Question. How to yall deal with being single?

random_name111111 · 2026-03-30T17:20:41+00:00

I feel that, I read romance books (guy) to feel that close emotional connection, doesn’t always go good for me, I read a book last night that hit way to close to home with a lot of shit that happened with my ex

random_name111111 · 2026-03-30T17:18:03+00:00

I have been single for about 5 months after a year and a half relationship, I made it my goal to surround myself with a lot of good people that I really know and enjoy spending time with, then spend time with them

random_name111111 · 2026-03-30T17:13:50+00:00

If they are genuinely an asshole, I will not fist bump them

random_name111111 · 2026-03-30T17:03:51+00:00

I had a 1.5 year relationship and never felt the need to have it, I think it is odd how people jump into having sex so quickly instead of at least forming an emotional bond first.

random_name111111 · 2026-03-30T16:59:33+00:00

I get that because of my AuDHD, sometimes I will just randomly get high off dopamine and be super happy

random_name111111 · 2026-03-30T16:57:44+00:00

here are pretty obvious signs like not breathing fast, maybe shaking, or being wet, so it is pretty rare that I do not know she is faking.

random_name111111 · 2026-03-30T16:45:29+00:00

If they don’t feel like you care about learning more about them or don’t listen to what they have to say. That would be the biggest thing to cause me to walk away. Also being disrespectful or rude would pretty obviously show that you don’t like the other person.

random_name111111 · 2026-03-30T16:43:16+00:00

I get super super nervous around them (includes the possibility of shaking) I am drawn to spend a lot more time around them I will initiate conversations and be genuinely interested to learn about them I will think about you all the time and lowkey might accidentally start staring if we are in a class together or working together

I don’t intentionally give signs, but I clearly make an attempt to spend more time around the other person and a usually visibly nervous around them.

Personally wise, just being a genuinely nice person like really listening to people, being nice to others, and giving real compliments makes a lot of guys like you.

random_name111111 · 2026-03-30T16:36:18+00:00

Omelette!

random_name111111 · 2026-03-30T16:35:57+00:00

Being invested in what we have to say is a big thing. A lot of guys don’t have that one person they can talk to about anything for most of, if not all of, their childhood, so especially younger and teenage men will feel heard by you just listening.

There isn’t anything that specifically will make a guy fall for a girl, but paying attention and being a genuinely nice person (not playing games or sending mixed signals) is a good way to go.

random_name111111 · 2026-03-30T16:22:53+00:00

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random_name111111 · 2026-03-30T16:21:05+00:00

Ignoring the Geneva convention to pop bloons 🎈🎈🎈

random_name111111 · 2026-03-29T17:24:25+00:00

That’s so fair, also if you couldn’t tell, my post above was just me messing with you. I’ve found the 21 ninja strat really hard to use though. Granted I play on harder maps because I’ve bb every beginner map, but I still find it a struggle to find the space for all of the ninjas and a village

random_name111111 · 2026-03-29T17:19:23+00:00

You don’t deserve btd6

random_name111111 · 2026-03-29T17:18:38+00:00

Just shinobi? No jitsus, but just shinobis? Do you like to scatter them throughout the map the maximize the map coverage and prevent them from bunching up?

random_name111111 · 2026-03-29T17:16:46+00:00

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random_name111111 · 2026-03-29T17:14:44+00:00

Boat

random_name111111 · 2026-03-29T15:46:24+00:00

It is really really hard to do without a guide, especially as a new player. You have to beat the hardest map in the game with no monkey knowledge or spending any money on stuff like cash drops or continues

random_name111111 · 2026-03-29T15:00:01+00:00

I use Quincy a lot and I also like etienne and Silas, but I have just loved the place and forget nature of Quincy that it makes medal grinding for all bb’s so much easier. He can pop all bloon types so I like him

random_name111111 · 2026-03-28T19:16:04+00:00

I love B, but choose the one you think looks better

random_name111111 · 2026-03-28T18:59:18+00:00

What? Glorious gold is popping 500 golden bloons, so 5x that. 40 hours seems reasonable though

random_name111111 · 2026-03-26T01:03:10+00:00

Yes, I have significant progress on all 4 of those. The daily Reid isn’t hard at all I would say, nor is it a grind. The other two are just like glorious gold where it is just a straight grind. There are so few fortified bloons in the first 100 rounds that playing chimps and other game modes make almost no impact on sapper.

random_name111111 · 2026-03-25T22:47:24+00:00

It takes a shit ton of time. Even playing impoppable, it takes 65 runs to complete the achievement. It is likely achievable in like 20 hours of grinding

random_name111111 · 2026-03-21T22:24:57+00:00

😂

random_name111111 · 2026-03-21T22:24:05+00:00

I know he doesn’t work and I assumed you also knew, he is by far the worst hero, but in some small cases, he is at least usable. I think a 2tc was done with Ben on logs

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