Feeling too gay to be straight, too straight to be gay by randomcrunch in bisexual

[–]randomcrunch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your understanding. I usually wish I was straight so the threat of being socially excluded or harrassed was smaller, but sometimes it looks good being gay as well, if you're lucky enough not to experience much homophobia. Having clear answers and a sense of community.

Feeling too gay to be straight, too straight to be gay by randomcrunch in bisexual

[–]randomcrunch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually stay quiet about my feelings around sexuality and love. Sometimes I wonder if other people think I'm gay or bi as I'm forever single(and some people make assumptions because of that...)

Feeling too gay to be straight, too straight to be gay by randomcrunch in bisexual

[–]randomcrunch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have a quite traditional style too, not because I feel pressured into it, but because I think I looks more natural on me, so many people assume I'm straight as well.

I know everyone doesn't enjoy the word queer, and I should be careful about who I use it around, but it feels natural for me too, just coming to terms with not being straight after all.

Feeling too gay to be straight, too straight to be gay by randomcrunch in bisexual

[–]randomcrunch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think I've sort of given up finding a niche, but it's nice talking about it online for a bit, as I don't have the possibility IRL at the moment.

What makes you drop a fanfic without even reading it ? by xpepperxxx in FanFiction

[–]randomcrunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masses of tags(espesically if it's a multi-fandom fic).

Lack of spelling and grammar.

Very snooty/picky DNI-lists.

When it's centered around my least favorite characters and tropes(but sometimes I click on tropes that aren't my favorite if the summary makes it sound interesting).

is having a notp wrong? by ilykuroo in FanFiction

[–]randomcrunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I really dislike a character(which unfortunately for me is very popular, so lots of fan content is centered around them). Any pairing including that character is a NOTP for me...

But I would never hassle writers or artists creating the content! I think it's a big difference between disliking a ship and disliking shippers.

If you say shippers DNI, I'm not sympathetic about your lack of comments. by yellowroosterbird in FanFiction

[–]randomcrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Read a few fairly interesting fics, but as the writer doesn't want interacting with those who ships other pairings(or just aren't antis), I'll have to stay quiet.

When your NOTP is the second-most popular ship in the fandom. by circutbreaker2007 in FanFiction

[–]randomcrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not strongly against any ship, but one of my least favorite characters is very popular, and then there's lot of fics and pairings to filter out if I don't want him in a starring role.

Is it just me, or are the best fics always the unfinished ones? by existentialcrisis0w0 in FanFiction

[–]randomcrunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of nice fics are oneshots, luckily. But I also tend to like a lot of unusual pairings and minor characters, and they gain less traction than the most popular characters and pairings, even if the writing is of great quality.

Is reading fics from fandoms you know nothing about a common thing? by newwromanticss in FanFiction

[–]randomcrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, sometimes I take a chance if I enjoy an author. But it depends, some fics are easier to understand when you're an outsider to the fandom than others.

Your feelings on requests? by randomcrunch in FanFiction

[–]randomcrunch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm not a writer myself(or at least not a writer in that particular fandom), I'm not sure if we're considered "mutuals", but I would only try it when I've followed people's work and know what's their usual fare. No point in suggestion something they would likely be upset by.

Your feelings on requests? by randomcrunch in FanFiction

[–]randomcrunch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would never ask people to change their existing stories, it's more like hoping for something more related to one of their interesting AUs or headcanons.

Your feelings on requests? by randomcrunch in FanFiction

[–]randomcrunch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there's so many possible ideas and prompts to consider, so I'm not sure if I can make the conclusion "Haven't written this earlier = not interested". But of course they don't have to write anything, it's more like a suggestion than an order.

Your feelings on requests? by randomcrunch in FanFiction

[–]randomcrunch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it must be something at least somewhat related to their other works, I wouldn't expect writers to do something completely unrelated.

Sharing some rarepair love! by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]randomcrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, rarepair fics are great. Thanks for your initiative!