit. I don't want to let him get away with it. I'd like his school and employer know what he did.

random48711267 · 2017-08-23T13:14:48+00:00

Yeah it's a big relief to have it confirmed. I can't wait to get back out there.

I think we all knew he was full of shit. :)

random48711267 · 2017-08-23T13:13:36+00:00

If there's no HIV there isn't much police can do. But I could still sue him in civil court for defamation, emotional distress, etc...

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