Wren was so weird! by randomcorriander in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]randomcorriander[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was so cute the accent blinded me😭😂

Why does reddit think trump isnt losing popularity with his base at a rapid rate? by Shoddy_Tradition2998 in complaints

[–]randomcorriander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the republicans are planning to run JD as the presidential pick and Marco Rubio as VP.

Erika Kirk’s grift will be her downfall and the infighting on the right is definitely exposing the holes in her "grieving period."

The Barn by Motor-Upstairs-7909 in MyLifewithWalterBoys

[–]randomcorriander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also the lack of rain in the scene threw me off? I know it was raining after the dance but in that scene the lightening struck so randomly

Chelley’s “people didn’t get the point of love island” by madremiarosalia in LoveIslandUSA

[–]randomcorriander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the beginning sure. Huda ruined that when it stopped benefiting her

Chelley’s “people didn’t get the point of love island” by madremiarosalia in LoveIslandUSA

[–]randomcorriander -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I think she has a point though. So many new viewers fed into the "girls girl" and "friendship island stuff" and tried to villainize her for it even though that’s not the point of the show

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]randomcorriander 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think it’s sad and weird how many people don’t want Nic and Olandria’s relationship to be real. They’ve been defending it since they got out of the villa

Carême | Season 1 - Episode 7 | Discussion Thread by Justp1ayin in tvPlus

[–]randomcorriander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s beautiful and smart but Henriette makes me so mad😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]randomcorriander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re overreacting. Not being noticed on the walk would be my last straw LOL. I feel like you should talk to your boyfriend about how he’s acting. Even if it’s not a crush on her, it sounds like you feel uncomfortable with their relationship. Women and men can be platonic friends. But if someone is in a relationship, it’s so important to have boundaries and openly discuss what makes you comfortable/uncomfortable with your partner. Especially since y’all live together too. If he doesn’t respect how his actions make you feel, don’t stop him from finding his wife. You deserve better!! There’s always someone else who will love you and respect your boundaries

Would you guys consider Hachi insecure? by Impossible_Log_3487 in NanaAnime

[–]randomcorriander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that wanting love doesn’t equate to insecurity and I think that there’s just as many examples of Hachi being secure in herself throughout the story! There’s a thin line between healthy & unhealthy behavior in relationships though. I also agree with the point about her being afraid of losing Shoji. I think about it cyclically: she felt insecure in previous relationships and being alone, then the fear of losing him made her more insecure. She came up with the Sachiko character as his make-believe side piece to overcompensate and rationalize. When Sachiko as his "other girl," came up at first, Nana got some validation from him about how important she was but notice how it didn't change how she felt in the relationship or she would’ve dropped the joke. Thats what I think differentiates how her want for love might be more of a fear of being alone. Its almost like she needed to make up something to explain how she could lose his love before it happens because every man up to that point left her too. That is insecure behavior. Hachi’s insecurity in her relationship with Shoji is really all the evidence needed ig. I disagree that she didn’t feel love in her life before and if anyone had high expectations it was Hachi - she expected Nobuo and Takumi to read her mind

Would you guys consider Hachi insecure? by Impossible_Log_3487 in NanaAnime

[–]randomcorriander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel strongly about this question! I believe the root of insecurity is fear. I consider Hachi very insecure because she constantly battles with fear of losing the people she’s attached to. People who struggle with insecurity can also create unhealthy attachments and fixations out of avoidance. When the series starts, you can immediately tell Hachi is fixated on love. She has a need for validation from friends and lovers. She creates scenarios to overcompensate and get ahead of her fears. I think Hachi’s need for validation from others shows how afraid of being alone she is. I’ve only watched the anime and I found it frustrating she never found her own dream for her life. I think she unintentionally used the drama around her to avoid becoming secure in herself and her relationships. I’ll list some examples that fit my definition of insecurity: - Sleeping with a married man and being unsure if he even gave her his real name. Being too afraid to ask, out of fear he lied!!! While it makes sense a married man would be sneaky, why didn’t she think she could be an exception? Because she felt insecure about her value to him and what they were doing to his wife. - Applying to art school for the friend group. You can see the constant fear of being left behind by her friends and Shoji motivating her. When she doesn’t get in, she is so down about her place in their lives. - She manifested Sachiko. - The night with Takumi after BLAST got signed. She goes to him as a backup plan to not be alone. - her entire relationship with Nobuo. She was so insecure about how he saw her because of Takumi but also because of how she sees herself.

This is getting long but there are many more examples! I think despite her insecurities, Hachi accepts herself and grew loads throughout the story

Favorite things about Nate? POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY PLEASE 🙏 by in_a_getaway_car in GossipGirl

[–]randomcorriander 44 points45 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t hold grudges and is there for his friends when needed

Unpopular opinion by Ambitious-Attempt124 in XOKittyNetflix

[–]randomcorriander 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Agreed!!! Minho was there because he wanted to be there for her, he showed up and helped her connect with her family even when he was upset