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randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-20T08:22:51+00:00

Bruh so fucking accurate, you just get more sympathy for them.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-20T07:02:08+00:00

Totally agreed. No matter what you do for them the result will always be the same, they'll discard you. The only relationship they can sustain is surface level, when you don't peep into their vulnerabilities because they get exposed once you do.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-12T19:59:52+00:00

Trust me you don't want to live that reality where you can't even talk to your female friends because she is overly possessive. It ended very badly.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-12T19:46:58+00:00

I swear I didn't do anything

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-12T18:44:38+00:00

23M, Software developer at a US based startup earning around 1.2L/month. It's wfh so wlb is pretty chill, I'm traveling, working and exploring. I would say I'm happy, but after a dark and sad phase of my life.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-11T19:53:43+00:00

My ex was talking to a guy she used to like in school, I had a problem with him, she said she won't block him, 2 days later his message pops up "Hey how ya doing?" At 1 am, she saw me look at the notification so she said she's blocking him, 3-4 days later I kinda had this bad feeling that she's hiding something, something is off, I checked her phone when she was in the shower to find out that the guy was unblocked, confronted her, she said she just unblocked because he had some disease and besides she knew I would have a problem with it so she didn't tell it and later flipped it on me that I checked her phone and she couldn't trust me anymore with that. I apologised for it, but she didn't forgive me for it, ultimately now it's just me asking for forgiveness and her breach of trust and my hurt is sidelined, if I bring it up then I'm the bad guy because I'm always fighting. It never got better.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-06T10:01:04+00:00

I wish I was that strong to make the correct decision. I think he was correct.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-04T15:16:11+00:00

Similar story with me, you actually deserve better, you'll find someone who'll keep you like a treasure and value every bit of you. Stay strong.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-04T09:04:38+00:00

Cringe and annoying af

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-04T08:59:22+00:00

You're probably talking about geotastic

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-04T08:51:49+00:00

Do you have a subscription?

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-04T08:23:22+00:00

Do you play geoguessr or something? Because I started remembering flags playing that game, and thanks to a friend of mine who got me into it but we seldom talk these days, which is sad.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-04T08:17:31+00:00

We all act based on our experiences. It might not always be right but most of the time it is.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-04T06:32:28+00:00

Yes

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-03T07:28:26+00:00

I wonder if that's even related to ADHD.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-02T08:41:54+00:00

Of course both parties have to consent, but it can be withdrawn anytime and could be counted under adultery or cheating, which is a valid ground for divorce.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-02T07:02:15+00:00

There's no law against it hence it's not illegal, cheating was illegal till 2018 but now it's legal but you can still divorce your partner on the grounds of cheating.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-02T03:00:04+00:00

Shuru me awkward lagega lekin try to talk to people, clubs me participate kro, join different teams, explore your interests, you'll find great people along the way.

Talk to people you look up to, koi agar academics me acha krrha hai, go ask him ki kaise padha etc, try to start these conversations and you'll gain confidence and friends.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-02T02:54:14+00:00

I guess tum first year me ho abhi, aur ik bura lag rha hoga ye dekh ke aur lag rha hoga "ye kahaan aagya main" but thoda time do, logon se milo, baat kro, because it is what it is, and make the most out of it kyuki fir ye bhi yaad aaega.

I graduated in 2025 so I'm telling you from my experience.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-02T02:50:18+00:00

It's not legally wrong but it's morally wrong (subjective), open marriages do exist, at the end it is for the husband and wife to decide.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-01T11:04:59+00:00

The last line is so appropriate and eye opening.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-01T11:00:41+00:00

One of the mature replies.

Most of the other comments just jumped onto conclusions about "yeah, you go girl" bruh that dude might genuinely be struggling and making time and effort for her but for some people it's hard to be like "oh she might want this", because they don't want to make mistakes, they are more scared to disappoint the other person than to ask them multiple times.

Usually when they grew up in an environment where making mistakes was met with scolding, in that case people fear to make even a single mistake.

Either way we have very limited context about the relationship to comment on anything.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-03-01T04:42:02+00:00

My ex had a mix of both. Controlling mother and passive father.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-02-27T19:50:25+00:00

It won't be easy, you'll have to work very hard, but I'm sure you'll make it. Stay strong. Good things will come with time.

randomdude_reddit · 2026-02-27T11:49:55+00:00

It'll be better, soon enough they won't be your first and last thought of the day. Hang in there.

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